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How To Improve Your Chances Of Meeting 'The One'

1/19/2021

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Having trouble meeting the right person for you? Read 6 ways you can improve your chances of meeting that special person who could be your lifelong partner.
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Improve Your Chances Of Meeting Someone Special

​Unlucky in love? Still not met the right person for you? It can be frustrating, we know, especially when you despise being single. The last thing you should do, of course, is resign yourself to the notion that you might be single forever. Instead, you should do what you can to improve your chances of meeting that special person who could be a lifelong partner.


So, what can you do? Well, here are some suggestions that we hope you find useful.


#1: Trust your friends to help you

Your friends probably know you better than you think, so they might have ideas about who you could match up with. So, if they ever try to arrange a date between you and somebody they know, don't be too quick saying 'no.' It might be that they have somebody in mind who shares your interests and quirks, so let your friends play Cupid because true love could be right around the corner.

#2: Improve your online dating profile

Thanks to the internet and the wealth of dating sites and apps that are available, you have more chances than ever of meeting the right person. But if you're not getting many swipes or messages, it might be because of your online dating profile. The photos you have used may not be the most flattering, and it might be that you sound desperate within the 'about me' section. Ask a trusted friend to give your online profile a once-over and if they suggest improvements, consider their suggestions. Click the following link for more info about online dating and use the advice given. 

#3: Be less judgemental

It might be that you have been on dates with people in the past, or you may have considered asking somebody out on a date. But if things didn't progress in either scenario, it might be because of your judgemental attitude. You may have decided that you didn't like something about the other person, be it an aspect of their personality, looks, or lifestyle. We all do this, but our first impressions are sometimes wrong. Sometimes, we need to give people a chance, so if you know you have been too judgemental, try to be less reactive. When you're too fussy, you might rule out your chances of romance, and you might miss out on the person who could be the one for you.

#4: Find ways to meet new people

The only way you're going to meet somebody is by putting yourself out there. Admittedly, this is difficult at the moment with the pandemic restrictions, but you can still sign up to more dating sites and apps. When life returns to normal, you can also make the effort to be more social. Go out to parties when you're invited. Sign up to community classes and attend local events. Check out these ideas for meeting new people. And when you are in the company of others, talk to them. Put your phone down, introduce yourself to others, and have a good old-fashioned conversation. It might be that you meet somebody who will be the perfect match for you!

#5: Be a better date

Sorry to say it but you may have been unlucky in love because of mistakes you have made on your date. You may have made little effort with your appearance, and you may have talked about yourself a little too much. You may have forgotten to compliment the other person, and you may have been overly pushy with them about your need to find true love. These are all classic first date mistakes and should be avoided. So, be mindful when you are on a date with another. Take time getting yourself ready beforehand. Make every effort to compliment them. Ask your date questions about themselves, but don't get too personal on the first date. And be yourself, without coming across as desperate and needy. If your date goes well you might stand a better chance at another, and if things progress well, romance could soon follow. 

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It can take a while before we finally meet the right person, so don't lose hope or patience. Follow our suggestions and continue to browse our website for more advice. Get in touch for the coaching services that we can offer too, as you can improve your true love chances with our experienced advice. 

There will be a day when you do meet 'the one,' so even if that isn't today, don't give up hope on your chances for tomorrow. 
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Fast Love: How To Speed Up The Process Of Finding A Special Person

5/14/2020

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Read 8 Ways To Boost Your Chances At Finding Love
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Boost Your Chances At Finding Love


​While there's no time limit on finding love, staying single for a long time can quickly dampen your spirits. Besides, the sooner you find the person of your dreams, the more time you'll have together. So, if you want to find love, there's nothing wrong with wanting to find it fast.


It's impossible to force or rush love, but you can certainly give your chances a boost. Here are eight great ways to make it happen without placing unnecessary pressure on yourself.

#1. Learn To Love Yourself

Corny? Definitely. Still, you cannot possibly expect someone to love you if you don't even love yourself. Before seeking validation from someone else, you must first master the art of unlocking the best version of you.

Dating is a significant part of your life, but it needn't be the only defining feature. Chasing other goals, such as getting fitter or gaining a promotion at work, can be very rewarding. Aside from directly enhancing your life, it'll make you happier and self-confident. In turn, this makes you more attractive.

Quite frankly, without this strong foundation, the path to finding love will be a whole lot bumpier.

#2. Know Where To Look

There's no set guidelines on where you can or can't find love. A growing number of people are finding love online, but there are still plenty of places to meet people in the real world. Still, you must learn to look in the right locations.

Society has changed, and people are more likely to listen to a podcast rather than talk to people on their commute. Meanwhile, bars can be a little daunting. Sharpen your aim by using your career and hobbies as ways to meet like minded people. When you do, the hopes of meeting someone are greatly increased.

Alternatively, if using speed dating, choose a themed event you can get behind.

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Finding Love Online Is Only One Way


​#3. Make First Impressions Count


As humans, we actively make judgements within seconds of meeting people. Whether it's online or offline, you may only have a few seconds to grab a person's attention. So, while love isn't all about appearances, yours must count.

With this in mind, learning to take attractive photos for your dating profiles can make a big difference. Meanwhile, your posture and general body language deserve attention ahead of blind dates or approaching people at a bar. If you lose their interest right away, it's very hard to win it back.

Conversely, a great first impression will give you the confidence needed to make things run smoothly.

#4. Focus On Psychology

Physical attraction is, of course, an important part of the dating game. This is especially true in the early phases. Still, the mental and emotional elements can have a telling influence on any subsequent progress. Do not underestimate this factor.

You should research 'what is the scrambler mind game?' to gain a deeper understanding of the psychological edge. When you make yourself more desirable, your hopes of finding the right person are far greater. After all, there will be a bigger pool and a better chance of building relationships.

Besides, love is a meeting of the minds as much as it is a meeting of the bodies.

#5. Play The Numbers Game

As well as psychology, you can additionally place an emphasis on the idea of probability. While the fear of rejection is probably the worst thing about dating, it shouldn't stop you from seeking what you want. You score 0% of the shots you don't take.

The fact is that if you strike up a conversation with 100 people, you are far more likely to get a date than if you only ask one person. Once you start dating, exclusivity may become a key feature. Until that time comes, though, there should be no guilt about speaking to multiple people.

You don't want to waste six months chasing one person for it to go all wrong.

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Use Your Support Network To Meet People


​#6. Ask For Help


Only you can decide whether someone you date is the right person. Nonetheless, you do not need to face the process of finding that person alone. Your friends and relatives are an important support network that can aid the cause.

Most people won't want to tread on your toes. However, if you ask them 'do you know anyone suitable?' in the right way, they will help. They know your personality and looks as well as those of their friends and colleagues. If they are up for playing matchmaker, it could be an ideal way to find the one.

They'll probably speak to the other person first. So, you'll know that there is at least some interest.

#7. Make Dates More Memorable

Getting a date is one thing. However, if you want a second date to happen, it's vital that you give them a reason to want it. Aside from dazzling them with your wit and charm, why not focus on an event they'll love.

If you have a joint hobby or passion, use it. This could mean buying tickets to a gig or seeing a place you know they love. Otherwise, you can embrace the following fun date ideas that encourage you to have an enjoyable time, even without the ingredient of love. It also allows feelings to grow organically.

When a person associates spending time together with increased enjoyment, success is assured.

#8. Stop Worrying

It sounds crazy, but it's often the case that ending the active pursuit of love is the best solution. When you spend too much time thinking about it, the stress and pressure can stop you from being yourself. It also blocks what's right under your nose.

If you do meet the right person, that could signal the end of your bachelor life. So, use this time to enjoy the benefits of being single. Travel the world. Follow your passions. Do what makes you happy. You don't want to look back on this period and regret missing out on opportunities.

Aside from improving this stage of life, it supports any subsequent relationships you may enter.

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When You Can, Enjoy A Truly Unique Dating Experience

1/25/2020

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Dating doesn't have to be boring! Read more about how you can make your dates more interesting and memorable too!
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Try A Different Kind Of Date To Make It More Enjoyable



​It’s very easy for us to get too formulaic about this whole ‘dating’ process. First you meet someone in person or online, then you speak a little, then you go on a date, perhaps for a meal or bowling or something else active, and then you do that a few times. You’ll decide if you like the person or not, and from there, things may become a little more serious, if only just.


If this works for you, then you deserve to enjoy that process. There’s no reason why this can’t be a successful approach. And yet for some people, going through the motions simply isn’t enough. These are the people who actually wish for a good time on a date rather than ‘ticking all the boxes.’ We would recommend you try to see what it’s like to follow this path, a little off the beaten track. To do this, you have to provide your date an experience slightly out of the norm, and also provide that for yourself. This way, you may find your dating experience is much more memorable than it would have been otherwise.

Let’s see what this may look like:

Head On A Double Date

A double date experience with a friend can be a great idea, and it can bring with it a range of hilarious new memories. It can also take the bite out of a first date, be that the tense exchange you might have with someone new, or the artifice you may feel. When you can laugh as a small group and select the best double date ideas together, you have more of a chance of making a success from the evening. Approaches like this signify novelty, and more than anything, the willingness to have fun.

Show Them Something You Care About

Showing your date something that matters to you can be important. For instance, if you work in a museum, it might be that showing them around the private collections in a curated showing could be something you organize with your boss in your downtime, provided you work overtime to justify it. Don’t be afraid of bringing them into your world, be that culturally, through your passions or even profession. Sometimes shared passion can mean so much more than polite small talk.

Jump Into Their World

If you hope to bring them into your world, don’t be afraid to ask them to show you theirs. For instance, it might be that they’re a dancer, and would love nothing more than to see a show taking place in the city that weekend. If you can curate a date idea based around a passion of theirs, or to surprise them based on the information they have given you, they may just see how well you have thought this out. It’s always nice to learn and experience something new, even if it’s not your usual cup of tea.

With these date ideas, you’re sure to provide and gain a truly magical and novel dating experience.

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Revealed: The Top 5 Dating Myths Debunked

1/2/2020

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Read the top 5 dating myths to be ready for your next date!

You may not realize it, but there are many dating “facts” that are nothing more than fallacy. They might seem like they make sense, but in reality, they are untrue. If you’re new (or returning) to dating, you should make sure that you go into it knowing what’s the truth and what things are a load of baloney!

So, with all that in mind, take a look at these top 5 dating myths debunked for you here today:
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Know Fact From Fiction When You Are Dating


Myth 1: Online dating is for losers

Far from it! With today’s hectic work schedules and social calendars, it can often be challenging to find the time to do “offline” dating. The thing about Internet dating is that it offers a convenient way for like-minded people to connect, learn more about each other, and eventually meet up. More people turn to online dating each year, making its popularity increase all the time. So, no, online dating is not for losers. It’s for people that want a convenient and safe way to find love!

Myth 2: Online dating’s the only alternative to offline dating​

You may not realize it, but there are a few different ways you can connect and meet up with people. And certainly in a non-offline setting! Yes, online dating is perhaps the most common way to find people that you wouldn’t otherwise have met. But, there are other alternatives too.

For example, looking at thechatlinenumbers.com you’ll see that it’s possible to connect with others via telephone. And let’s not forget penpals, video, and mail-based dating services!

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It May Take Several Dates To Feel A Connection



​Myth 3: Not “clicking” on a first date is bad news

In many cases, if two people don’t click on their first meeting, it doesn’t always mean there is no “spark” there to develop things further. Often, it can mean that one of the pair is perhaps an introvert and anxious about making their feelings or intentions known for fear of rejection. In those cases, a few more dates between the pair might be needed before the less confident of the two plucks the courage to develop the relationship. Take a look at this interesting article from berkeley.edu on the subject.

Myth 4: First impressions always count

When you meet someone for the first time and hope to impress them, such as for a job interview, you’ll likely want to do some preparation first. You’ll also wish to dress for success. But, some people are quite confident by nature and don’t feel the need to “push the boat out” as the saying goes. To quote another saying, don’t judge a book by its cover. In other words, don’t assume what gets presented in front of you is the best that person can or will offer.

Myth 5: You shouldn’t listen to what other people think

When it comes to dating someone, it’s always a good idea to gauge the opinion of your close friends and family members. Sure, there will always be one person in your inner circle that thinks your date is a bad idea. But, if most of those people are saying the same thing, you need to reconsider your options!

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3 Tips For More Successful Online Dating

12/4/2019

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Do you struggle with online dating? Change your approach to online dating by following these 3 simple tips.
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You Can Be Successful At Online Dating


Online dating can be a real nightmare and some people swear it off completely. You have a huge range of potential partners that you can match up with but that inevitably means that you will end up going on a lot of bad dates with people that aren’t right for you at all. It can be quite exhausting after a string of terrible dates and you might decide that you’re just going to give up on it. But online dating isn’t necessarily the problem, it may just be the way that you are approaching it. If you follow these simple tips, you should have more success with online dating. 
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Choose The Right Sites 
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Most people go straight for dating apps like Tinder or Bumble, but they aren’t the only places for online dating. They don’t have a good reputation for finding long term relationships and even though some people do meet their future spouse on there, a lot of people don’t. But there are plenty of other dating sites out there that are better at matching you with people that want similar things to you. For example, the site arablounge match people from arab countries together. It helps them to find people that share the same cultural and religious values, which makes for better long term relationships. You can find all sorts of sites that match by religion or profession. Finding somebody that has a similar lifestyle and shares your values makes it a lot easier to meet people that you could see a future with. Spend some time exploring different sites and you will find that you are more successful. 

Make Your Profile Bio Specific 

When you write your bio, don’t just put boring interests like going to the cinema or taking long walks on the beach. Loads of people like doing those things but that doesn’t mean that they are the right person for you. If you want to attract people that you are compatible with, you need to be more specific. Write about what you want out of a relationship and what your core values are. Most importantly, try to show your personality in there so people have a real sense of what kind of person you are. With the right bio, you will get more matches from people that you are actually interested in dating. 

Be Efficient With Your Dates 

When you are online dating, you are always going to have bad dates, even if you follow the previous tips. The key is finding out whether somebody is right for you or not on the first or second date so you can move on and meet new people if the relationship isn’t going to go anywhere. You don’t want to wait until you are 3 months in before finding out that you are not compatible.  Make sure that you ask the right questions so you can get a real sense of who they are and what they want from a relationship. General chit chat about your hobbies might be fun, but it doesn’t help you get to know somebody properly. 

Before you give up on online dating for good, try changing your approach and you may find that you have more success.  



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Five Ways To Get Yourself Off The Singles Train

11/5/2019

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Are you tired of being on the singles train? Read 5 great tips to help you find the partner you desire.
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You Can Get Off The Singles Train If You Work At It


​Are you forever standing alone on the (figurative) platform while all around you, other people are holding hands, embracing one another, and gazing at each other with nothing but love?


Do you feel as if you are on the track to a life alone instead of a life with another?

We have some advice in this article if so, as you don't have to resign yourself to a one-way journey to singledom forever.

Consider the following suggestions, and let them lead you to more dates, the possibility of romance, and ultimately, the final destination that is marriage (if that is what you are looking for). 


#1: Give online dating a go

Chances are, you have probably tried online dating already. Especially if you are living a busy lifestyle, or if you are uncomfortable mingling with others in bars and clubs, online dating is a relatively easy way to see who is out there. From websites such as Match.com and Elite Singles to dating apps such as Tinder and OkCupid, there are all kinds of online avenues to explore. So, if you haven't already done so, give it a go and use these profile tips to give you greater opportunities for success when registering with a site or app online. And if you are already online, but haven't had a lot of success thus far, you might also use the linked tips to improve your online profile. 

#2: Be courageous and talk to people

Sometimes, you need to instigate a connection with another person. This can be done online, but remember too that you are surrounded by people on a daily basis. It could be somebody sitting opposite you on your train journey to work. It could be a colleague sitting in the next cubicle to you at the office. And it might be somebody browsing the books you like when you're next at your local bookstore. Rather than staying silent, and wishing you had the courage to open your mouth to the people you find attractive, actually say something. Just say hello, or ask them how their day is going. Should they reply, a conversation might start to flow, and while it might lead nowhere, it might also open up opportunities for further things. 

So, think about the people you might already know or see regularly and plan to speak to them the next time you're around them. Perhaps role-play conversations with a trusted friend if you lack confidence in what to say, and consider using mobile chat lines to hone your communication skills with others. Of course, with this latter idea, you might use also chat lines to find romance too, so check out the previous link for some useful tips.

#3: Attend local Meetup groups

Not only are local Meetup groups a great way to meet new people, but they also afford you the opportunity to meet the people who are into the same hobbies as you are. And by having common interests, you shouldn't have too much difficulty instigating and having conversations with others, as you should both have much to talk about. Visit Meetup.com for local hobby groups in your area, or use the platform to start a group of your own.

#4: Let other people play matchmaker

Think about the people who know you the best, and ask them to recommend or introduce you to other people they know who might be a good fit for you. And to make life easier for you, perhaps ask your friends or family members to invite you both to a social gathering where you will be able to meet and talk to each other in a natural and easy-going setting. You might then hit it off with that other person and arrange a time to spend more time together away from the company of others. 

#5: Find other ways to meet people with shared interests

If you have a particular passion for a local cause, you might want to volunteer at a charity group near you. If you are a fan of a particular movie, TV show, or music group, you might want to visit the appropriate fan conventions. And if you have always wanted to go back to school to learn something new, you might want to register for courses at a college near you. These are just some of the ways to be with people who have similar interests to you, and these are just some of the places where you might then find the courage to talk to the people you find interesting and attractive. 



So, what do you think? Are these ideas useful to you? By following our suggestions, you might finally have the opportunity to hop off the singles train and into the arms of somebody new. And hey, even if you don't, you might still make new friends, and they could lead you into the path of the person who could be 'the one' for you. 

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Getting Back In The Game After A Relationship Ends

5/9/2019

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Read some tips to navigate the dating world, when you are ready to start dating after a divorce.
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Moving On From A Divorce Can Be Difficult

​Are you struggling with your divorce? This can always be a difficult time in your life. It’s the end of a relationship that could have lasted years or even decades. There’s the possibility that you or your
partner was unfaithful and failed to live up to the marriage vows that you swore to uphold. The truth is that it can be tremendously painful to start dating again after you have been through a divorce. So, how should you handle this decision?

Can You Fix It?


You can start by asking yourself this question. It’s worth exploring the possibility at the very least, particularly if you don’t think that you have tried every avenue. You’re going to be more inclined to do this if you have been with your partner for longer. The instinct will always be to try and save the relationship no matter what.

However, you might find that your partner does not feel the same way. If that’s the case, you have no choice but to respect their wishes. You can fight for the relationship a little but if you have already reached the D word there is one thing to keep in mind. It’s honestly probably for the best. People don’t race to the divorce line unless something has gone seriously wrong or the
love simply isn’t there anymore.

Should You Tell The Person You’re Dating?

When you start dating again, you do need to think about whether you should tell the new person you’re seeing that you are either going through or you have just been through a divorce. That’s a tricky one because mentioning this might send the message that you are looking for a rebound. If that’s not what you’re after, you can spoil a lot of potential relationships this way. But if you don’t tell them, you can run into the issue of not remaining honest and starting off on the wrong foot.

In most cases, it is perhaps best, to be honest, but you don’t have to get them involved in the divorce process. Keep this separate until you are sure that the relationship is heading in a serious direction. It’s important not to fret too much about this. Mediate Buncombe have lots of happy stories about single partners that found love again after a rocky end.

Should You Try Online Dating?

If you are getting back on the field, you may want to consider exploring the online dating world. This isn’t for the faint of heart but there are certainly some nuggets of gold buried under the trash heap. You just need to make sure that you are not taking what people say completely at face value. Remember, the internet does allow fantastic possibilities for dating and it also provides a tool you can use to check people out. Find out whether they really are the manager of their own company or if they still live in their parent's basement. Not a fan of the digital dating realm? Not a problem, speed dating could be the perfect alternative and yes, it does still exist.

We hope this helps you navigate the dating world when you’re ready to move on from your divorce.

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Five Biggest Signs That Online Dating Is Right For You

4/4/2019

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Online dating is a great way to meet new people, even if you don't think you have the time to date. Read on to learn 5 signs that online dating is right for you.


We, Homo sapiens love to be loved. It's our inherent propensity. As our elders often describe that love is not something that you acquire by your crafting skills, but you embrace it with your dedicated emotion and heartfelt intuition. There is an ancient myth about love that it just happens to us. Like it is just a cosmic conspiracy but love doesn't always work in that way.

Love is more like an attempted initiative. We feel a certain ecstatic adrenaline rush within ourselves when love actually happens. To love and be loved, you have to have certain traits in your possession that serve your purpose when they are being needed. Not to mention, most of us if not every one of us deeply desires to be with someone. We fascinate ourselves in an alluring and romantic relationship where both live happily ever after. But detecting 'The One' for anyone is not entirely a very smooth operation. Sometimes it feels like a lifetime.

​But right now, we do have a tool to ease up our devoted efforts of finding a partner and that is 'Online Dating'. It offers you a huge number of alternatives to choose from. One of the many exciting dating platforms is DoULike.com. Many a site even provides various cross-matching opportunities so that we become aware of the opposite person a little bit beforehand. But if you're genuinely considering online dating, you just don't want to indulge in blindly. Eventually, there happens to be many reasons to confirm that online dating is just the thing for you. 
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Online Dating Is A Tool To Help You Find Your Match
 
1. IT'S HARD FOR YOU TO COMMUNICATE FACE TO FACE



Behaviour and etiquette function differently in different individuals. Some are energetic, some are erratic whereas some happen to be shy and wary in front of others. Many of us develop a habit of hanging out with the same crowd day after day. Consequently, we get into a precise comfort zone that we almost forget and overlook the tools to communicate with someone in person.


2. YOU DON'T GO OUT VERY OFTEN


We all get into a phase at times where we do not travel much, don't go out often and nonetheless, at those times we even don't try to attend any social events, and so we are less likely to meet new people. Thus, we become domesticated and feel more comfortable interacting with new people virtually. 
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Online Dating Is A Chance To Change Your Routine While Still Being In Your Comfort Zone
 

3.   YOU LIKE  TO COMMUNICATION BY TEXT
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​Due to a lack of self-confidence, some people are too afraid to make eye contact or any kind of face to face approach. They are intimidated to be in a public gathering, or in a face to face conversation with someone. They find that they are much more comfortable behind a keyboard, where there is no gesture of visual communication.  Online dating is a great way for this type of person to meet  new people.

4. YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A CHANGE
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Dating should also be fun. If you're had a heartbreak, or have been single for a long time online dating can be a fun way for you to start dating again. Some sites can charge a fee for a membership, but if you budget carefully or have the money to invest freely, this can be a great opportunity for you. 
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Start Dating Again Through Online Dating



5. YOU HAVE A VERY BUSY SCHEDULE

 In today's chaotic lifestyle, it's very easy to become overwhelmed in the process of daily life to consider dating. So many people have so little time after work, and with family commitments, errands, and hobbies there is very little spare time left.

Online dating has become one of the most convenient ways to search for a partner because the online dating sites work for you.  Using your search criteria, they work around the clock to find you  people that match your preferences. It doesn't matter what are you doing, you can find your compatible partner online anytime!
    

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Partner Hunting: Maybe You Need To Sharpen Your Aim

9/29/2018

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How do you meet the partner for you? Follow these dating tips to sharpen your aim to find your love match in this contributed post.

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​We don’t often think about it or even acknowledge it because it's just normal. We don’t want to limit our choice of partner so we leave the door open to many possibilities. We go out there onto the dating scene, hoping to find someone that we can be with for the rest of our lives. But stop, don’t you think that’s casting the net our rather wide? You’re just ‘hoping’ to meet someone that you can not only like, but love? Very rarely do relationships last where you are making a choice to cope with someone that you know, deep down you don’t like. Alas, many of us have fickle hearts and we believe or hope that we can change the person more into being like us in the future. That is ridiculous, you can’t change a tiger’s stripes. We need to accept people for who they are and not try to change them just to suit us and our feelings. So how on earth do you find someone that you can love? Well, for a start you should sharpen your aim.


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Sharpen Your Aim When Looking For Your Love Match
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​Networking circles from work


That old saying of, ‘if you’re single, go ahead and mingle’ is true of many public social gatherings. We always network at work, we need to. Meeting new people from our line of work and talking about things that mean a lot to us professionally is a great way to meet a potential lover. In fact, that’s how most relationships start off. You’re at work and suddenly someone who you considered a colleague or even as part of another company, make your heart race every time you see them. Well, rather than going out on the dating scene, how about start looking for someone who does the same thing as you for a living? You’ll have much more in common immediately and lots to talk about on the first date. The tension is also less because you know what they’re talking about and you can engage with them on a deeper level.
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Try Meeting Someone Who Has Some Of The Same Interests You Do


​Take an interest seriously


Those that take their hobby seriously, will end up having to mingle with new people eventually. Especially in sports, if you take it seriously enough you’ll end up wanting better equipment and a better place to play that sport. Take archery for example. If you take it seriously enough, you’ll want to join a club. At this club there will be people who have the exact same interest and have the same issues of improvement and equipment as you do. You’ll end up meeting someone that you would like and want to become more than just friends with. However the tension is already broke because you have been around each other a lot and focus on a joint or shared goal in the sport you play. There are dating websites that are specific in their outreach such as Muslim Dating. Such tools are great for finding people that are into the same thing as you and can narrow down what kind of interests you may have in common.


Instead of aiming broadly at a wild forest full of different people, why not just cut to the chase? Look for a potential partner in interests and professions that you yourself have love or like of.



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Dating Tips For Shy Guys

8/30/2018

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Are you shy and don't feel comfortable dating?
Read this contributed post which has 4 dating tips for shy guys who want to overcome their dating anxiety.


​There’s a common misconception that being shy has to get in the way of and ruin your dating life when that isn’t the case. Being shy doesn’t have to impact your dating success or be seen as a bad thing - we each have our own, very unique personalities and if being shy is part of yours, you need to learn to make it work for you.


Perhaps you don’t know how to talk to people who you’re attracted to? Maybe you’ve tried to make a relationship work in the past while hiding your feelings and it’s all ended in one big mess? What it’s important to remember is that your shyness is not your whole identity, it’s just one part of who you are as a person.

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Shyness Is Not Your Whole Identity, It's Just One Part Of Who You Are


The good news is that if you take note of the tips below, you can make dating that little bit easier (and more enjoyable) for yourself.

Understand that just because you’re attracted to someone that doesn’t mean they’re not a normal person

Regardless of how attractive someone is, they are just normal people. That’s the thing to remember because there’s no need to be shy when talking to just another person, is there? Picture this, you’re in a supermarket, you see someone cute in the aisle but are lost for words about how to introduce yourself, but when you’re at the counter with the cashier you’re happy to chat away. These two people are no different from each other - that’s what you need to understand.

Make friends who are extroverts

You’re an introvert and that’s cool but make friends with people who are extroverts. Studies have shown that it’s easier to relax when you’re around louder people who like to be the centre of attention because that takes the pressure off of you. You’ll find chatting with people that you’re attracted to, far easier in this kind of setting.

Date online

To build confidence in yourself, spend some time online dating and using services like https://www.guyspyvoice.com/phone-free-trial/gay-male-chat-coverage to meet people. Dating can be daunting but the more people you chat to, either online or over the phone, the more your confidence should grow. As your confidence grows, you should start to feel less shy when it comes to talking to people who you’re attracted to.

Let go of the bad

If you've had bad dating experiences in the past, you need to stop holding onto them and let them go. If you don’t let go of the bad experiences that you’ve had, they will haunt your dating life forever and make you shyer than you were before. It’s important to realise that everyone has bad dating experiences but that they don’t have to define your future of dating.

When you’re a shy guy, dating is not always an easy task, but if you take note of the tips above and implement them in how you date, you can make landing yourself a partner a slightly easier task.

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