Good People Making Bad Choices By Frank Kermit This is blog is designed to offer advice, tips and support, for seekers to find what they need to build, create and engage into a successful marriage. The reason this is such an important area of my coaching practice is because most couple that get married never do so in the hopes it will end in divorce. Most people get into marriage wanting it to last until death does them part. Unfortunately, with the divorce rate being what it is, this is obviously not the result the majority of those couples ever wanted. I see a lot of really good people, who want successful marriages, in my private coaching practice working with individuals, and couples. People who aim to live out their lives together in a successful marriage, generally speaking, do so out of a desire to be happy, build a family together, and want to establish a future together based on the principles that are important to them. These same individuals aim to create a relationship structure, that will be able to withstand the hard times, enjoy the good times, and last a life time. Simply put, they want to live a life of making choices to create the most successful marriages possible. The challenge however, is not that they lack choice to making that happen. It is that they do not know how to MANAGE their choices. Years ago, I described one of the tenants of my coaching practice with this statement: The power of choice, without the skills to know what to do with it, can lead to a misery so great, it ends up being worse than living in a system of oppression that meets basic needs. That is what I see in my coaching practice. Good people, making horrible choices that destroy their chances of every having a happily successful marriage. It is one thing not to be sure what choices is best for you. It is completely a different matter to figure out how the heck you manage a marriage in a way that meets the emotional needs of everyone involved. People often do not realize the mistakes they are making managing their marriages (or upcoming marriages), until it is too late and they lose their marriages, destroy their families, and send their kids into therapy. So my coaching aims to help prepare all people to manage the many choices they will have to make while they seek out the secrets of successful marriages. The Pre Marital Coaching is for all the people who: -Want to Divorce Proof their marriages -Are about to move in together -Are thinking about getting engaged or who already got engaged -Looking to elope -Want to start a family -Afraid of ever getting divorce, and want to reduce the risks -Went through a divorce before and want to prevent another -Have family and friends against this union and they want to prove them wrong -Want to be sure they have the skills necessary to stick to their vows -Are struggling with the idea of a prenuptial agreement -Have doubts about marriage -Want to make "til death do us part" mean something again -Want to find ways to talk to their partner about difficult subjects -Worry about trusting their partner -Worry about the challenge of long term commitment -Are looking for a marriage that is LGBTQF friendly -Are looking for a marriage that is alternative lifestyle friendly -Want conflict resolution skills -Having a hard time pinpointing your relationship rules and boundaries If you want to invest in securing a solid foundation to make sure you are in a relationship that actually succeeds, then you are seeking the secrets of a successful marriage as well as those couples in already establish committed relationships that are working things out to stay together. As you read and follow the articles on my blog, do please reach out to me with any information that you feel, was really helpful to you, in your pursuit of seeking the secrets of your personal success. -Frank Kermit
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