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7 Ideas for an Amazing Wedding Day

7/20/2021

Planning a wedding can be hard and everyone wants something unique. Here are some ideas to help mix things up and give you a day to remember.

Consider Sharing Some Fun Facts About You Both With Your Guests

Fun Facts

A lot of the people at your wedding probably haven’t been privileged to know all of the details of your relationship, this is the perfect time to share them. We don’t mean the embarrassing details of the best man's speech, but you can share some details on napkins. It is easy to get custom napkins printed with little facts about the happy couple which can share some more of their journey together than the best man ever can.

Family Desserts

Having a wedding means two families are joining together and what can be a better way to celebrate than bringing the family recipe to the wedding? If your family has a signature dessert or sweet treat, ask the ladies of the families to contribute a dessert each that everyone can enjoy at the reception. Although, if you are having a small wedding and don’t want a caterer, you could ask each family member to cook up a dish and create the entire reception around the favorite family recipes.

Fun Drinks

While you are getting your photos taken, the guests are left to fend for themselves with cocktail hour. This is a great chance to do something a bit different. Rather than have just plain wine, why not try big jugs of cocktails or even some little umbrellas to make it that little bit different. You could even create a cocktail bar so that guests can create their own drinks while they wait.

Big Flowers

Some brides like to keep their flowers small, and this is ok, but this doesn’t mean that you have to. You could add anything you want to your flowers such as feathers, reeds, or even just some large flower types. As long as you can hold it, there should be no limit to the flowers in your bouquet.

Frozen

We aren’t talking about the Disney movie, but if you want to do a Frozen theme we won't judge you. What we are talking about is having an ice cream display for you guests. This is really great during the summer when everyone might be overheating in their formal wear, and it is perfect for little kids who need something to enjoy while the adults have their wine and cocktails.

Lean into Your Culture

Do you or your groom have an ethnic background, even just a tiny bit? The joining of families means the joining of cultures and history. Boho weddings are great for blending cultures and you could try this Bohemian dress guide for inspiration. So, if you have a certain heritage, why not lean into it a bit? You could have a floor display of dancers, or a musician to play some music.

Locations

Throughout your relationship, there have been plenty of places that are important to you. At your wedding is a great place to share these with people. You could include them in your fun facts or use them as something else entirely, such as a board with a timeline and your favourite places on it. This is a great idea for couples that have travelled a lot as you also get the chance to show off those travel snaps.

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How Does it Feel to Have Phone Sex With Strangers?

7/16/2021

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Would you like to try having phone sex but don't know where to start? Continue reading to learn some tips and where you can go to connect with like minded people.

Phone Sex With Strangers Can Be Fun

There’s one thing that most people learn when they’re alone that they never thought was possible. That’s the absolute fact that phone sex with strangers is a whole lot of fun. You get to talk about all of your filthiest fantasies with someone who’s just trying to have a good time with you. You don’t have to worry about what they think of you and you don’t even have to get their name right. You just talk about whatever you want to talk about and they have fun with you. In fact, you don’t even have to be alone to learn this.

NYMag has a whole article about a woman in a sexless marriage that got herself addicted to phone sex with strangers. It doesn’t matter how odd it sounds. It’s true and it’s something that any person in the world can do. All you need is a phone and you’re off and running. You can have some fun and never have to talk to the other person again. You’ll never have to worry about the way that you’re coming off because you’re only interacting with this person for an hour or so and then you can both forget that each other even exist.

The Dirtier, The Better

The one thing to keep in your mind is that the dirtier you can get with your phone sex, the better it’s going to be. That’s just how it is and you get to benefit from it. If you can let yourself go and really let your sexuality come out to play, then you’re going to give your phone sex partners an experience that they enjoy and would gladly come back to try out again. If you want to know just how dirty you can get, just think about porn. If there’s something that’s over the line for you, it’s probably going to be going too far. Other than that, everything is on the table.

This woman talks about how dirty you have to be if you want to be a professional phone sex provider. If you take her cues, you’ll be able to get dirty without having to hold yourself back. Just ask yourself if the sex act seems like it would be fun for both of the people involved. If the answer is yes then you know that you’re on to something really good that you should try out.

How to Have Phone Sex

Don’t think that you can just get on your phone and start talking, though. That’s not going to get you very far. It’s a good idea to at least have a passing understanding of what constitutes phone sex and what’s just going to be blabbing with someone. You’ll have to pay attention to how they’re reacting to find out what they like and what’s going too far for them. You’ll also have to know when to send nude pics and when not to send them. It all depends on how deep into the phone sex you happen to be and where the other person is.

If you need a good primer, Cosmopolitan had a really good article when it comes to having phone sex. Just think about the kind of people that the article was made for. It was written for women who want to have phone sex. If you can dial into what they’re saying, you can give the women exactly what they’re looking for. It will make you the perfect stranger for them to get naughty with when they want to explore their own desires over the phone.

Find Out Where The Strangers Go

If you’re already sold on the idea of having phone sex with strangers then all you need to do is find someone to have it with. There are lots of different places that offer it, but you can cut through all of that noise and find the best place for all of your phone sex needs. If you check out Arousr then you’ll be greeted with as many different people as you could ever want to have phone sex with. The best part is that you can see what everyone looks like before you decide to spend any time on them. That’s going to give you the freedom that you really need. You won’t have to wonder what she looks like when you’re talking to her. She’s going to have a pic on her profile so you know exactly how hot she happens to be. That’s going to make the phone sex much better than it would otherwise be. On top of that, these are women who love to do it. You’ll never find a more enthusiastic stranger to have phone sex with. Once you experience it, you’ll be back over and over again.

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How to Stay Safe From Online Scams

7/13/2021

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Do you know how to avoid online scams? Keep reading to learn 4 tips to help you navigate the internet safely.

Some Online Scams Can Look Very Real

The majority of us love being online, but many of us are also victims of online scams, which really can be a pain. Some of them are so sneaky and look so real; you have to be really vigilant to spot where the actual ‘giveaway’ is that it is not, and other scams make themselves known a little more easily.

Either way, avoiding them all together would be the ideal outcome, so we have put together some top tips on how you can stay safe from online scams while you enjoy the internet in all of its glory.

Privacy Settings

Keeping on top of your privacy settings is one of the easiest things we can do to protect ourselves online, yet many of us either do not use them or do not know how to use them properly. That being said, alongside the awareness of new privacy settings and how they can help, around 80% of users from a small DuckDuckGo survey had adjusted their settings in the past 12 months, in 2019. The awareness is rising, but users really need to sit down and learn about what these privacy settings mean and who they can keep out.

Ignore Unsolicited Messages

The chances of someone sliding into your DM’s to offer you money for no reason is on the rise, but the authenticity of these messages is not. If you get a message from someone you do not know, someone who has no friends on their profile, no interactions, and a picture that has only been uploaded one day ago, the chances are they are not who they are pretending to be, which will also mean they are probably pretending to offer what they are offering. A common version of this is people posing as princes or sugar daddies.
Beware Of The Sugar Daddy Scam, as it can seem pretty ‘harmless’ even if they do not appear to be real. They have a very systematic approach to receiving money from you and taking back any they gave you.

Keep Your Passwords Strong and Safe

Passwords are becoming easier and easier to hack. Password123 might have, at some point, been relatively safe, but opting for anything obvious that does not have a unique mixture of capital letters, numbers, and symbols is a disaster for you and a hacker’s dream come true.

If you are not good at remembering passwords or making up strong and safe ones, then you can use a password generator and password manager to keep on top of them. If you save them in the Google Keychain, they will also let you know if your password has been breached.

Keep Your Software Updated

Software updates are there to keep our chosen software working as best as it possibly can. And while we might automatically think of improved speed or more features, there are also vital improvements made to security which, if not implemented, could be a massive ‘in’ for those looking for one. Avoid giving immoral opportunists the chance to get into your device by making sure all of your software is regularly updated.

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