Frank Talks With
on her podcast about
Coping With Loss when it comes to Relationships
On The Bell Let's Talk Radio Special,
Frank talks with Dr Laurie Betito and comforts a suicide survivor. John is a father whose son committed suicide and Frank helps John with some of his feelings of survivor guilt.
Frank talks about his article
The Suicide Mind
Frank Kermit always has a refreshing way to bring people to reality. His advice are challenging but at the same time so coherent. He was patient, understanding, neutral (not taking sides) and his insights couldn't fit any better with the situation.
Thank you Frank for taking the time and put in the effort to help me sort my inner mess. I think everyone needs to at least have an hour talk with you. I'm always looking for ways to improve myself and your tips couldn't be more welcomed. Hope you touch other people's life's in the same positive way that you did.
Good luck for the future and looking forward to more books from you.
-Review by Alexandr B. in Montreal
Frank! I want to let you know that if anyone deserves to have an amazing day today it is you.
You have had such an incredible impact on my life and helped me make drastic changes in my character and identity that I never thought were possible when I studied your material.
The idea that I could actually be HAPPY right now in the middle of a pandemic when back in 2007 and earlier I was on the verge of suicide and hating myself absolutely blows my mind. Know that the effect you have on the world is astronomical.
No matter the outside circumstances always remember that. You are f'n awesome
Thanks so much for working with me, you are VERY effective and have a lot of natural talent in this area. I really appreciate everything you do and look forward to working with you. Thanks for helping me discover the two 'issues' that have been holding me back my whole life. I have studied all forms of psychology and read and listened to a tremendous amount of self help books and audios.
I even dated a practicing Masters Degree Psychologist and had many talk and no one even mentioned the possibility of these problems. I'm very excited to discover and get these issues solved once and for are. You are truly, amazingly talented at what you do.
And it only took you 1-1/2 hours to discover these issues while it took me a lifetime to get to this point.
I'm looking forward to working with you and would encourage anyone, no matter what your problems are and no matter what their history is (Frank has heard it all) to give you a call and discover and work through their issues quickly and effectively in order to get a better life. Thank you so much Frank
-Review by Travis, Minnesota
I highly recommend Frank's personalized coaching. His emotional needs analysis theories are sound and testable. His style is direct and brutally honest without being judgmental. His insight and knowledge are truly a gift to the world. The results speak for themselves.
I have learned to communicate and connect with women in a much more meaningful way. I have a confidence now that cannot be shaken. Feelings of anger and frustration have dissolved. Franks coaching has taken me from a painful breakup to sexual abundance in a matter of weeks.
He has taught me how to think about relationships in a way that works. I cannot say that about any other material or methods I have studied.
Frank, You don't know the help you have done to me. Thank you.
You have really saved my life. I was going to kill myself, and now I'm way better than I was before.
Sometimes life sucks. There is always a lesson to be learned. No failure. All that I can do now is to let you know that you have really changed people's lives.
I don't need to tell you that you are great, you already know that. Things can always get better. If you can make it through the night there is a brighter day.
God bless you Frank Kermit. I sincerely wish that things get better than ever for you. It will.
Frank, you said you find value in having general feedback like this in written format so you can look at it. I think I can express myself best this way anyways.
I was thinking about this earlier today (your last day in Toronto) and I concluded that I think you've had more influence on shaping my life as it is now, than anyone else I know outside of myself.
Sure, the emotional needs and many of your teachings, pass through my head in one way or another constantly and that alone would a lot. And sure, a lot of the lifestyle choices I've made were based on advice or learning about myself that I got with your guidance, but the impact you had on me personally was also largely due to your taking chances on me, that forced me to grow up.
Actually it was obvious you were the real deal after my first conversation with you, where you already started giving me advice that would later prove to be invaluable. Strangely, that exact piece of advice ("It's about making people feel good.") is still something that helps me every day.
After our first meeting I continued to bounce around through all the endless material out there. Struggling to fix myself and being constantly exposed and taught by my own weaknesses. Eventually I decided it was time to settle down and choose a way, and I chose the emotional needs and discarded the rest. It was the dead of winter and I entered into what I call my "dark night of the soul" period. Under your guidance I began to go super deep, got the help I needed, and did change work I would have thought impossible.
It's how I can believe in your work so much: I dredged up every horrid and ugly thing I could out of my mind, and you and your work were there with me as I did, like someone holding a patients hand as they fight to survive.
I stepped back into the work like a new born after that. Just started small, going to bookstores... trying little things here and there. Seeing all kinds of things that were hidden before.
Cut to almost a year later and my lifestyle in completely different because of decisions I was able to make and take responsibility for. I did the growing, (which I'm still doing) but you gave me something I couldn't get on my own and that was someone believing in me and being a kind of friend I didn't know existed. Most importantly, being a mentor. I honesty believe if I hadn't met you, I'd still be a boy.
It's funny and really ironic now, that I naturally don't want to talk of having and loosing virginity, having a mentor, or studying emotional needs because YOU showed me how those things are often unattractive. But I'll see if I can suspend my persona "Art" long enough to just point out that "Art" is a son of "Kermit" and owes a lot of his attractiveness to him.
At your last supper in Toronto with all your students, you mentioned tonight that on some level you didn't really want to leave this city, despite it's flaws. Well, in my opinion, you'll never completely leave because at least in my world, you helped shape this city, just like you helped shape me as a man.
We'll see ya next time you're in the flaky city Kermit.
-Review by Art D.,
Toronto, Ontario Canada
I loved your line the other night of..... "don't be hard on yourself... cause life will do it for you"... (wham knocking us down lol). Just the though of you swatting down kept me laughing all week.. Andddddd how true is all of that!!! We have to deal with controversy and dealing with people everyday..and if we add on US...OURSELVES being HARD on us.. we sure take a beating!! Yet again you provided another Ahhh Haa moment.. and I didn't realize it until Monday..!
I feel that you are soooo close to really good things happening for you! I was talking to other students of yours on the bus and I said that in person you are hilarious and on the radio you seem serious. I didn't understand why.
You have a way of SAYING SOMETHING SOOOO OBVIOUS and it just rings home sooo clearly. It really is a gift! And humor always works. Relationships and problems can be so serious and humor just breaks everything away.
I've dealt with a few things this week.. and your words of wisdom have totally helped me through it. The standing up for myself... the recognizing other peoples beliefs that don't work with mine.. and IF and HOW they affect me working with or for them.
All it takes is one good person to put you ahead. I worked at CBC and Celine Dion and her manager walked into our office with their first video (we were a Video show - Video hits). After she visited with our office she went into the head of TV Variety .. and there that woman introduced Celine Dion to David Foster.. and because of THAT connection she catapulted to where she is today. Life is that way.
-Review by Carolyne B
Montreal, Quebec, Canada
I noticed recently that I'm finding myself able to cope with life and situations that come up more and more. I still don't see the light at the end of the tunnel, but I use your work as a torch to see my steps. For this I wanted to say thank you. Without your work, I wouldn't be able to cope as well as I am now. I can imagine how hard it must have been, and how long it must have took to go through this journey for you, and for you to come up with such an original work must have been very difficult to say the least. I am glad you are alive and able to help so many. I just wanted to do my part and say thank you.
I couldn't imagine how or what I would be months or years from now if I hadn't discovered your work. I know plenty of people out there strive to make a difference, I'm just glad that you are one of them. I just wanted to tell you as a show of gratitude in the near future I'll buy various more of your products to help support your work.
-Review by Robert,
When I broke up with my first boyfriend I thought that it was my fault; like I had either done something wrong or didn’t do something right in the relationship.
I told a friend of mine that I was feeling confused about the relationship so she suggested attending Frank Kermit’s relationship group. I wanted to get a better understanding of what being in a relationship all about.
I learned from being in Frank’s group that I wasn’t the fault of the relationship going wrong. I also learned that I lacked the self confidence in myself to be able to see that the failed relationship wasn’t my fault.
Believing in myself didn’t come easily. It took me a long time but now I have more faith in myself than I did before.
Today, I have a partner who understands me and supports me even when my insecurities pop up from time to time..
-Review by Cindy M.,
***A very intense review of private coaching came in this morning:
My boyfriend committed suicide.
Without my saying anything, Frank recognized right away that to talk with him would help. He has the kindness of a good friend combined with the exquisite expertise of really knowing.
He immediately cut to the chase of what was going on, but without malice or pointing a finger. He dispelled my deep worry about me being the cause of it or because we had argued. He really knew about the affect of suicide
and could give me specifics that were amazingly helpful.
He reminded me of how both people in the relationship have a responsibility for the relationship and for themselves. He gives you tools, concrete suggestions that you can do immediately or in the situation. This is so empowering.
He has a calmness: a patience, and an acceptance of you and the situation that puts you at ease. I felt so respected and accepted. Afterwards, I felt a deep calmness myself that I haven’t felt in a long time. I feel
stronger in the best parts of myself. I feel more hopeful than I have in a long time.
Thank you, Frank. We need more of you in this world.
-Review by Anonymous
Montreal, Quebec, Canada
Review: My meeting with Frank was quite interesting, it helped me to clearly identify and pinpoint what went wrong in some particular relationship situation. Especially in knowing how to cater to the little girl inside her. This is really powerful, it will have a significant impact going forward. The other topic is to set expectations by establishing my life plan. Actually, I have one, but I wasn't really sure about sharing it or when to share. Basically the sooner is the better and again this is another powerful tool. There are few more adjustments that I'll do too in terms of complimenting my future girlfriend. I wasn't aware that those few things were so important for women.
-Review by Male MatchMaking Client
For the last 3 months I had been dealing with a near traumatizing experience that was challenging everything my identity stood for. There was a constant war of thoughts inside my head which consumed me and was affecting my relationships in the bedroom, as a student, friend and person. I was anxious, my mood kept changing and I was trying to fight this battle by myself because I did not know who I could confide in or ask for guidance. This was an issue I didn’t think I could talk to about with anyone.
I had studied Frank's books in the past and knew that one of the principles that drives his philosophy as a person was protecting the reputations of others. I decided to confide in him how I was feeling and ask for advice.
Just talking about what I was going through was so anxiety relieving.
Furthermore, he knew exactly of the thoughts that were going through my head and was able to offer so much helpful advice. Through a long discussion and somewhat emotional discussion he was able to help me come to terms with my mental battle. I have not felt this good in months, my energy has lifted, I feel more happy and just enjoy life a lot more!
Thank you FRANK!
-Review by Jared,
Frank is worth traveling for! One of Canada's best kept secrets is Frank Kermit's coaching. I have been attending these life-changing workshops and I travel a considerable distance simply because they are more than worth it. Attending Frank Kermit's coaching has been an eye-opening, life-changing experience. Through Frank's coaching, I have come to read his articles, read his books and listed to his audios and am quite honestly 'blown-away'.
His wide knowledge base, his real-life experience and his easy, informative and entertaining manner make Frank unlike any other relationship coach; he is so much more than that. It is my deep desire to get a firm grasp on my personal relationships once-and-for-all, and if that rings true for you too, I urge you to hire coaches. You simply cannot go wrong. There is always something new to learn, and most importantly, to put into practice Frank has a deep, profound understanding of what makes relationships tick.
That, and the simple fact that Frank knows how to teach and entertain in such a unique and creative way, you'll always walk away with more and more real-life skills; I know I have. He leads his coaching adeptly through stories, exercises and by example, and he shows how to date with integrity and confidence. He even shows how to spot the 'red flags' of problem dates early on, saving you valuable time and heartache.
Frank teaches how to rid your life of limiting beliefs and patterns. You learn to heal old hurts and wounds to make way for new-found knowledge, confidence and ultimately powerful, effective relationship skills. I am truly grateful to be lucky enough to experience his work first-hand.
You have to ask yourself not if you can afford to work with Frank but rather can you afford not to work with Frank? I urge you to bring joy back into your life and to take your relationship-life by the horns and make the time to work with Frank. After all, a great life and great relationships go hand-in-hand.
-Review by M. T.,
Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
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