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Did a woman you are in love with put you in the Friend Zone?
Want to know the pattern to turn your female friend into your lover even when she has rejected you in the past?
Want to finally get Why a woman would rather date and have sex with a stranger, than a male friend she had known for years and how to get her to give you a chance first?
Would you like some clarity so you would know which emotional needs are you violating that cause her NOT to see you as a sexually available being, and how to change that?
Want to be able to tell the difference between a real female friend, and a woman that uses men?
Are you trapped in the friend zone, and want out of the friend zone, and into the arms of your best friend?
Are you tired of talking on the phone with a woman for HOURS listening to her problems as her therapist "friend" but she still refuses to date you even once?
Are you tired of a girl never letting you take it “all the way,” while you know she has with other guys?
Is there one female friend that you are madly in love with, but she just does not see you that way, and refuses to even give you a chance?
Is she worth giving up dating other women, and are you ready to do everything it takes to get her to fall in love with you?
Are you 'just a friend' to a woman you secretly wish would be your lover?
Are you like a therapist to her, a best friend, or just like a brother that makes the thought of dating you, just plain weird to her?
If you answers YES to any of the questions above, we have the KEY to solve all your problems with this:
FROM FRIENDS TO LOVERS: STOP BEING HER EMOTIONAL COOKIE MAN AUDIO
What’s This Audio Set About?
This Audio Set is for The Emotional Cookie Man (ECM), the guy that women put in the Friend-Zone. It teaches men stuck in the 'Friend Zone' how to break free and stop being the Emotional Cookie Man!
Frank used this system* to turn many women that initially rejected him, even some that hated him, into his lovers. A number of those lovers wrote reviews of Frank's other books and if you want to read reviews from the women who tell the story of how they initially rejected Frank, and then ended up as his lovers, and some falling in love with him, then THIS is the program for you!
This is an audio recording of the original seminar with a live audience.
You'll get ALL of the following information in this 2 MP3 (APPROX. 2 HOURS) digital Audio Set:
Start making your friend your next lover RIGHT NOW – Buy FROM FRIENDS TO LOVERS: STOP BEING HER EMOTIONAL COOKIE MAN AUDIO SET. We are offering this eBook for only $20! What are you waiting for?
BUY IT RIGHT NOW USING THE ADD TO CART BUTTON BELOW!
*P.S. Many coaches use the term "For Entertainment Purposes Only" to write and say whatever they want without any legal repercussions. Even reviews of their own products and services! Frank Kermit does not hide behind entertainment purposes. The advice in this book is 100% AUTHENTIC.
P.S.S. Frank writes his own material and does not hire any "ghostwriters" to do his work, unlike other coaches out there. Frank is no marketer by any stretch of the imagination! But this also means his work is 100% honest material.
(Note: Read the reviews below of those who have found positive change studying the program)
Want to know the pattern to turn your female friend into your lover even when she has rejected you in the past?
Want to finally get Why a woman would rather date and have sex with a stranger, than a male friend she had known for years and how to get her to give you a chance first?
Would you like some clarity so you would know which emotional needs are you violating that cause her NOT to see you as a sexually available being, and how to change that?
Want to be able to tell the difference between a real female friend, and a woman that uses men?
Are you trapped in the friend zone, and want out of the friend zone, and into the arms of your best friend?
Are you tired of talking on the phone with a woman for HOURS listening to her problems as her therapist "friend" but she still refuses to date you even once?
Are you tired of a girl never letting you take it “all the way,” while you know she has with other guys?
Is there one female friend that you are madly in love with, but she just does not see you that way, and refuses to even give you a chance?
Is she worth giving up dating other women, and are you ready to do everything it takes to get her to fall in love with you?
Are you 'just a friend' to a woman you secretly wish would be your lover?
Are you like a therapist to her, a best friend, or just like a brother that makes the thought of dating you, just plain weird to her?
If you answers YES to any of the questions above, we have the KEY to solve all your problems with this:
FROM FRIENDS TO LOVERS: STOP BEING HER EMOTIONAL COOKIE MAN AUDIO
What’s This Audio Set About?
This Audio Set is for The Emotional Cookie Man (ECM), the guy that women put in the Friend-Zone. It teaches men stuck in the 'Friend Zone' how to break free and stop being the Emotional Cookie Man!
Frank used this system* to turn many women that initially rejected him, even some that hated him, into his lovers. A number of those lovers wrote reviews of Frank's other books and if you want to read reviews from the women who tell the story of how they initially rejected Frank, and then ended up as his lovers, and some falling in love with him, then THIS is the program for you!
This is an audio recording of the original seminar with a live audience.
You'll get ALL of the following information in this 2 MP3 (APPROX. 2 HOURS) digital Audio Set:
- Questions from the LIVE audience that Frank answers on the spot
- A 3 Step System that you can start today, that will turn your friend into a lover, and make her your girlfriend
- You can use this to ALSO turn an EX Lover into your NEXT lover, so you can rekindle and enjoy love and sex with your ex again.
- You can use this exact same system if you want to turn your FEMALE enemy into your lover. If you have a woman that considers you an Enemy, you can use this same system to turn her around to wanting to have sex with you
- How to get her even if she has rejected you many times in the past
- Discover the real reasons that she does not see you as a sexual being that she does not even know, and how you can turn it around to making her want to be with you
- Answers to the question of why women would rather date and have sex with a stranger, than a male friend she has known for years, and how to use those reasons to your advantage so that she decides that dating and having sex with you is her best option
- You will learn exactly what emotional needs of hers that you addressed that makes her want to keep you as a friend, and what emotional needs of hers that you violated that make her refuse to take the chance to date you
- How to change certain attitudes she has towards you, with some simple word phrases and easy behaviors that will stop your violations of her emotional needs, and learn how to start addressing her emotional needs so she will be massively attracted to you
- How to use one of the most powerful techniques that will force her to see you in a completely differently light. This one is so deceptively simple that you might be surprised how well this works. It has to be done the right way, and this book gives you the process step by step.
- What #1 Rule to follow to make sure you never end up as any woman's abused cookie man ever again by learning the difference between a real female friend, and a woman that uses men.
- How To still be a giving and generous person if you still want to be a kind man, but how to never allow anyone to take advantage of it
- How to spot women that actually like you a little, and feel guilty for not dating you, and how you can help them stop feeling guilty and start feeling more sexual with you
- A detailed 10 emotional needs analysis of why she friend-zoned you to begin with, and answering the question of WHY this happened to you to begin with
- How changing your mindset using the Ten-Year-Rule will actually help you have a much more active sex life
Start making your friend your next lover RIGHT NOW – Buy FROM FRIENDS TO LOVERS: STOP BEING HER EMOTIONAL COOKIE MAN AUDIO SET. We are offering this eBook for only $20! What are you waiting for?
BUY IT RIGHT NOW USING THE ADD TO CART BUTTON BELOW!
*P.S. Many coaches use the term "For Entertainment Purposes Only" to write and say whatever they want without any legal repercussions. Even reviews of their own products and services! Frank Kermit does not hide behind entertainment purposes. The advice in this book is 100% AUTHENTIC.
P.S.S. Frank writes his own material and does not hire any "ghostwriters" to do his work, unlike other coaches out there. Frank is no marketer by any stretch of the imagination! But this also means his work is 100% honest material.
(Note: Read the reviews below of those who have found positive change studying the program)
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REVIEW FROM FRANK'S FRIENDS-WITH-BENEFITS NANCY
Frank and I were friends-with-benefits for years. We were never a couple. We had our very private involvement seeing each other when my busy schedule would allow me a break.
I first met Frank in college. Back then he flirted with me, but I wasn't interested. Frank was a nice guy, but just not someone that ever interested me back then. Then we lost touch.
About a decade later we re-connected. We chatted and started talking, and I noticed a change. Sure, Frank was a still a flirt, but it was different now. He was confident, really sure of himself, and comfortable in his own skin. And it showed. After a few email chats, we hooked up.
I love being sexual with Frank. Our chemistry is hot. He accepts me, he adores my body the way I loved being adored, and I never feel self conscious when naked with him. Frank is the first man that I ever made out with, while making out with another woman. Frank was the first man to arrange for me to have sex one on one with one of his other female lovers. I had sex with Frank in taboo places around the city. Great memories.
I am still friends with Frank today, and even friends with his wife, and I love the fact that we can all get along. I am not featured in his autobiography, but some of his stories could easily be translated to me and him.
I sometimes still fantasize about Frank - maybe one day he will finally arrange for me to have sex with one of his adult male virgin clients and instruct me how to take their virginity. That would be a chapter in his next book.
Frank is definitely a unique individual. His advice and life lessons are worthwhile.
-Review by Nancy, Frank's former friends-with-benefits
REVIEW FROM FRANK'S EX LOVER SWEETNESS
Frank does not look like Leonardo DiCaprio and when I first met him I wasn’t interested in dating him. Eventually Frank won me over with his attentiveness so I decided to give it a chance. After we dated I felt very seduced, mainly due to his gentle touch and the fact that I felt he was genuinely listening to what I had to say. Frank and I dated briefly and after we stopped dating we stayed and are still on good terms and if Frank was single I would definitely date him again. I recently contacted him for coaching and he was a great help. Since then I always go to Frank for coaching about the men I am dating because I really feel I can trust him to be objective, and he really is the only one I know I can trust.
Although I am not in Frank’s book From Loser To Seducer, my brief time with him taught me, as he mentions in Part 6, that communication is so much more important than romantic love. I really enjoyed reading his excellent book and maybe I will be mentioned in his next one.
-Review by Sweetness (Frank's ex lover)
REVIEW FROM FRANK'S FORMER GIRLFRIEND JEWEL
Frank and I tried to date back in college, but it never went anywhere. He was a nice guy, very sweet, but we just were not on the same wave length back then and I was from a very strict family that shamed females for having intimacy or sex before marriage. We lost touch for many years and then re-connected years later. When we reconnected, we tried dating again.
This time, it was different. I was a little more mature. We actually got closer to the point where we dated and got intimate. I told him I loved him. I loved being touched by him and loved to touch him back. He was so gentle and caring. I loved being with him back then. He made me feel very wanted and attractive and he was different from the way he was back when I first met him. He was more assertive and confident. Unfortunately, I was having issues with mental health and anxiety and we stopped seeing each other. Again we fell out of touch, but I never regretted getting really close and intimate with him.
When he asked me to write this review of his autobiography From Loser To Seducer, I was flattered.
Frank, I will always love you in my own way. You are a piece of my childhood I cannot forget. You are also very sweet, introspective and insightful. You're a scholar and a gentleman. And we are at peace. Thank you Frank for forgiving me. I wish I had given you a real chance. I was so scared of your depth. When you looked at me you looked into my soul. I love how this review has now given our love a place to exist.
-Review from Jewel, Frank's former girlfriend
REVIEW FROM FRANK'S FORMER PLAYMATE MISS KITTY
I met Frank in high school. We started talking at a school dance. Frank was a nice guy, and funny, but a bit too much of a clown. I liked him, but we never dated. I did like the fact that he was always so easy to talk to, and that he liked making people laugh.
Years later, we continued to be friends.
When Frank was going through really hard times, especially during the loss of his ex-fiance that he mentions in his autobiography From Loser To Seducer, I was one of the people he could talk to and confide in. I remember the real hurt in his voice, crying, when we would talk on the phone. He took it hard. I remember talking to him at his lowest points. He was not making anyone laugh anymore.
Then Frank disappeared for a while. He cut ties with a lot of us that knew him. When we re-connected years later, it was a new name, new attitude, and a new Frank. He was still the same good guy, but just not the clown he used to be.
When I read his autobiography, I now understand why. I am a little shocked at some of the stories he wrote, and the things he tried and went through. But I am glad for him that he seems to be happy where he is now.
For the record, I am not one of the women he wrote about in his book. But I will say, that at one point we did date. For a guy that was a clown in high school, he was a pretty good kisser in the end lol. Frank was fun when we did finally hook up and smooch. On one of my birthday's Frank gave me a personal strip-tease just for me lol (don't visualize, just move on!). He always made me laugh, and feel good about my body and never made me feel self-conscious about any of my disabilities that I faced as an adult. I like how he would get totally dominant with me, and I loved it when he would "own" me as his play thing. It was so hot. I could never imagine the Frank I knew way back in high school ever do that.
Very seductive, very fun (but no longer like a clown). He made me feel safe. Safe enough to pose topless for him once lol. Even after we stopped dating, I would send him a topless photo of me, because I know it makes him smile. No matter what though, even when we stopped dating we stayed friends. That is the way I like it.
-Review from Miss Kitty, Frank's former playmate
A review from a former adult male virgin who studied my programs for Adult Male Virgins, From Friends To Lovers program, and my Social Circle Building program as well as understanding my Emotional Needs Theories.
Dear Frank - It's working!! In the past few weeks my social circles reached some kind of critical mass, and I am suddenly meeting more quality women than ever before without a lot of effort other than showing up to thing after thing.
Last night I had sex with a girl who had been a close platonic friend for almost a year. I was really uncomfortable pushing the relationship into that region for some reason, but remembered what happened with women I didn't make a move when it was time, and your coaching provided motivation to take the necessary actions.
This was exactly the kind of non-drunken sex I had talked about, always wanted but did not get until now and it felt great. I am really happy with the direction this is going. In 2013, I'd like to schedule more regular sessions and make sure I am keeping this momentum going.
-Review by Samuel P. from
St. Paul,Minnesota
I attended the seminar that was recorded for this program. This lecture really struck close to home, given what drove me to coaching with Frank in the first place. Frank has already discussed the emotional cookie men (henceforth ECM) in his book, "Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test". Over the early parts of the lecture, he recaps what he had already written briefly before supplementing it by an in-depth analysis of how women only think in rigid categories, that the ECM has fallen into one of the more horrible ones, which emotional needs the ECM violates and addresses, how he does so, and what are the consequences he must face as a result. I realized that, prior to the coaching, I was a horrendous ECM; thanks to Frank, I not only renewed my resolve to never become an ECM to any woman ever again, but also how exactly not to.
One interesting thing that Frank mentioned was the ten-year-rule - that in ten years' time, chances are that the people currently in your life will no longer be there. I think this rule does different things for different people. What I got out of it is to not be too attached to anyone in my life. Once you understand the ten-year-rule, really grasp it on both an intellectual and visceral level, you will no longer fear abandonment. A real man faces the world alone, without backing down or flinching. The most valuable part, I suppose, for all of us, were the ways to turn a female 'friend' into a lover. Early in the lecture, Frank defined a female friend as either an ally or at worst an enemy.
A man must be willing to do whatever it takes to get what he wants, even if this includes killing his former self completely. Frank's discussion of this part spoke strongly to me. A huge part of my personal development is the gradual end of the person I was prior to my coaching days. I've forced myself to, adopt new preferences, and assume new values while condemning my old ones. Such was my resolve. This is what it took for me to get to where I am, and it was painful, but I have no regrets. When it is time or all your efforts will be for naught.
-Review by Victor H.,
Toronto
I attended the seminar that was recorded for this program. I was fortunate enough to have spent one-on-one consultation time with Frank on this very subject, so this lecture was a review for me. But I can tell everyone that simply put, IT WORKS. How do I know? Because I tired it and succeeded.
Before I met Frank, there was a girl that I had held a candle for, for SEVEN YEARS. I was deep in the familiar and dreaded "Friend Zone" with her, and at the time, I was starting to learn how to get this part of my life handled. I was learning some new skills that I was excited to put into practice, but I was definitely not at the skill level where I could get her, and even if I could, Frank warned that I needed the passage of time to both develop further and to create a window of opportunity for her to re-categorize me - one of Frank's principles is that women put men into categories, and I was in the friend category.
I had a coffee date with her, and it was very difficult for me to do, but I trusted Frank so I called her and cancelled it, and then stopped all contact for a year. This was not easy to do at all, in fact it was downright painful. During that time, I had a number of mentors (including Frank), top guys in the field, that I worked with on developing myself. When it came time, we re-connected, and the moment we met, she looked into my eyes, and I already knew that she had no choice but to re-categorize me. And she did, after testing me especially hard (just as Frank said she would, because she wanted to make sure this was a real change and not an act). The dynamics of how we related completely changed, there was massive sexual tension, this time not just from me but from HER as well. Simply put, I was amazed.
Just stop, for a moment, and imagine, what it would be like, to be wanted, FINALLY by someone you desire very much, and for so long, AT LAST. It's a feeling like no other, and you can feel it now. Turning a friend into a lover is a legend among men, a "Holy Grail", because every man has suffered the pain of unrequited love. Men throughout the ages have tried many ways to overcome this, and the few that succeed don't know how they did it, attributing their good fortune to divine intervention or just good old fashioned dumb luck.
Frank takes the luck out of the situation and replaces luck with the principles for success. The principles are sound, and I know because I used them and they work. Thank you Frank.
-Review by Lee L,
Toronto
I attended the seminar that was recorded for this program. I got into this because I was always "just friends" with girls so I was excited to directly address the issue and understand it using the emotional needs analysis model. The tactics to actually turn a friend into a lover, from a man who's done it himself, I think makes this one of the most valuable lectures from Frank thus far.
-Review by Art D,
Toronto
I just went through the audio set and reinforced my view of the Emotional Needs Analysis Model.
It is a good thing for me to listen, because the experience is different than that of reading the book. What I mean here, the way the words are spoken, sometimes histrionic, sometimes hilarious, and when the time is right, very very serious. It helps because there's another level of communication, and if we are open to go through the experience we are able to catch some subtleties of it. I imagine that being there at the lectures must quite an event...
Frank explains the traits of the Emotional Cookie Man, and then goes through the Emotional Needs of Women, and how under this scenario, the ECM scenario, some of the emotional needs are addresses, fully or partially, and how some are violated. He makes some good distinctions and gives fine points as to see the differences where some emotional needs apparently are addressed, but in reality is quite the opposite.
The change comes in two areas: Learn to address the emotional needs of women to a fine degree, and work in your self (see the Coaching Workbook for Men). At the core of the second is our real self/being.
Expect to be tested very viciously, hardcore, big time. Only then we stand a chance to accomplish the goal of turning a female friend into a lover. Make a profile and see which are the dominant emotional needs of the lady in question, because we have spent time, years maybe in her company.
Lots of valuable tips. I see myself listening to the program at least 3-4 more times this week. Thumbs up Frank!
-Review by Czar G,
Mexico
I learned a lot from listening to this program; it was like learning new material from Frank. I was surprised of the real stories that Frank talks about. It amazes me that guys (including myself in the past) do so much for a girl, and end up being her emotional cookie man (ECM). Frank also goes through each emotional need and how an ECM addresses (and not) them. Very informative. I liked it when Frank explained the emotional needs of a woman and the ECM. It makes so much sense, and it did not click to me until listening to this program. The best part of this lecture I found was the last method to stop being an ECM. It's a technique I definitely need to try with the women in my past. Overall, this program is great for anyone, whatever level of development you are.
-Review by Rocco,
Toronto
Emotional cookie man! I'm surprised to see how many guys go through this stage at some point in life including me; been there without realizing they are doing it all wrong, some stay there forever so don't be that guy! Take action and get this audio program.
I really like how Frank goes through each emotional need and explains how do they relate in turning you into a friend and get the "let's just be friends" speech. You don't want to hear this, and you'll learn the typical mistakes guys do that puts them on that path, for example, listening to her problems about other guys or making her feel like you are a nice guy, or be afraid to upset her. Stop this! On this audio program Frank explains how the emotional needs of a woman are violated or incorrectly addressed by the emotional cookie man.
Frank continues going through the rest of the emotional needs, he also goes through the 10 year rule which means that most people you deal with now won't be there in 10 years. This is key for life and something wise that he shows how can you apply to your fear of abandonment. He also goes through a 3 step simple process on how to turn her into your lover after being the emotional cookie man. It really works, I've done this before without realizing it. This is one of best Franks programs, if you really want to improve and get a better understanding of girls and how to get that one you want you must invest on this program for sure.
-Review by Donny,
Toronto
The 5 Year Story of Oliver Clearwater: From Virgin To Married Man
**Dear Friends,
Every so often I get the most wonderful review of how my work has changed the life of someone. Here is one of those stories. Oliver was an adult male virgin who got dumped by his girlfriend and he wanted her back. He studied with me and my materials. He got her back, got closure, got free of her, and then continued to manage dating multiple women until finding the one that he wanted to build a future together. The story of a man that turned his entire life around in less than 5 years. Enjoy! -Frank
May, 5 Years Ago
Frank, just want to say, I'm reading through your book From Loser To Seducer, and really getting a lot from it.
I'm 25. I'm overweight but not out of shape and on my way to really getting into shape. My girlfriend broke up with me and she started dating our mutual friend. Just want to say that I'm working on myself and getting out their and finding some real women and live that same dream life. Thank you for your great book.
July, 5 Years Ago
Frank, wanted to say, since going through your book From Loser to Seducer and starting to get everything in order, I've dropped 20 pounds, and this week I had 3 dates with 3 different women, and have had about 7 or 8 dates in all with different women (since the end of May) (a few second dates as well). I've gotten rid of my approach anxiety and I've been approaching women daily or any time I see someone interesting. Thanks for the great book.
August, 5 Years Ago
Frank, My ex that broke up with me, has quite suddenly come back into my life in a very real way.
Since then, I've changed, when I was with her, I was weak, submissive, scared, and needy. Now, I've dated up to 4 women at once, I went from virgin to having slept with 3 women. I've gotten my career, my beliefs, and everything else in order. Is considering pursuing a relationship with an ex a horrible idea when you're newer, better, and more ready. Got a date tonight with a different woman. But I'll definitely set up a coaching appointment.
September, 5 Years Ago
Read through all your books again Frank. I have From Loser To Seducer, Everything Out of Her Mouth Is A Test, andI'm A Man, That's My Job Coaching Workbook for Men. Last night, as I noticed her tests, and I found myself like you did when you were with your ex, realized I was slipping out of state, I interrupted the pattern, I interrupted her tests, and took control through distance. Letting her know that I'll make decisions that are best for us. And instead of her immediately saying, "we should stop fooling around!", she instead asked me, "What do you want to do?"
Since I knew at that moment I wasn't in state and I needed to keep control, I said, I'll take responsibility, and I'll keep us from hurting each other. She leaned in to kiss me and I didn't kiss her. "We need to know who we are and what we want and what we are before we pursue anything." I left and told her I'd talk to her later.
She sent me a few texts that I haven't responded to since, since I told her I wasn't going to be reachable when I left. THANK YOU FRANK FOR YOUR EXCELLENT WORK.
Your work has taken me further with women in 3 months than 3 years of PUA material. I'm dating 4 women now including my ex, who when she heard that I was dating two women, called it wrong, now she's dating me as well--the first 5 months of our relationship, before she left me for another guy, she wouldn't label it as dating.
Just Four days together fulfilling her emotional needs and she's asking me what's going to happen 6 weeks, 3 months, or even next year down the road.
Women that at once I didn't think would look at me, now interact with me and flirt with me.
I'm a Man, That's My Job. Thank you. You rock!
September, 5 Years Ago
Frank, after getting back with my ex, experiencing her, seeing her, I came to realize that we just will never work. It's so fulfilling to know that she just doesn't feel the same way I feel about her. I thought maybe there was something, but, I'm just her emotional cookie-man, and she knows that I know her body. Completely found Peace!
I know who I am as a man. I know what I have to offer a woman. And I had hoped she realized that what I had to offer is what she wanted. It's not. She's still who she is, but I'm not who I was.
It feels wonderful to know that I can walk away and I have all these other options and I can always get more.
I have a journal as per your coaching; I've been writing all this down day by day. But thank you Frank.
December, 5 Years Ago
Just bought your From Friends to Lovers audio and the Emotional Needs 101 Set, these two programs are absolutely amazing. You break it down in a way that shows me every mistake I've ever made with women and what were seemingly confusing reactions, now appear sensible.
TODAY!!!!!!
Dear Frank, If you look back at our talk, the last time I reached out to you was 5 years ago, having just gotten yourFrom Friends To Lovers program.
Today, I've been married a year to the most supporting, beautiful, and wonderful woman.
I still follow the Emotional Needs of Women, and, I must say, it's kept us from fighting, or arguing, which, we see our good friends who have journeyed into marriage during daily.
Before I met her four years ago, I--like your book--From Loser to Seducer, did my binge, where in an eight month period, I "met" a lot of women, going from a 25 year old with little experience to an incredibly experienced young man. Including, getting back with and hooking up with the woman that had left and sent me on my Quintessential Journey to begin with.
You are an inspiration and your work is amazing.
I don't know where I would be today with relationships, had I not found your material.
Thanks a million.
I'll be making a donation to your son's education fund when I get paid next week.
-Review by Oliver Clearwater,
Massachusetts, United States
This is 3rd time listening to this program. It’s definitely refreshing to hear Frank talk about his view on how man & women interact, and especially on how I’ve been interacting with the main woman I’ve been seeing lately. Falling back into ECM (emotional cookie man) behaviours definitely doesn’t help a relationship, so having a review of this program is not only helping me add to my original notes, but also allowing me to go over my original notes while listening to the program and take in the excellent advice. It’s interesting how Frank’s base philosophies come to mind when hearing me talk about a specific topic such as ECM behaviours, categorizing, etc.
More specifically, what’s opened my eyes the most this time I’ve listened to this program is in respect to upsetting a girl to address a certain emotional need, and how important that is. That is something I definitely haven’t been focusing enough of. It’s been one of my on-going issues, and while I’m slowly getting better at it, having a reminder of how important it is to focus on this has been really helpful. Wow, did I ever get some eye openers that I hadn’t noticed before, however. The biggest one that I would have to say I got with this program was that when Frank starts talking in detail about the difference between the way that men & women categorize the opposite sex, as well as how he teaches men to categorize women, it made me think about how I met my long-term partner that I’ve been with now for a year and a half.
She initially categorized me as a one night stand, and I had her re-categorize me as a long-term partner with my learning from Frank’s material. If I had acted the way I used to before I started learning Frank’s material, I would have never been able to get anywhere past one night stand with her for sure, and considering she is the most amazing woman I’ve ever met, I’m definitely grateful that I am where I am with her today.
Frank began this program with his story as to how he ended up accidentally stumbling across the method of turning a woman from a friend to a lover. He then went into describing what the emotional cookie man consists of and he described the affects of vagueness as well as the results of it depending on when it’s used. He then started going through the emotional needs of women describing in detail how they are partially addressed to get a man to qualify into the emotional cookie man category in a woman’s mind.
After listening to this program, I can see how I could be viewed at least one woman’s emotional cookie man based on my actions with her, and the way I see it, that’s not a way a high quality man acts so I must change my behaviour. This program is very inspiring in not trying to cater overly to a woman and instead focusing on addressing emotional needs (while of course calibrating accordingly, although that topic was merely touched upon in this program).
Frank went into very vast detail on the topic, and I really enjoyed his point of view on it as it made perfect sense to me. All-in-all, while this program focuses mainly on how a man who keeps falling into the “friends” category of women should go about transforming himself, all of the bits and pieces that were involved in the process were very insightful.
I especially liked how Frank finished this program, where he went back to the initial story he said at the beginning of the program, and he mentioned how he would’ve viewed her differently considering all of his post-development changes. He also made a closing statement that really made me view the power of no longer being a woman’s emotional cookie man, and how it relates to closure.
I strongly recommend this program to anyone who is always getting stuck in the “lets just be friends” category of women’s minds, as I feel that this program is essential for getting out of this type of dynamic and figuring out how to have women as lovers as opposed to only being able to hope that they’ll become lovers and never see it actually happen. It is a very inspiring program over-all, reminding me as to what I could’ve done differently in previous situations where I ended up being the emotional cookie man to a woman.
-Review by Alex S.,
Toronto