The Wedding Toast Speech

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The Wedding Toast Speech
By Frank Kermit

 
Remember this day, your wedding day.


Not for the parties,
not for the extravagance,
nor the dinner and dancing,


but remember this day, your wedding day
because of the reasons you chose to marry your spouse.
 

Remember who is it that you picked to marry on this day,
and why you picked this person
over all other choices available. 


Remember the reasons why you chose to get married
and how it fits in with your plans,
life goals
and why you decided
that the person that you wanted
as your spouse
was a reflection of everything you felt
is important to you enough
that you wanted to make him or her
part of your family.
 

Remember this day, your wedding day
That the ritual of the wedding
is more than just a celebration
of your new union.


It is to mark the change in your lives
as individual "I"'s
to a unified sign of a "we".
 

As a "we",
you call on all those people closest to you both
to witness and be a part of your togetherness,
in the hopes
that not only will they be celebrating your endeavor;
they will also be employed
in the ongoing support
of your new and future family.


Remember this day, their Wedding Day
To you: the wedding guests,
please know and remember
that your role in being present,
is more than the gifts you offer,
your toasting their happiness,
and your boost to start the new couple
in their new life together.


Your role as participants
in a wedding audience
is that you have also accepted a role
in the ongoing support
of the new couple
to help keep this new family together
through the hardships and triumphs
that life can
and will force upon us.

 
For better or for worse,
isn't just a saying.


It is a reminder.


Life gets very real
when you have someone else
to care for and think about.


If and when you are blessed with children,
the realness
of every decision you both make
is even more intense; 


Remember this day, your wedding day,
as you both pledge
to do your best
to suffer them together,
and support each other,
even when either of you
happen be at your worst.
 

Remember this day, your wedding day
Because you BOTH
Will Make Mistakes


There will be times
you both will make mistakes,
when you both will etch
an emotional scar,
when you will have to deal
with financial worries,
mental health concerns,
new limits on your physical abilities,
accidents,
the challenges of well meaning people who love you,
who interfere more than help you,
having to move and change with the times,
and in the death
and passing of people close to you.
 

Remember This Day, Your Wedding Day,
As you both pass
into the next stage of your lifespan,
up to and even past the point
of being present for
the possible weddings of your own children
and grand children.


Remember this day, your wedding day,
Remember every reason you had
to make the commitment
to start this journey together,
knowing that life together
would NOT be easy
but that you still wanted
to go through with it.


Remember this day, your wedding day
because it was the event
you chose to create.

 
Remember the love
that brought you together,
the willingness to stand together,
and the drive behind
making your intent
to build a future together a public decree.


When either of you
are overwhelmed by life,
and it is likely to happen
more often than not
over the course of your lives together,
remember this day, your wedding day
to remind you
why you chose to make it happen.
 

Remember this day, your wedding day,
to help you build
and create a better future for the two of you,
through each and every new day
you decide to stay together
and honor the promise
as best you can
everyday.


So, Remember this day, your wedding day,
when some days are better,
when some days are worse,
and take it one day at a time.
 

-Frank Kermit

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