Men’s Dating Mastery or simply MDM is a podcast dedicated to helping men improve their success in dating, sex and relationships by interviewing true subject matter experts. Coaches, psychologists, sexologists, researchers, style consultants, anyone with useful and actionable insight is invited to the show. While there are several core principles (read below) that guide the content produced by MDM, MDM does not subscribe to any particular ideology or push it on its listeners. Instead, it seeks to uncover the truth wherever it may lie. As such, no topic is off the table and all perspectives are welcome so long that they stand to enrich the lives of men and do so with integrity and without malice. Alec Chase interviews Frank Kermit, Emotional Needs of Women part 2 Published on Jul 3, 2015, In Part 2, Frank Kermit explains the remaining 6 to 10 of the 10 emotional needs of women and how through his actions, a man can either meet or violate them. In addition, Frank explains how he was able to establish multiple open relationships with women who had previously never practiced polyamory. Alec Chase interviews Frank Kermit, Emotional Needs of Women part 1 Published on Jun 17, 2015, In Part 1, Frank Kermit explains the first 1 to 5, of the 10 emotional needs of women and how through his actions, a man can either meet or violate them. To understand how they work, Frank explains that emotional needs are what a person responds to, not what they like. He also explains “Mother Lover Theory” which, underpins how a woman responds to a man’s behavior in context of each emotional need.
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Nice Guy Dating Podcast is a podcast and web show that will help YOU start finishing first with women. It features the most inspiring and successful experts in the field of personal development, mixed with rants from Kevin Alexander about his personal journey through dating, answers to some of your most pressing questions, and even success stories from guys just like YOU on Nice Guy Nation. Produced and Hosted by Kevin Alexander Save Her From a Jerk Published on Jul 2, 2016, E236: Save Her From Jerks with Frank Kermit Here are some things you’ll discover in this show: What inspired Frank to turn his life around from not being good with women to having the kind of life he wants to live Why Frank chose to change his life rather than other options that he took before How Frank started interviewing the people who appeared to have a great love life and what he learned Why Frank learned the art of knowing what you want and going out to get it What makes a guy a jerk, and why some girls may be attracted to them What it might mean when you want to save a girl from a jerk, and it’s not what you think Why some women will leave a relationship just out of boredom What you can do to steal a girl away from a jerk 19 dating experts to be interviewed for a new Internet television program entitled The Men's Room produced by LifeForce TV and hosted by Mark Sparks. Men's Room Seminar - Frank Storytelling For Dates Date: August 26, 2010, Title: Men's Room Webinar - Frank Kermit and Mike Dawson Frank Kermit is a guest on the Men's Room Webinar. Kermit, joins producer Mike Dawson and they talk about Frank Storytelling. Men's Room Seminar - Building a Persona (Inner Game) Date: July 29, 2010, Title: Men's Room Webinar - Frank Kermit, Mark Sparks, Mike Dawson Frank Kermit is a guest on the Men's Room Webinar. Kermit, joins Mark Sparks and Mike Dawson and they talk about building a persona and modeling new beliefs and behaviors to integrate into your personality. Mens Room Season 2 - The Emotional Needs of Men Date: March, 2010, Title: Men's Room TV Season 2Frank Kermit is recorded for two full episodes in Season 2 of The Men's Room. In this episode Frank talks about The Emotional Needs of Men. What’s covered in this interview: -What the purpose of qualifying a women is and how to do it -Setting up categories of women based on what you want -How specific criteria can lead to easy conversation topics -What value matching is and how it’s a fast way to figure out in a woman is worth your time -The 10 emotional needs of men and how being aware of them can save your relationships -How to know yourself before you begin qualifying others -The distinction of how men and women see sex as it relates to their emotional needs -How to experiment sexually if you’re not sure what you like in bed -What the most dangerous emotional need is -The two principals that creating attraction is based on -The frustration circle and how to avoid it in your own life -The ‘friend zone’ and how it’s actually a sign of disrespect towards you -The number one rule of a monogamous relationship -Becoming aware of how your mother raised you and how it’s impacting your relationships -The red flags that women can display that you should be aware of Men's Room Season 2 - Great First Dates What’s covered in this interview: -How to be your best self on the first date -A great technique to show off your best features that will build a connection with her -What your first date absolutely HAS to have -Rules for success on a first date -What to make sure you avoid on a first date to ensure she’ll see you again -Great conversation topics that she’ll remember you by -How to make one date feel like multiple dates so you can build comfort faster -Being aware of setting precedents on first dates -How to qualify a women to determine whether or not you want a first date with her -Frank’s thoughts about kissing on a first date – it may surprise you -The Eskimo kiss technique -Observing the sexual dynamic on a first date and how to navigate it -The rules of dating as a teenager vs dating as an adult and how things change -Your obligation on a first date, and how to make sure she knows you’re interested in her -The killer line to give her if she’s trying to put you in the friend zone -Sex and the first date, and whether you should be aiming for it or not -What the last location on a first date must have -Thing you should have in your home for seduction -Eliciting states in her to bring up powerful emotions of seduction -How to get rid of the stigma of taking her to your place on the first date -A fun game to play on your first date that can spark hours of conversation -A game you can play while speed dating that will allow you to get to know her very fast -Pulling out her hot words that you can use back on her later -The 3 million dollar question to discover her priorities Men's Room Season 1 on DVD! Now you can get the first season of the Men's Room on DVD. The 4-Disc set features all 20 episodes of the show including three never before seen bonus features, including: 1) A candid conversation with Mark Sparks about the making of the show and some inside information of what he learned through the process. 2) A 25 minute unreleased interview with sex expert Josey Vogels on the value of sex and communication in a relationship. 3) A montage of deleted clips from the first season including stories from Frank Kermit that didn't make the first cut. Frank Kermit is the ONLY guest to appear in two full episodes of Season I of the Men's Rooms Series. And they STILL had enough footage left over to include Frank in the bonus section of the DVD. Men's Room Season 1 Episode 20 - Deep Inner Game February 18, 2009. Episode #20, Final Episode of Season 1. Frank Kermit returns to the Men's Room with some advanced inner games tips. Frank Kermit defines the term "inner game", how to get a woman to stick around if you like her, working backwards to find out what you want in life, teaches both men and women why they each are the prize through powerful beliefs you should hold about yourself, what 'creative avoidance' is and how to redirect your focus, creating new behaviors for yourself that produce positive results, how a behavior turns into a belief, how belief turns into a instinct, how to control your fear, and how to break your negative patterns. Frank Kermit also covers the biggest difference between a guy with his inner game together and a guy without. This episode covers topics from his book I'm a Man, That's My Job. Men's Room Season 1, Episode 2 - Why Women Test (Emotional Needs) Broadcast: October 8th 2008. Episode #2, Frank Kermit talks about some of the experiences he went through during his development with how he went from loser to seducer. Why women test men and how men can deal with them. Why it's important to find high quality women and keep them and what woman's 10 emotional needs are and how to satisfy them. This interview covers topics presented in Frank Kermit's books From Loser to Seducer and Everything Out Of Her Mouth is a Test. Lucia is a Dating and Relationship Expert whose intent is to entertain, educate and enlighten. Known throughout major media as a "Cougar Expert", Lucia defends and coaches older women who are dating and in relationships with younger men. In addition to her Cougar expertise she also produces an internet podcast radio show, writes a weekly column, has authored a book and has appeared regularly on multiple talk shows including The Tyra Banks Show and The Dr. Phil Show. To learn more about Lucia please visit http://www.theartoflove.net/. The Goodbye Show Date: February 10, 2013, Title: The Art of Love Podcast with Lucia Frank Kermit makes his 6th and final appearance on The Art of Love Podcast, hosted by Lucia. This marks the last episode of this podcast as Lucia hosts her Good Bye Show. Frank Kermit, the guest holding the record for most appearances is interviewed for a brief good bye interview. Answering The "Should I have an Affair with Younger Man?" Question Date: March 18, 2012, Title: The Art of Love Podcast with Lucia Frank Kermit makes his 5th appearance on The Art of Love Podcast, hosted by Lucia. On this show, Lucia receives an email from a woman who has been married for 20+years but is sexual unsatisfied and is thinking about having an affair with a much younger man renting their basement. Lucia posted this question on Facebook, and Frank responded in a way that Lucia invited Frank to come on air for the second half of her show. Nice Guy or the Jerk? How do Women Choose? Date: June 6, 2011 Title: The Art of Love Podcast with Lucia Frank Kermit makes his 4th appearance on The Art of Love Podcast, hosted by Lucia. On this show, Frank and Lucia talk about an article that Lucia wrote regarding nice guys and why women like jerks. the article went viral and to help address a number of the responses from male readers, Frank and Lucia will dissect the article to figure out what the controversy is all about. All About Monogamy Date: September 19, 2010, Title: The Art of Love Podcast with Lucia Frank Kermit makes his 3rd appearance on The Art of Love Podcast, hosted by Lucia. On this show, Frank and Lucia talk the Making Monogamy Work. Who does monogamy hurt more - men or women? What are the rules of monogamy? Is there a difference between monogamy and commitment? The Emotional Needs of Women Date: July 25, 2010, Title: The Art of Love Podcast with Lucia Frank Kermit makes his 2nd appearance on The Art of Love Podcast, hosted by Lucia. On this show, Frank and Lucia talk the Emotional Needs of Women and Frank's book The Emotional Needs Analysis Workbook volume 1. If a woman doesn't want to have sex with a man, it's because he's not satisfying one or more of her emotional needs. Find out what they are in this truly enlightening interview with Frank Kermit, relationship coach and author of, "The Emotional Needs Analysis Workbook". The Emotional Needs of Men Date: June 6, 2010, Title: The Art of Love Podcast with Lucia Frank Kermit is a guest on The Art of Love Podcast, hosted by Lucia. On this show, Frank and Lucia talk the Emotional Needs of Men and Frank's book The Emotional Needs OF MEN Analysis Workbook. Frank Interviews Lucia Episode #1010, Original Air Date: July 2010 Lucia is a Dating and Relationship Expert whose intent is to entertain, educate and enlighten. Known throughout major media as a "Cougar Expert", Lucia defends and coaches older women who are dating and in relationships with younger men. In addition to her Cougar expertise she also produces an internet podcast radio show, writes a weekly column, has authored a book and has appeared regularly on multiple talk shows including The Tyra Banks Show and The Dr. Phil Show Known to millions as Dr. Love through the website AskDrLove.com, she has been delighting readers and audiences for three decades with her engaging blend of professional expertise, humor and ability to turn clinical psychobabble into easy-to-understand concepts that transform lives and heal relationships. Her methods have been featured on all the national networks, including CNN (who recently dubbed her their Resident Love Doctor!) NBC, CBS, VH1, Fox, on websites like WebMD, iVillage, Discovery.com, MSNBC.com, and in Cosmopolitan, Mens Health, Glamour, American Woman, Modern Bride, and Marie Claire, to name only a few. Her Ask Dr. Love radio show can be heard in Seattle on KKNW and on TalkZone, which broadcasts in 80 countries worldwide. Women Worried They are Dating Closeted Homosexual Men Date: November 5, 2014, Title: The Ask Dr Love Show Frank Kermit makes his 2nd appearance on The Ask Dr Love show. On this show Frank Kermit and Dr Jamie Turndorf talk about women who are worried and concerned that the men they are married to and dating are secretly homosexual and hiding in the closet. Also discussed are how women can spot a closet homosexual, what to do if she discovers the truth, and ways for her to avoid ever getting into such a situation. The Epidemic of Adult Male Virgins Date: September 17, 2014, Title: The Ask Dr Love Show Frank Kermit makes his 1st appearance on The Ask Dr Love show to talk about Adult Male Virgins. Why they exist, how to spot them, and how to help them. From Loser to Seducer and Everything out of her Mouth is a Test Date: November 2006, Title: Natradio.com interviews Frank Kermit Description: Frank Kermit makes his second appearance on NatRadio, and was interviewed by Hugh, Irma, and Mark about his first two books, and his upcoming re-launch of Frank Talks. Before He Wrote From Loser To Seducer Date: May 2006, Title: The Natradio's Susan interviews Frank Kermit Frank Kermit is interviewed on natradio.com for the first time ever. On hand to interview Frank are Natradio's Hugh and the impulsive Susan. This interview was conducted while Frank lived in Montreal and was visiting Toronto. This interview happened BEFORE Frank wrote any of his books, and his books were still in the planning drafts stages. Date: April 29, 2012, Title: Sex Talk LIVE! with Andrea Adams-Miller Frank Kermit makes his 1st appearance to talk about the Emotional Needs of Men on this radio show broadcast on WBGU 88.1 FM. Andrea Adams-Miller MS, CHES, is considered The Leading International Authority in Healthy Relationships and Healthy Sexuality. She is known as The Sexuality Tutor and reveals the secrets to ignite the spark, fire, & passion in your relationships through keynote speaking, relationship consulting, seminars, and book/audio programs. Andrea, CEO & founder of www.igniteyourrelationship.com & http://www.sexualitytutor.com, is also an Award winning Radio Show Host. Andrea is often requested to share her coaching programs, her books and audio programs, and her consulting philosophies on the air for other radio show programs. Andrea has appeared on Oprah, The View, The Today Show, 20/20, CBS, PBS, NBC, ABC, FOX, WebMD, TIME Magazine, and is a popular radio and talk show guest, keynote speaker, and relationship consultant due to her exuberant energy, quick wit, and fabulous personality! These radio shows enlighten listeners all over the world from various disciplines in business to health to travel to entertainment. She can be heard live as the host of Sex Talk LIVE!, an international weekly radio show on WBGU 88.1 FM Date: September 5, 2010, Title: "Love and Lipstick" Radio Show Frank Kermit makes his first appearance on the Ottawa radio show "Love and Lipstick" on EZ Rock 99.7 FM hosted by Sue McGarvie. Sue has been a practicing Clinical Relationship Therapist in Ottawa since 1993. With degrees and coursework from Carleton, Concordia, Laurentian and Ryerson Universities in psychology, and reproductive medicine, Sue is one of Canada's leader in the field of women's relationships and hormonal health. Sue has counseled thousands of people from all over the Ottawa/Gatineau area. Frank was interviewed for a short piece on the use of Seduction in Relationships. Choosing The Right Partner Is 50% of Your Relationship Success Originally published July 18, 2016, updated April 20, 2018 By Frank Kermit Even at your best, you are still only 50% of the relationship. That means that no matter how great a person you are, and no matter how amazing your relationship skills are, you are still only 50% responsible for the relationship success you have. However, when I coach singles and couples, who claim that the other person must then make up the other 50%, I correct them and tell them that it isn’t necessarily the other person that guarantees relationship success…it is if the first person’s ability to chose the right partner for them. Confused yet? Yeah, me too sometimes (and I am the one that came up with these original theories!) Sometimes people assume that if they just “become better”, or work harder on themselves, or become more attractive, that everything in their current relationships will work out. Although this could make some sense depending on the context it is important to understand that no amount of self-help, new social skills, or personal development will ever adequately make up for a relationship partner that is not the right partner for you. For example, let’s say that you are a stanch monogamist, and your partner constantly commits acts of lying and infidelity. The solution to such a fundamental problem is not about the first person become “better”, more understanding, or learning advanced relationship skills in order to fix the relationship by trying to make up for the lack of relational commitment by the other partner. The only solution to that dynamic is for the first person to end the relationship and choose a new future partner that is compatible with your boundaries and emotional needs. We do not choose who we love. However, we do choose who we date and form intimacy with. You will feel a variety of attraction, attachment and emotions for different people in your life. That does not mean that just because you feel “something” that you necessarily have to commit to someone that is not right for you nor even act in a manner that keeps you going back to your ex partner. By the same token, if you have a challenge with feeling anything for someone that would be great for you, that is not a sign that your potential ideal partner is wrong for you…as much as it is likely a sign that you need to re-tweak your own “attraction mechanism”. If the only people that you are turned on by to date are people that you cannot form an emotionally healthy relationship with that is your red flag; a sign that you need to work on the source of why you end up only seeking out people that you cannot build a future with. If you are the type of person that continually learns new communication skills, reads every relationship book that comes out, buys the latest better-sex product, and study the topic of love to no end…but you do not cultivate your capacity to choose your realistic potential life partner, then your eventual relationship success will be zero. The best relationship skills with the wrong partner will never be better than basic average relationship skills with the right partner. Frank Kermit
The Attraction Theory Originally published July 18, 2018, updated April 20, 2018 By Frank Kermit There is an attraction theory that states, "How you do one thing, is representative of how you do all other things." Although this particular theory is not realistic and cannot be applied across the board in any tangible and measureable way, it does have some merit when it comes to the Emotional Interpretations. Basically, the theory claims that if you are looking for signs as to what kind of partner someone would be for you in a relationship, look at how a person conducts him or her self, to give you an idea, of what kind of partner someone would make. On some level, this does make sense, as people generally are their repeating behavior patterns. Someone whose repeating behavior pattern is to lie, lie and lie some more, may be very incapable of being honest with anyone, including the people he or she dates. On the other hand, the theory that how you do one thing represents how you do all things is not correct when it comes to all things. How someone acts in one context may be very specific to that context. Just because someone puts in the time to take care of her health, does not mean she will put time into taking care of her family connections. Just because someone makes the extra effort at his job, does not mean they will be able to put in that same effort in managing his own business. In both those examples, there could be extraneous circumstances to explain how one behavior does not represent a predictable behavior in another context. For example, the woman in the above example may be overly preoccupied with her appearance such that she focuses on her own health and beauty, and does not focus on the emotional fulfillment of her family, and the man in the example works hard because he responds to authority checking up on him, but would not be assertive for himself if no one is there to scold him for being less pro-active. However, when it comes to dating, many people look for those “signs” that someone is meant to be your best potential soul mate. They look at status symbols that may include education level, wealth, social connections, and even wearing white after Labor Day, none of which is a direct indicator of how well someone treats a partner in a relationship. Those “signs” can serve as indicators of some kind of significance, but if you really want to safeguard yourself from being mislead by “signs”, then remember this one point: How someone treats you must be your most important criteria. If you plan to have children, or already have children, then your most important criteria should also include an analysis of what kind of parent someone would be. Frank Kermit
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