FROM FRIENDS TO LOVERS: STOP BEING HER EMOTIONAL COOKIE MAN EBOOK
PLEASE NOTE THIS PRODUCT IS A DIGITAL EBOOK
This is the new digital eBook version for 2017.
It has been updated and revised, with new terminology, but it's still filled with true, honest, information that you have come to know and expect from Frank Kermit.
BONUS: 100 pages of new material in this 2017 edition! You have the opportunity to read published articles, and excerpts from 4 of Frank's eBooks.
Are you an Emotional Cookie Man?
Are you 'just a friend' to a woman you secretly wish would be your lover?
Are you like a therapist to her?
This book teaches men stuck in the 'Friend Zone' how to break free and stop being the Emotional Cookie Man!
How to turn your female friend into your lover even when she has rejected you in the past.
Why would a woman rather date and have sex with a stranger, than a male friend she had known for years?
What emotional needs are you violating?
Why doesn't she see you as a sexually available being?
Learn the difference between a real female friend, and a woman that uses men.
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Book Introduction by Will H
My Mother told me that it was an extreme honor when someone asks you to write an introduction or forward to their book as she was asked by one of her colleagues at work. When Frank asked me I took it as an extreme honor because of our friendship and the caliber of person that he is.
Once Frank becomes your friend he’s there for you through thick and thin, rain or shine. He also makes sure he stays in communication with all his friends as well as open doors for you through friends he has that may be able to help you in any way.
I remember when I first met Frank Kermit back in 2006; we were speakers at the same event held in Canada. Frank, the gracious person that he is, reached out to me first and introduced himself and with that gesture started what would be a unique life long friendship. He always kept me in the loop with everything he was doing including his radio shows which I had the pleasure of being a part of on more than 1 occasion.
The most memorable show for me was the New Years Eve show we did together. This was one of the funniest hours of my life. We talked about everything from where to go, where not to go, the mindset that you need to have etc. The show was professionally done, as is everything the man does. We found over the course of that hour that we had many things in common, even though we each had our own unique methodologies and delivery systems with which we conveyed our messages. In other words, that show helped cement our friendship.
We’ve shared many private moments off the air also, friends talking shop, giving advice, trying to help out guys that need it the most. There are a lot of pretenders out and I can say not just with my own experiences but out of the mouths of countless others that Frank Kermit is no Pretender. His body of work speaks for itself and I’m honored to be a part of that great body of work.
When Frank speaks it’s always from the heart and he’s speaking from experience. He genuinely doesn’t want you to make the same mistakes as he did or take some of the roads that he’s traveled. I’d say he generous to a fault with an infectious smile and as cool as the other side of the pillow.
Once you enter his world, Frank becomes your mentor, coach, confidant, counselor and most importantly Friend. So enjoy what’s about to happen next. There will probably be things along the way that you disagree with or don’t like but you’ll always appreciate where they’re coming from that I can assure you. Also know that Frank Kermit wouldn’t have you do something that he wouldn’t do himself.
Dating Coach, USA
I love this book! Frank Kermit goes deep into the emotional reasons why women would simply wish to be friends with men.
The text in the book is presented in the same no-bull, no-mercy approach that Frank uses so well and so effectively in his teachings. The hard truths presented about the emotional cookie man make me realize just how much counter-productive behavior I am presenting in my budding love life. As always, reading Frank’s book gave me an entire new perspective on women and provided me with the know-how and the motivation to change myself for the better.
I could not imagine the hours of practice, heartbreak and pain it would require for me to understand these admittedly complex concepts. It allows me to see exactly why high value men portray the behaviors they do, what pitfalls they are actively working to avoid, and exactly why women will be drawn to certain types of men. And what’s more, it gives me power to become that man.
I could not recommend this book more even if you are getting dates sometimes. This book will definitely contribute to getting you dates ALL the time.
-Fabian F., Toronto
A review from a former adult male virgin who studied my programs for Adult Male Virgins, From Friends To Lovers program, and my Social Circle Building program as well as understanding my Emotional Needs Theories.
Dear Frank - It's working!! In the past few weeks my social circles reached some kind of critical mass, and I am suddenly meeting more quality women than ever before without a lot of effort other than showing up to thing after thing.
Last night I had sex with a girl who had been a close platonic friend for almost a year. I was really uncomfortable pushing the relationship into that region for some reason, but remembered what happened with women I didn't make a move when it was time, and your coaching provided motivation to take the necessary actions.
This was exactly the kind of non-drunken sex I had talked about, always wanted but did not get until now and it felt great. I am really happy with the direction this is going. In 2013, I'd like to schedule more regular sessions and make sure I am keeping this momentum going.
-Samuel P. from St. Paul,Minnesota
Wow! That's all I can say about your degree of work involving women. I have been in the community of personal development for about 6 months. I have made some great progress, but I wasn't satisfied with who I was taking advice from. I kept falling back into the same old guy that is her emotional cookie man. By the way, what a great read that book is, I purchased it yesterday and finished it today. I'm blown away with your knowledge and actual psychological research, that is what I have always wanted.
I'll give you my catharsis. Met a girl about a year ago, she was in town visiting her mom. She lives in California and I live in Texas. We hit it off that weekend, didn't sleep with each other or kiss, but we had a great connection. She went back and we talked every day. I didn't think that it was going to work, so I was really vague in my messages, and I was talking to other girls at the time too. Within 2 month's of us talking she said that she loved me. I was kind of scared with this, because I had barely knew her and we hadn't even kissed.
So a month goes by and she comes back out to visit and stays a week for xmas. We finally get to kiss and I take
her back to my place, and we start making out and she turns her head, she doesn't tell me to stop but it was her signal to stop. I think that she is nervous and doesn't want to be "that" girl so I back off. She does it again the next night and the next night. We had a great time, but I never got to sleep with her. She was leaving and texted me that she wish that I would have slept with her. I was confused at what happened. I figured she didn't want to appear to be too easy and I realize that women want to protect that. So a few weeks go by and we start talking less, and less. I send a message and I am lucky to get a response. I realize that I have come across as needy, because I did. So I decide to give her the speech, "I don't want to be friends or your gal pal, but if you change your mind text or call." A month of no contact went by and she up and messages that she misses me and she is sorry about everything. Grant it I am really only about a month in of figuring this stuff out. We start talking again little by little, but I notice that there is a strange thing between her.
So I encourage her to message me 80% of the time, and its worked out so far, but I've noticed that she will message me only when she is drinking or having fun. A few times she has called me to chat, one time I was talking to her about sex and she said "I'm glad that we didn't have sex because I get really attached after I sleep with someone..." This is right after she told me that she was laying in bed naked. Sorry this is long winded but your book took my level of understanding to a new level. I know that she is only talking to me now because I am her emotional cookie that is a treat for her when she needs to hear that she is pretty. I am not going to be involved with a relationship that is sexless anymore!
Thank you Frank! I intend on buying some more of your books in the future. Great work!
-J. L., Lubbock Texas
This is a review of From Friends to Lovers: Stop being Her Emotional Cookie Man (ECM). In a nutshell, Frank's book, is the Frank advice that your parents should have given you on "How to make sure women don't treat you like a doormat."
Growing up I heard two things from my well-meaning parents about dating and girls. 1) The girl you're meant to be with will like you for you, so don't worry son, you just haven't met the right girl yet (Interestingly, this is what most girls who put you in the friend zone will say as well); and 2) always treat women with respect.
These two pieces of advice aren't necessarily "wrong", but most parents just aren't equipped to convey to truth behind those words, or what it takes to get a girl to "like you for you".
Most of our dads are just as clueless about what women want as we are. Dad's just passing on the bad advice he got from his parents. And our moms, well, our moms aren't going to pass along what women really want because they're protecting their reputation as YOUR MOM. Your mom doesn't want you to think of her as a woman, she so ain't gonna give you the real scoop. All of us generally are grossed out by the thought of our parents having sex. We can't handle it. Our moms aren't going to give us the real scoop cause they know we "can't handle the truth."
As such, as a kid or teen, we are really not worldly enough to interpret this advice as it should be interpreted. And the result is that many, if not the majority of men, have to learn the hard way, that bending over backwards for a woman is not the correct method for generating feelings of sexual attraction in a woman.
If you're like me, you never really learned the lesson even though time after time, just like me, you were put into that friend zone. Even after that girl you thought was so awesome said over and over again, "I just want a nice boy." Even though that girl, who just wanted a nice boy, slept with "that guy" who all of her friends knew just wanted her for sex. Even though that girl went back to that guy time and time again, even though he was a total jerk to her. Yes, even after all of that, you were still too thick to get why you ended up in the friend zone.
If that's you, then this material is MEANT for you. You will come away from this material thinking to yourself, "How could I have been so mislead and blind? Of course, it all makes sense now!"
Frank uses his Emotional Needs Theory of women to convey just how it was you ended up in the friend zone in the first place. He provides you with the path to get out of the friend zone. But the road is long and arduous. After all this is Frank Advice. It's not an easy path at all. And like me, some of you may have already blown any chance at all at getting your would-be girlfriend to see you in a different light.
Ultimately, Frank tells you what you don't necessarily want to hear. That after your long journey of transformation, most likely you'll come to realize that she has changed, or was never the girl you thought she was in the first place. Either way, you'll come to the realization that there are many other women out there who are within your reach and far out-class your old unrequited love.
And it's this mind-set of abundance that is the real benefit of the Friends-to-Lovers journey on which you wish to embark. Listen, read, and learn how to think the right way about your love life. I highly recommend this material for any guy who wants to avoid the friend zone and not waste endless years of his life on a girl who has no respect for him as a man.
Take it from me, I wasted 13 years on my "love". Think of all the great women I missed out on. Don't miss out on those women too. It's never too late!
Buy the audio program or buy the book!
-P. G., Netherlands