 Do not talk about sex if you are a virgin Do Not Talk About Sex if You Are an Adult Male Virgin by Frank Kermit Helping Adult Male Virgins (AMV) who want to find their first girlfriend to have sex with is specialization in my coaching practice Here is a Quick Tip for Adult Male Virgins Do NOT Talk about Sex. You are a virgin, and you might end up saying something that presents you in a really negative way. Just like the main character in the movie The 40 Year Old Virgin, he was found out when he tried to talk about something he had no experience in (remember the bags of sand line?) My AMV coaching clients are often surprised to learn that some of the statements they make casual to their friends and associates reveal just how inexperienced AMVs can be, not only for sex, but for dating and relationships as well. If you have ever made negative statements about sex (Ewwww! That's disgusting), or innocently asked questions such as "Why would people do that?" when talking about what seems to you to be a futile sex act, or remarking how something "Isn't really important", those people around you are spotting your inexperience. Unlucky for you, they are also likely too polite to call you on it. Which means, you continue to go about your business, never knowing what they really think they know about you: that you are a virgin. Simply put, people who have had sex, can spot you without you knowing it. One of the ways you can limit this, is that you just do not talk about sex. When someone tries to get you to talk about sex, here is what you can do: Just tell everyone that there are certain things you do not talk about or discuss publicly and sex is one of them. Then make sure YOU STICK TO IT! That also means no sex jokes too. Yeah, it may not be fun. However, if your goal is to lose your virginity, it is one of the best strategies you can apply.
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These same individuals aim to create a relationship structure, that will be able to withstand the hard times, enjoy the good times, and last a life time. Simply put, they want to live a life of making choices to create the most successful marriages possible. The challenge however, is not that they lack choice to making that happen. It is that they do not know how to MANAGE their choices. Years ago, I described one of the tenants of my coaching practice with this statement: The power of choice, without the skills to know what to do with it, can lead to a misery so great, it ends up being worse than living in a system of oppression that meets basic needs. That is what I see in my coaching practice. Good people, making horrible choices that destroy their chances of every having a happily successful marriage. It is one thing not to be sure what choices is best for you. It is completely a different matter to figure out how the heck you manage a marriage in a way that meets the emotional needs of everyone involved. People often do not realize the mistakes they are making managing their marriages (or upcoming marriages), until it is too late and they lose their marriages, destroy their families, and send their kids into therapy. So my coaching aims to help prepare all people to manage the many choices they will have to make while they seek out the secrets of successful marriages. The Pre Marital Coaching is for all the people who: -Want to Divorce Proof their marriages -Are about to move in together -Are thinking about getting engaged or who already got engaged -Looking to elope -Want to start a family -Afraid of ever getting divorce, and want to reduce the risks -Went through a divorce before and want to prevent another -Have family and friends against this union and they want to prove them wrong -Want to be sure they have the skills necessary to stick to their vows -Are struggling with the idea of a prenuptial agreement -Have doubts about marriage -Want to make "til death do us part" mean something again -Want to find ways to talk to their partner about difficult subjects -Worry about trusting their partner -Worry about the challenge of long term commitment -Are looking for a marriage that is LGBTQF friendly -Are looking for a marriage that is alternative lifestyle friendly -Want conflict resolution skills -Having a hard time pinpointing your relationship rules and boundaries If you want to invest in securing a solid foundation to make sure you are in a relationship that actually succeeds, then you are seeking the secrets of a successful marriage as well as those couples in already establish committed relationships that are working things out to stay together. As you read and follow the articles on my blog, do please reach out to me with any information that you feel, was really helpful to you, in your pursuit of seeking the secrets of your personal success. -Frank Kermit  Get comfortable with the causes of Grief Get Comfortable With The Causes of Grief by Frank Kermit This is the first of a series of articles I want to present on the topics of Bereavement, Grief and Mourning. The reason I created this group of articles is because I think that people who are coping with loss generally, do not get the compassion and support they really need. People are generally uncomfortable with dealing with any sort of grief. Whether the grief is their own, or dealing with the grief of others. It makes for awkward interactions, and that is not right. A person in grief is too wrapped up in their own emotions, to really notice the awkwardness of the people around them offering any kind of support. And those people who would want to offer support, are too concerned they might make things worse for the person in mourning. So these articles aims to help prepare all people to better manage their sense of loss, and how to better support the people in their lives who are experiencing a loss. Losses that may cause grief include: -Death of a loved one. -Being diagnosed with a chronic or terminal disease. -Disability from a severe accident or illness. -Divorce or the end of a relationship. -Miscarriage or stillbirth. -The birth of a child with a birth defect. -A diagnosis of infertility. -Learning that your child or teen has developed a behavior problem, learning disability, or substance abuse disorder. -A move from a familiar home. This is especially hard for older adults. -Job loss. -Loss of independence after a serious accident or illness. -An act of violence or a natural disaster. -Starting school (loss of the comfort of home and familiar surroundings). -Gaining increasing independence and self-responsibility in the late childhood and teen years (loss of dependence on parents). -Marriage (loss of independent decision making). -Birth of a child (loss of independence). -Retirement (loss of income, work-related identity, and daily social contact). -Aging and maturing (loss of physical strength and youthful appearance). As you can see, chances are that EVERYONE is going have to cope with loss at some point in their lives. It is fundamentally important that we all develop coping skills. I hope people find these articles useful. -Frank Kermit  Sign Up For Coaching  Creating Chemistry Looks vs Personality: Creating Chemistry By Frank Kermit A question that comes up to me in coaching often is what do you do when you find someone's personality very interesting, even attractive, but you really are not into that person's looks. The answer is one that no one wants to hear. If you are single, date that person anyways and see if chemistry develops over the time of a few dates Sometimes, you have to kiss that person goodnight in order to get the fireworks to initially spark. When you meet someone in speed dating, and that person has enough spark just from personality that makes you think MAYBE, Just say YES Take the chance, and go for the match. You never know...that person might even reject you!!! It would be good to know to help you keep that ego of yours in check. Bottom line is that you are single! Maybe you are single because you are way too picky Maybe your standards are too high for what you can attract But you are single. Give that person a chance. You only have everything to gain. This article is an excerpt from The Frank Guide To Speed Dating program  You Know You Are a Parent When... You Know You're a Parent When... By Frank Kermit You Know You Are A Parent When You learn The Pure Pain of Stepping On Tiny Hard Plastic Toys Those toys can be the best possible toys of any childhood I would never get rid of them. But it might be time to get a new toy bin and set up a reward system for tidying up after playing.  you are still single because of the choices you make Single in September By Frank Kermit It's the most wonderful time of the year. End of summer, back to school, and vacation period is basically over for most people. All that means one thing. It is one of the best times to be single for taking action to meet someone special. This is it. The meet and greet season has started. Fresh off the blast of summer loving when all summer romances must come to an end, and people have to tune in once again to their regularly scheduled life programming. Back to school, means back to the grind of routine, and this is when people are new, fresh, rejuvenated from time off and sunny weather, and are in the best head space to meet a new friendly face. The signs of autumn have started-a-coming, when retail stores start putting out the Halloween decorations. That signals just one thing: WINTER IS COMING TOO! It is time to start now, to seek out new life, and that new warm human body that is going to enjoy cuddling you by a delightful fire, while the weather outside turns frightful. If you are still single, there is always some place to go, to meet new people, cause you never know. So you better not pout, and you better not cry if you end up singing single 'cause you're bumming about town. Tis' the season to be finding, a warm cup of your own special something. Stop, with your games of love, and get serious. Chances are, you are single because of the choices you made leading up to this moment. All those people you were interested in, but did not ask out. All those potential partners who liked you, but you turned down worrying about what others would think. All your "rules" and "standards" that (really serve no purpose to finding someone who treats you amazing) just get in the way because they are simply not realistic. If you continue to make those same choices, then chances are, again, that you will continue to be single, and continue to make it more difficult for anyone to join you for an unforgettable duet. This could be the BEST time of the year to meet someone new. But it takes ACTION on your part to get out there, and make yourself available. Well, OK, maybe it is not the BEST time of the year to meet someone new right now. Song lyrics and catchy pop culture phrases can grease the wheels of the coming holiday spirit, and inspire some people from the cold-hearted wonderland of our lives. And the fact is, every day (including TODAY) is a good day to die and go to heaven (FIGURATIVELY PLEASE!) by meeting someone special, and every season has just as much opportunity to find someone new, and every night time is the right time to be with somebody you love. It is ALWAYS the BEST TIME to meet someone new. Today IS THAT the day. Seize it and make it yours. Take the chance! Now is the moment. Go on and kiss the world of dating and end your reign in the valley of Singledom. Frank Kermit This is a contributed post Weddings are something that most of us dream about throughout our lives. Meaning that when our big day comes around, we want to ensure that it’s perfect in every way. While a lot of the time we focus on the reception, it’s also important to take the time to ensure that your wedding ceremony is perfectly planned out. Otherwise, it may not end up being what you’ve always dreamed it would be. The good news is that ensuring that your wedding ceremony goes without a hitch isn’t too difficult to do. It’s just a case of making sure that you do adequate planning for it and know what you would like it to be like. Ask yourself what type of ceremony have you always dreamed of? A quick one or something longer and more romantic - it’s your big day, so you need to make sure it’s what you want it to be. To help you ensure that your wedding ceremony is exactly as you have always imagined it would be, below are a few ideas and suggestions. Take these on board and you can make sure that your big day is memorable for all the right reasons. Double check your invitations  https://c1.staticflickr.com/7/6105/6231837339_f85c59bf7a_b.jpg Wedding Invitations Before sending out your wedding invitations, make sure to double check them. The last thing you want is for a printing error to cause problems, such as the time or postcode being wrong, for instance. So take the time to check over your invitations before sending them out, to ensure that your guests have all the right details. This is important as without the right information, some of your most important guests may end up getting lost or not turning up at all. Have a schedule in place For everyone in the wedding party, put together a schedule. That way everyone will know what they need to be doing and when. Having a plan written out will help to ensure that everyone arrives at the church on time and does what they’re meant to do. A few days before the wedding, email out the schedule for the day of your wedding to everyone in the wedding party. That way they can make sure that everyone knows what they’re meant to be doing and when. This will help to calm your wedding day nerves and ensure that everything goes to plan. Get your orders of service sorted  https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/c/c4/Memchu_wedding.jpg wedding ceremony Whatever you do, don’t forget about your orders of service. If you want to make sure that your ceremony goes to plan, it’s important to give each guest an order of service. That way, everyone knows what to expect from your nuptials. If you’re yet to get your wedding ceremony programs sorted, get in touch with a specialist order of service printing company. The last thing you want is for your orders of service not to have arrived by your wedding date, so make sure to get them sorted in advance. Have a tick list of what needs to be done on the day So that on the morning of your wedding, you’re not stressing about everything that needs to be done, create a tick list. So that you have a simple list of the tasks that need to be completed to hand. You can then give this list to your head bridesmaid, who can make sure that everything on it is completed. This should contain things like ensuring everyone gets their buttonholes and making sure that all the ushers are at the church early. Just the little things that otherwise, could end up being forgotten about. Don’t forget to call to confirm  https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/a/a5/Wedding_car_oldtimer.jpg wedding car Last but not least, a few days before your wedding, call your service providers to confirm your booking. For instance, if you’ve hired a car to take you to the venue, call the company a few days before to confirm. That way you can double check that the vehicles you’ve hired will all arrive at the right times and places. Or say, for example, you’ve paid to have flower displays put together for the church. Call the florist to confirm what time they’ll be delivered, so that you can ensure someone is there. This will give you peace of mind and will help to ensure that your day goes as smoothly as possible.
Planning a wedding is always going to be stressful, as there’s so much that needs to be sorted. To ensure that your ceremony goes without a hitch, take note of tips and suggestions above, and implement them.  Steve Piccus Interview On two separate occasions, Frank Kermit got to interview Steve P. Steve P is the creator of White Tiger Tantra, a sensual enhancement system that can help take any women to her next level of releasing the flood gates of ecstasy. Many women who thought they were anorgasmic* were able to have the life changing experience of achieving full body, multiple and sustained orgasms. *Anorgasmia is a type of sexual dysfunction in which a person cannot achieve orgasm despite adequate stimulation. Anorgasmia can often cause sexual frustration.  School of Steve P logo Frank Interviews Steve P (Part 1) April 2009 Steve P UNCENSORED. Frank Kermit interviews Steve P about his upbringing, losing his virginity, his polyamorous lifestyle over the years, his current hermetic circle of lovers, the seduction community past and present, his White Tiger Tantra squirting instructional DVDs, what to do if a woman has a strong emotional reaction during an orgasmic squirting experience, and more.This interview is a no holds barred account of Steve P by Steve P himself! Any offensive dialogue was neither edited nor censored. Steve P was mentioned as a key figurehead in "The Game", a book by Neil Strauss and now get up close and personal details from the man himself.  White Tiger Tantra  The Secret of Dating Multiple Girlfriends Frank Interviews Steve P (Part 2) February 2009 Steve P UNCENSORED II. Frank Kermit interviews Steve P about the Seduction Community. In this interview we cover the history of the founding of the seduction community, building deeper levels of rapport and communication, the difference between openly dating multiple women vs cheating, how to spot the girls in the clubs who are interested in being picked up and where to go to find them, goal setting: pick up vs long term relationships, the importance of finding and choosing a mentor, respecting past mentors, emulate vs imitate, how to be a good student, the difference between women who are Bi-curious and Bi-sexual, Female Orgasm and the power to give her full body orgasm, protecting a woman's reputation and privacy, alpha males, blocking and going for someone's else girl, The Instant Guru Scams and seduction-fly-by-night companies, managing a seduction lairs and re-establishing seduction brotherhood, spotting givers and takers, along with brief stories involving Hypnotica, Zan, and Johnny Soporno. This is a contributed post After a while in a happy relationship, it’s easy to start thinking about the future. However, marriage is such a big commitment that you need to ensure you are both ready. It can put huge pressure on your relationship, and your marriage will crumble if you aren’t both wanting the same things. Here are some signs that your relationship is ready for the next step, and it's time to pop the question.  https://pixabay.com/en/couple-engagement-ring-diamond-802058/ engagement ring You have lived together for a while One of the first major steps you and your partner would have likely made in your relationship is moving in together. After all, more couples than ever are living together first before tying the knot. It helps couples to find out more about each other and how they act under difficult circumstances. Research has found that couples are less likely to divorce if they live together for a period before getting hitched. Therefore, if you have lived together for a while and are still happy together, it could be time to get married.  https://www.pexels.com/photo/landscape-sunset-couple-love-136411/ marriage proposal You both have similar future plans Your relationship will never survive marriage if you don’t have similar future plans. If one of you wants to go traveling, while the other wants to settle down and have a family, it’s never going to work between you. Therefore, before going to buy a ring, you need to talk to her about the future. Discuss your five-year plan to see if you are both on the same page. That way, you can ensure you're both ready for the future before tying the knot. You both are financially ready It’s important that the two of you have enough money if you are going to get married. After all, weddings are an expensive time which can put a lot of pressure on your relationship. If you don’t have enough money, you are unlikely to have a day that you both will love. Also, a wedding can stop you from saving for other things like your own home or a big holiday which you both really want to do. Therefore, you need to both be prepared for this. On top of this, you need to have enough money to buy her a beautiful ring such as gemstone engagement rings. After all, as this feature reveals, you should spend three months of your salary on a ring! Therefore, make sure you are financially ready before planning to get hitched!  https://www.flickr.com/photos/astrocoz/68767468 wedding ring You are both truly happy together No relationship is perfect. You are bound to have a row every so often as the odd argument is part of a healthy relationship. But if you are genuinely happy together and love being around each other, then it could be a sign you should get hitched. Also, you should ensure you want to spend the rest of your life with her. If you can’t imagine not being with another girl, then you are not in the right headspace to get married.  https://pixabay.com/en/couple-love-kiss-hug-beauty-park-1363967/ she said yes! There is no perfect age to get married to your other half. But you need to be both ready on a maturity level to get hitched. After all, it’s a huge commitment that you both need to be sure you want to take. Whatever you do, don’t just propose because she wants a big wedding!
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