FROM LOSER TO SEDUCER- THE AUTOBIOGRAPHY OF FRANK KERMIT AUDIO
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Have you lost all hope that love and sex will never happen to you, and you want a real story about an imperfect man that was able to transform himself and change his life?
Are you considering having Frank as your mentor and coach and want to know his back story in depth before you make that decision, so you can witness first hand his credentials that qualify him as such an expert in his field?
Are you a loser when it comes to having women in your life, and you want to be more seductive and be able the attract the women you want?
Are you desperately looking for a way to get your ex back, and you want proof that this system will work for you?
Would you like to hear the story of a man that got stood up at his prom, lost his ex fiance to his best friend, lost another girl to another guy, and how he went from suicidal incel to mastering romantic and sexual relationships with women?
Do you want to learn how to ethically manage dating multiple women at the same time?
Would you like to discover ways to get over your ex, so that you can be with new women in your future, without feeling the pain?
Are you looking for some kind of redemption and self forgiveness for the mistakes you made in your past (those really bad ones), and want a guide to show you how it can be done?
If you answers YES to any of the questions above, we have the KEY to solve all your problems with this:
FROM LOSER TO SEDUCER- THE AUTOBIOGRAPHY OF FRANK KERMIT AUDIO
What’s This Audio Set About?
This is the story of a man who was like so many other men. He was alone and confused and looking for answers. At his lowest point, Frank Kermit contemplated suicide if he could not reform his life.
Be inspired by the man who turned his life around! A self-proclaimed loser who harnessed all of his pain and used it to motivate himself to change his life for the better.
Learn how Frank transformed himself to become a great seducer. How he used his learned skills, new knowledge and original ideas to win back his ex-fiancé. Follow his journey of self-discovery. Read about how a former loser ethically managed up to 5 lovers who knew about each other, all at the same time!
Rejoice with Frank when he finally gaining an understanding and clarity of the mindset of women that had eluded him all of his life.
 Well, this is it! This is where it all started. This is the man who created Emotional Needs Analysis* and changed the world for the better.
This is a live audio recording from 2010 based on the 2006 version of the eBook From Loser To Seducer-The Autobiography Of Frank Kermit. (Retired) Check out the 10 Year Anniversary Edition eBook for the revised version.
**Please note that these recordings are not politically correct. They contain curse/swear words. Content may be offensive to some listeners. **
Listen to 6 MP3s as Frank recounts his own stories and challenges. This is an emotional, heartfelt lecture that left everyone in the room deeply touched by what they heard.
You'll get ALL of the following information in this 6 MP3 (APPROX. 6 HOURS) digital audio set:
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 *P.S. Many coaches use the term "For Entertainment Purposes Only" to write and say whatever they want without any legal repercussions. Even reviews of their own products and services! Frank Kermit does not hide behind entertainment purposes. The advice in these audio tracks is 100% AUTHENTIC.
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P.S.S. Frank writes his own books and does not hire any "ghostwriters" to do his work, unlike other coaches out there. Frank is no marketer by any stretch of the imagination! But this also means his writing is 100% honest material.
(Note: Read the reviews below of those who have found positive change studying this audio set)
Are you considering having Frank as your mentor and coach and want to know his back story in depth before you make that decision, so you can witness first hand his credentials that qualify him as such an expert in his field?
Are you a loser when it comes to having women in your life, and you want to be more seductive and be able the attract the women you want?
Are you desperately looking for a way to get your ex back, and you want proof that this system will work for you?
Would you like to hear the story of a man that got stood up at his prom, lost his ex fiance to his best friend, lost another girl to another guy, and how he went from suicidal incel to mastering romantic and sexual relationships with women?
Do you want to learn how to ethically manage dating multiple women at the same time?
Would you like to discover ways to get over your ex, so that you can be with new women in your future, without feeling the pain?
Are you looking for some kind of redemption and self forgiveness for the mistakes you made in your past (those really bad ones), and want a guide to show you how it can be done?
If you answers YES to any of the questions above, we have the KEY to solve all your problems with this:
FROM LOSER TO SEDUCER- THE AUTOBIOGRAPHY OF FRANK KERMIT AUDIO
What’s This Audio Set About?
This is the story of a man who was like so many other men. He was alone and confused and looking for answers. At his lowest point, Frank Kermit contemplated suicide if he could not reform his life.
Be inspired by the man who turned his life around! A self-proclaimed loser who harnessed all of his pain and used it to motivate himself to change his life for the better.
Learn how Frank transformed himself to become a great seducer. How he used his learned skills, new knowledge and original ideas to win back his ex-fiancé. Follow his journey of self-discovery. Read about how a former loser ethically managed up to 5 lovers who knew about each other, all at the same time!
Rejoice with Frank when he finally gaining an understanding and clarity of the mindset of women that had eluded him all of his life.
 Well, this is it! This is where it all started. This is the man who created Emotional Needs Analysis* and changed the world for the better.
This is a live audio recording from 2010 based on the 2006 version of the eBook From Loser To Seducer-The Autobiography Of Frank Kermit. (Retired) Check out the 10 Year Anniversary Edition eBook for the revised version.
**Please note that these recordings are not politically correct. They contain curse/swear words. Content may be offensive to some listeners. **
Listen to 6 MP3s as Frank recounts his own stories and challenges. This is an emotional, heartfelt lecture that left everyone in the room deeply touched by what they heard.
You'll get ALL of the following information in this 6 MP3 (APPROX. 6 HOURS) digital audio set:
- Questions from the LIVE audience that Frank answers on the spot
- Learn how a lack of choice of women to date can directly cause men to choose incompatible women out of desperation which brings about more problems
- 3 Ways you can make a difference in the world
- How accepting your fear of committing to the wrong person can help you change your life to finding the right person for you (a woman you can trust)
- Some of the material in this book are direct passages from Frank's personal journal while he was going through the experiences so you have 1st accounts of what he was thinking and feeling in those moments, as oppose to looking back on his life through 20/20 vision. This makes it more real
- Detailed explanations of the pain Frank was in that include the night of his senior prom, losing his ex-fiance, and the final experience that pushed him over the edge where he contemplated suicide and made a decision to change
- Learn the KEY things Frank did during his hardest times to help him get out of a bad head space that you can do as well, and outward signs that the changes were working
- An introduction to Frank's Emotional Needs Analysis Theories directly from the journals he created it in
- How to create a Persona to help you change your behaviors and believes and how it works to make you more seductive
- How Frank earned the respect of his first mentors and how they helped guide him on the path using harsh lessons
- The incident that Frank changed his thinking on sex, and how it affected him to start having his first successes
- How to handle getting called by the boyfriend of a girl you tried to pick up
- 10 Rules for Dating Multiple Women at the same time to keep them satisfied and coming back even when they have to share you with other women
- Learn what to expect at new sex related experiences such as a first orgy, first eyes wide shut party, first     and how those experience can shape and change your views on sex and relationships
- How you will experience love differently from the time you are a chump to when you have a very active sex life, how to manage the struggles of intimacy when you are a ladies man, and how to balance freedom and feelings of emptiness
- A detailed account of the weekend that Frank got his ex back, and everything he did step by step (the good and the bad, and the heart breaking)
- How to find inner peace from your past and make self-forgiveness automatic, and learning to cope with loss
- 14 Rules to follow if you are going to face your ex that you have not seen in years, as well as how to put to rest the future the two of you could have together to find peace
- 5 Lessons about finding peace on your past relationships that will allow you to move on from any heartbreak
- 3 Questions to know if you are ready to get that closure
- The biggest mistake men make trying to get her back, and how to avoid it
- The 10 Rules of Getting Her Back and why they work
- How to structure a poly date where you bring two lovers to the same dinner date
- How to turn an enemy into a lover
- An explanation of the different forms of pain a man will experience at the different levels of his development and how to be ready for them
- 7 Steps of Personal Change and how they can help you go through the process
Get Inspired RIGHT NOW – Buy From Loser To Seducer: The Autobiography of Frank Audio Book. We are offering this Audio Set for only $60! What are you waiting for?
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 *P.S. Many coaches use the term "For Entertainment Purposes Only" to write and say whatever they want without any legal repercussions. Even reviews of their own products and services! Frank Kermit does not hide behind entertainment purposes. The advice in these audio tracks is 100% AUTHENTIC.
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P.S.S. Frank writes his own books and does not hire any "ghostwriters" to do his work, unlike other coaches out there. Frank is no marketer by any stretch of the imagination! But this also means his writing is 100% honest material.
(Note: Read the reviews below of those who have found positive change studying this audio set)
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From ‘Loser to Seducer-The Autobiography of Frank Kermit’ is an audio book that should be owned by anyone and everyone who is truly serious about their own personal development. This product is the real deal.
It was helpful to me in ways that I could not even foresee. I highly recommend it to friends close to me in my life, as well as to anybody genuinely interested in getting a handle on their own personal development.
Simply put, this audio book leads the listener through the captivating story of Frank Kermit who managed to achieve a dream; his own unique dream, that so many of us have set out to live out and conquer. This is the story of one individual who made it happen.
This product is helpful because it allows the listener to visualize how this type of journey is realized from front to back, and how they can work to achieve their own personal goals.
‘From Loser To Seducer-The Autobiography of Frank Kermit’ includes detailed accounts of the efforts and hard work that Frank chose to put into his life. It also documents the successful results that Frank earned, after he had put in the work. It is inspirational to read.
These success stories are entertaining and motivational for anybody with their own personal dream. The timeline of this audio book allows you to see where you stand in your own personal development, and how you can work towards bettering yourself in this area of your life.
This product takes the listener through the pain, the hardships, and the low points that many of us can relate to in our own unique way, but also leads us through what it feels like to live the dream that is redemption.
It’s an absolute no-brainer to invest in this product.
‘From Loser to Seducer- The Autobiography of Frank Kermit’ is a must own product.
-N. Michael,
Alberta
I listened the first 4 MP3’s of ‘From Loser To Seducer-The Autobiography Of Frank Kermit this morning.
1 box of Kleenex later, I stopped and realized that I not only connected with your story but was reliving my own past relationship! Even though the circumstances are very different, I now know that I have a lot of answers to find, and what I potentially should do to come to terms with my loss.
I'm going through an extremely emotional time right now. Listening to your story and seeing how much more extreme it could be, has shown me what you went through. I really look up to you for how you can help other people- it's truly exceptional.
As a side note, I recently signed up for ‘Elite Speed Dating’ and I will read ‘The Frank Guide To Speed Dating’ eBook before I go.
Thanks Frank!
-A.G.,
Montreal, Canada
You don’t have a clue!
Forget everything you think you know about women and the dating game. In fact, throw everything down the gutter and let it burn.
One year ago, I thought I’ve seen it all … but I was about to get a reality shock!
When I was walking into the Hotel Lobby at CliffsList Convention Volume 2 (2006) I saw a guy dressed up like the main character from American Pimp!
I knew they would be inviting same crazy people to speak at the World’s Greatest Pick-Up Convention … but I just didn’t know what to make of this guy. Cane, sparkling shirt, crocodile leather shoes and a fedora hat cooler than mine!
After giving my speech teaching the rookies some neat tricks and insights about women and ‘The Game’ … I just had to find out.
His name was Frank, and he was immediately on my wavelength. I have never clicked with a fellow expert so fast as with Frank … and boy was I about to hear some stories.
I’ve heard some very inspiring and messed up life-stories, but this one topped absolutely everything. He got burned so badly in his past, I was surprised at how little scars he had to show for it.
He really made it.
If you’ve ever been so hopelessly bad with women that you were about to kill yourself … and turning it around to become one of the world’s greatest seducers makes a couple jaws drop I tell you that!
I can sniff a phony wannabe expert in a second, but Frank was different. He was genuine!
He was speaking from the heart, had the experience to back it up … and wisdom was just flowing from his mouth.
No matter how ugly your experiences with women may have been in your past, Frank is your role model. Nobody has had it worse than him, nobody went down in flames more than he used to … and nobody pulled himself out of a deeper swamp than he did.
Whatever your current situation may be … Frank has already been there and can help you out. So make sure you are all ears and listen to him!
-Nick Starr,
UK (former Dating Coach)
So far the reading has been pretty wonderful. I haven't read the book previously, and don't own a copy however do plan on doing so. I have read more than a few books where you get to the middle part and realize that you don't remember how the book started. But not that case with From Loser to Seducer.
This book is great because the Frank's Mindset is really clear. He has showed us how we can take our pain and breakdown and use them to kill our demons.
More importantly, I was blown away by the impact of him reading his book. I was sitting there and listening to him read the book and realized that this is not some made up fictional story of some guy who may or may not have lived somewhere far away, no this was Frank. This was his life!
His struggles which he so sincerely shares with us in this book. Having the reader read his book and reliving the same emotions again with his audience was a fascinating, intimate, and a profound experience.
-Art D.,
Toronto
Frank did an amazing job going over much of some of the worst times of his life. Listening to his story of pain as read by him emotionally effected myself as I remembered my own story of pain. The most important thing I've learned from Loser to Seducer is a lesson I live by: Once you love someone, you'll always love them.
-Gavin G.,
Toronto
It was an honor to have attended Frank’s live reading of his autobiography “From Loser To Seducer”. It is an amazing book, as the experiences he has lived through and insights he has gained from those experiences are enough to inspire even the worst off person to keep going and better themselves. Reading it is amazing, but hearing him read it is a whole new experience.
The amount of vulnerability which he expresses through sharing his story shows just how strong of a person he is, and through the story he is able to use specific examples which illustrate how he got to be where he is today and hopefully motivate you to get through whatever life throws at you and grow to be the strongest person you can be.
Witnessing Frank relive some of the worst times of his life not only inspired me to make the most of my life, but also gave me the strength I needed to relive some of my own worst memories in order to learn from them and move on to whatever the future holds for me as a stronger person. Hearing it in his own words is a plus, but regardless of whether you get the audio book or the physical one, this story has the potential to change your life for the better.
-Nicky S.,
Toronto
Wow, is all I can mutter out of my mouth. It was immensely powerful. Frank describes in detail, the pain and suffering he went through in his earlier life. How he had really reached the end of his rope and took on seduction, taking control back of his life.
This is not the average chicken soup for the teenage soul book/audio book. It is full of emotional ups and down, the happy and the sadness. Infusing hopes to those who have none left and is contemplating if life is worth living or not, to all those who fell through into the abyss of depression and the light seems so far away.
This has definitely put a whole new perspective on my own life, understanding that the suffering and pain should be used a learning tool and most importantly, a burning desire lit deep on the inside that can help me going when the future I desire seems to be so far away. Through his incredible journey,
However, this book is not all about sadness, It is about closure, Frank talks about the opportunity present to him to allow him to correct his mistake, in a way that shapes his own destiny and future. Thank you for this empowering experience!
-R. P.,
Toronto
I had already read this book, but Frank's live reading really made me recall certain things that I didn't quite recall.
Aside from that, there was a detail regarding dating multiple women ethically that made me remember how I really screwed myself and am basically digging myself out of a hole with my primary.
I find it (figuratively) funny how this is the second Frank product that I've noticed him practically spelling out my mistakes as to how I am handling things as well as describing situations I am currently going through within. The other one was Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test, both of which I find to be absolutely amazing products.
Lastly I wanted to mention how Frank's emotional reaction to having gone through the book really showed how painful it is for him to be reliving his past related to the demons he had to fight. Authenticity couldn't be shown better any other way, so I give him full props for making this audio product.
-Alex S.,
Toronto
Have you ever been hurt in a relationship? Can that really be called a valid question? Therefore, the audio book From Loser to Seducer will openly put into words and confirm some emotions and experiences that you have already been through, this being equally true if you are a man or a woman. Like Kermit, you may be finding ways to get over the hurt and deceptions caused not only by the failure to develop the relationship you wanted with a partner that you loved, but also to identify the pitfalls that you personally created by building illusions about love and the people for whom you felt this emotion, or an emotion that you confused with love.
In his audio book, Kermit first explains his one-dimensional approach to relationships with women in his early involvements, that being the approach of a nice, accommodating guy who hoped that the desired woman would recognize his qualities and caring ways, and of course, reciprocate his feelings. After numerous times of being hurt, Kermit understands the need to develop alternate ways of relating to women. This is not a calculated choice to seduce, although it may seem so in the audio book, but rather a very real need to survive the love experience.
Kermit goes on to inform the readers of the many relationships he becomes engaged in, as well as the different love life styles experimented in order to decode the many paradoxes of the love situation and his understanding of women. One of these paradoxes is the fact that the most honest, vulnerable, giving love, which he calls ‘’chump love’’, usually ends up with the ‘’lover’’ being taken for granted by the ‘’love object’’, at least in his experience. This therefore leads to the need to develop a strategy for the reality of the system of love. For many of us, this is against all the dreams we have of ideal love and its imagined rewards and fulfillment. Kermit explores this notion, bringing up the problem of the void created when the illusion of a true life love is stripped away by disappointing relationship experiences.
In the audio book From Loser to Seducer, you will discover a man and his struggle with the love dilemmas faced by many of us as he weaves the stories of his diverse encounters into a dialogue which confirms what we may already know, but have not put into precise words. The language in the book is very much like spoken speech; Kermit, the narrator, is in a conversation with you, the listener. The language and punctuation styles are familiar, so very accessible to any reader. The relating of the experiences is blunt and unrefined. However, the concepts explored are related to the meaning that people attach to their ideas of relationships, and how satisfaction with love, life and self hinge on these belief systems. From that perspective, the audio book explores notions at a gut level. Even if you do not like what Kermit has to say, he makes you think, so it is well worth the read.
-Diana S,
Montreal
What I learned and realized from listening to the audio-book and ebook From Loser to Seducer
This is in no order of importance. I realize that I have demons in me. I've known all along that I had them I just didn't know how to deal with them. Realizing the point where not doing anything about the pain and my demons - was more painful than the actual pain I was in with my ex. The following is how I can and will deal with these demons and my pain.
Well, for starters the word knowledge or self-knowledge comes to mind. This program has shown me that without knowledge i can't truly know how to deal with issues in my life. The ignorance in me has lead me where i am. That is why knowledge is a KEY to better understanding myself, woman and life in general. The more time i invest in knowledge the more doors with open to lead me to happiness. I need to open my mind and start thinking outside the box. I need to change my way of thinking. I need to change period! Making the same mistakes over and over again. The universe kept slapping me in the face harder and harder and i wasn't getting it. I spent over 6 years making the same mistakes with my ex and the universe kept slapping me harder and harder until it got to the point of where i find myself today. Hard lesson to learn.
Along the way on my journey with my ex I messed up in many areas. These mistakes have lead me to lose myself and leave me in limbo and lose trust in myself. Now I'm searching for peace and forgiveness. That being said, the only way i can reach redemption is to trust myself to help me forgive myself. I have learned that this can and will occur if i choose to change my ways, to change my behavior patterns. This will allow me to prevent making the same mistakes again, i will be able to trust myself again leading me to forgive myself again and I'm a BIG fan of that point. If i choose bad behavior patterns, i will feel shame, guilt, continue to make bad judgements and bad decisions which will affect future relationships and bring me spiraling out of control, NO THANKS!
I need to learn to communicate better with woman. The better i communicate with women the better i can connect with women and with people in general. I want to learn about verbal and non verbal communication. I want to better understand storytelling, calibration and rules of influence. I know i already have some skills but if i learn more i will be better. I also have learned that i have to listen more, be more attentive. This will help me communicate and understand women and people all together.
The emotional needs of women. Wow ever since i started hearing about this, it opened my eyes, it really did. All along i was under the impression that i was satisfying women and i was able to connect with women. In a way i was but after reading about the emotional needs of women, i learned that I was NOT doing enough and i really don't know shit about women. I've learned that i've been naive and selfish. I've over looked the needs of a woman and focused on my personal needs. I've learned so far that sex is not just about the physical. It is also about the emotional. It's about bringing them together. Not about satisfying my own personal needs. What a fucking idiot i've been!!! The emotional needs of women has made me curious to learn more. I really want to learn more so i can connect and understand women better. This will allow me to deal with certain things in a relationship and avoid arguments and break-ups. Understanding the emotional needs of women will allow me to have more opportunities to meet women, be more attractive to women and have more opportunities to have a better sex life. It will also help me bring out more out of a woman and more out of me and there is only good that can come out of that. Relationships and sex are very important to me so i want to learn more.
I need to develop into a man and to be in control of my life instead of blaming myself and always apologizing. NO MORE!!!
I'm learning now that i can do better than what i had with my ex. This book has shown me and confirmed to me what i want. And if i work hard on myself i could get what i want and more. I can't turn back now. My eyes are wide opened now that I can't turn back. She is a reminder and trigger to pain, mistakes and old behavior patterns that i am trying to change. Sorry i quoted you on that one lol.
I have a choice to make, Do i want to be the guy who doesn't understand the emotional needs of women and have another man who does understand the emotional needs of woman take CONTROL of my woman and give her what she needs, or be the guy who DOES understand the emotional needs of woman and give her what she wants and needs??? I think the answer is obvious.
I need to stop looking to other people to solve my problems. I need to learn to deal with them myself. I need to make my love life a priority. Learn about who i am. If i want something to change then i should change it and not have or wait for a woman to do it for me. I'm exhausted now lol!
-Peter,
Montreal
I just finished reading Loser to Seducer at 5am last night. I'd been reading it all day. I read part of the first chapter the first day, out loud to my girlfriend while we were out sunbathing. She enjoyed it as much as I did. Some notes I made:
- I like the honest, personal, and revealing account of Frank's development. He really puts himself out there and lets you relate to him on a personal level. I think this is important because he is not only saying he's on the other side of the canyon, he's showing you how to get there at the same time.
- I never got the point of having a persona, and the description/justification given in this book was very convincing to me. I just might use it very soon.
- It also got me asking important questions that I had never even considered before. Is hurt in relationships inevitable? Does somebody always have to get hurt? Is trying to avoid hurt a worthwhile thing to strive for?
- One line that really stood out to me was that negative emotions often hurt the person feeling it more than the person being hated. This helped me put some of my own negative emotions into perspective. Why waste time and energy on something that is going to affect me poorly?
It has been a long time since my story of pain, and I have changed so much since then, that it is hard for me to remember. Reading Frank's story really helped me put into perspective what some of my peers may be going through, and some things are not as easy for them as they are for me. I think it will help me relate to them more.
- Lee L.,
Toronto
This story is so extraordinary that it could be made into a movie, and that it could start with "once upon a time" (almost like a fairy-tale???), and that the methods and ways of changing yourself described there are universal and could be applied outside of dating. It's a very interesting book, the changes that Frank Kermit made are amazing. I don't understand though, why Frank Kermit is concerned that women may be offended by it. Yes it is centered on sex, but there is so much about respect and understanding. I liked it, couldn't really identify myself with anyone, but it made me ask some questions about the 'testing'...It will be extremely interesting to know when I do that...It's a good idea to have little chapters, it is easier to read, I read it in 2 days. Frank Kermit could actually write any kind of book, not only about dating or relationships. Almost anything about how to get something that you've been longing for. It's very generous to share his transformation but especially his past, people tend to close those parts and never talk about them.
- Anonymous Female Reader
Canada
Listening to read Frank read "From Loser to Seducer" brought back a lot of memories from my personal experiences. It made me realize many things I did not understand at the time and help me come to terms with hang ups and transgressions. It has helped me move on and move forward in my development.
-Clay,
Toronto
An open, honest and sometimes brutal account of one mans journey of self discovery. Through his eyes we are able to relive with him his pains and triumphs and ultimately his joy of revelation. It is a journey that he says was a personal choice. A decisive choice to change his life, to attempt to look at the world from a different point of view. Yet, in reading his story, it can be seen that truly it was a universal choice and what one may call a “happy accident.” His journey brings forth a world of information for men and I believe for women too. For although women are not his target audience, they too can benefit from reading this book. Some of his rules such as the notion of ceasing to look toward others to solve your problems, making your love life a priority not a second thought in your life, and the deceptively simple learn who you are, are themes which resonate with both men and women. His information on creating a persona is a unique approach to overcoming fear and finding an inner strength. It is easy to see how many men would find this a useful tool in overcoming shyness. By creating a persona they are able to live a fantasy side of themselves. A side which possesses and promotes to the world a confidence they cannot yet feel. Now this book is not perfect, the use of a shifting non linear time line is often confusing and the authors’ habit of repetition can be maddening, but the enlightening content far outweighs any flaws that can be found. In addition, this reader believes that Frank Kermit has found a hidden goldmine in his theory of the 10 Emotional Needs of Women. It will enlighten men and disturb women with its accuracy! This reader encourages anyone who reads this book or wants to read it to also read the authors second book Everything Out of her Mouth is a Test: A Mans Guide to Satisfying the Emotional Needs of Women. As for Loser to Seducer, if you are looking for a distinctly different but down to earth approach to self love and acceptance then this is the book for you.
- Female Reader
Toronto, Ontario
I was excited to learn that Frank Kermit has just released an audio book about his journey, "From Loser to Seducer - The Audio Book". I already own and read the paperback version. One of the things that makes Frank's book unique is that with most material out there, we see the final product without the process. Edited out are the years of struggle, nights of blowouts and journals, of mis calibrations and failed tests. So it's like seeing a picture of an egg and then a picture of a souffle. There's a lot that happens in between, which is why those who are studying written material on their own find the concepts especially difficult to understand and the challenges so difficult to handle. Some people can be stuck for a long time, when a few simple changes could move them boldly forward.
Frank's book connects the dots and fills in the gaps by weaving the story of his life, from the day he made his choice to master this part of his life to the realization that he had achieved more than he dreamed possible. Just flipping through the book, the story and ideas are broken down into little discrete sections. It gives the book a sense of being easy to read and digest, because it is. For those on the go, you can easily read a passage or two as time permits and quickly learn something new. The language is very crisp and direct. Frank is "frank, because he has to be."
There is no filler, no long-winded history lessons or scientific explanations, just the facts that get you results woven into a story that anyone who has ever struggled with this part of their lives can relate. For anyone struggling with tests, Frank Kermit is a MASTER at passing them. Even those new to his teachings, know that passing these tests means the difference between getting the girl or going home alone. Tests are passed by meeting the emotional need that spurned the test in the first place, and Frank Kermit breaks down an especially difficult conversation line-by-line. Other things you will learn include: the importance of storytelling, how to maintain a rock solid frame, and leading a woman to the bedroom.
-L. R.,
Toronto
I've been studying communication skills with women, for a couple years, so I know most of the theories. Even so, hearing the personal odyssey of one man from loser to seducer was inspiring. And every so often, between the stories of triumph and disaster, a realization would explode in my brain that I hadn't even considered.... but on reflection made absolute sense. I credit Frank with giving me the idea of "using a persona", which gives me the permission to make mistakes even as I work to improving every day. Most importantly he crystallized in my mind that the love of a seducer isn't "square love" and it isn't "pimp love"... or even a hybrid of the two. It's just *predictable* love, no less real than the love described by sonnet writers. It just means that you don't cast yourself defenseless into the environment... and with control and power comes the ability to show magnanimity to the one you do love.
- A.J.,
Toronto
