FROM LOSER TO SEDUCER- THE AUTOBIOGRAPHY OF FRANK KERMIT EBOOK by Frank Kermit

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Have you lost all hope that love and sex will never happen to you, and you want a real story about an imperfect man that was able to transform himself and change his life?

Are you considering having Frank as your mentor and coach and want to know his back story in depth before you make that decision, so you can witness first hand his credentials that qualify him as such an expert in his field?

Are you a loser when it comes to having women in your life, and you want to be more seductive and be able the attract the women you want?

Are you desperately looking for a way to get your ex back, and you want proof that this system will work for you?

Would you like to hear the story of a man that got stood up at his prom, lost his ex fiance to his best friend, lost another girl to another guy, and how he went from suicidal incel to mastering romantic and sexual relationships with women?

Do you want to learn how to ethically manage dating multiple women at the same time?

Would you like to discover ways to get over your ex, so that you can be with new women in your future, without feeling the pain?

Are you looking for some kind of redemption and self forgiveness for the mistakes you made in your past (those really bad ones), and want a guide to show you how it can be done?

What’s This Book About?

This is the story of a man who was like so many other men. He was alone and confused and looking for answers. At his lowest point, Frank Kermit contemplated suicide if he could not reform his life.

Be inspired by the man who turned his life around! A self-proclaimed loser who harnessed all of his pain and used it to motivate himself to change his life for the better.

Learn how Frank transformed himself to become a great seducer. How he used his learned skills, new knowledge and original ideas to win back his ex-fiancé. Follow his journey of self-discovery. Read about how a former loser ethically managed up to 5 lovers who knew about each other, all at the same time!

Rejoice with Frank when he finally gaining an understanding and clarity of the mindset of women that had eluded him all of his life.

Well, this is it! This is where it all started. This is the man who created Emotional Needs Analysis and changed the world for the better.

You'll get ALL of the following information in this 400 page digital Ebook:

Learn how a lack of choice of women to date can directly cause men to choose incompatible women out of desperation which brings about more problems
3 Ways you can make a difference in the world
How accepting your fear of committing to the wrong person can help you change your life to finding the right person for you (a woman you can trust)
Some of the material in this book are direct passages from Frank's personal journal while he was going through the experiences so you have 1st accounts of what he was thinking and feeling in those moments, as oppose to looking back on his life through 20/20 vision. This makes it more real
Detailed explanations of the pain Frank was in that include the night of his senior prom, losing his ex-fiance, and the final experience that pushed him over the edge where he contemplated suicide and made a decision to change
Learn the KEY things Frank did during his hardest times to help him get out of a bad head space that you can do as well, and outward signs that the changes were working
An introduction to Frank's Emotional Needs Analysis Theories directly from the journals he created it in
How to create a Persona to help you change your behaviors and believes and how it works to make you more seductive
How Frank earned the respect of his first mentors and how they helped guide him on the path using harsh lessons
The incident that Frank changed his thinking on sex, and how it affected him to start having his first successes
How to handle getting called by the boyfriend of a girl you tried to pick up
10 Rules for Dating Multiple Women at the same time to keep them satisfied and coming back even when they have to share you with other women
An explanation as to why it is easier to date 3 women at the same time than it is to date just 1 or 2 at the same time, and how that lesson changes everything
Learn what to expect at new sex related experiences such as a first orgy, first eyes wide shut party, first and how those experience can shape and change your views on sex and relationships
How you will experience love differently from the time you are a chump to when you have a very active sex life, how to manage the struggles of intimacy when you are a ladies man, and how to balance freedom and feelings of emptiness
A detailed account of the weekend that Frank got his ex back, and everything he did step by step (the good and the bad, and the heart breaking)
How to find inner peace from your past and make self-forgiveness automatic, and learning to cope with loss
14 Rules to follow if you are going to face your ex that you have not seen in years, as well as how to put to rest the future the two of you could have together to find peace
5 Lessons about finding peace on your past relationships that will allow you to move on from any heartbreak
3 Questions to know if you are ready to get that closure
The biggest mistake men make trying to get her back, and how to avoid it
The 10 Rules of Getting Her Back and why they work
How to structure a poly date where you bring two lovers to the same dinner date
How to turn an enemy into a lover
How to break up with someone and stay on good terms
An explanation of the different forms of pain a man will experience at the different levels of his development and how to be ready for them
7 Steps of Personal Change and how they can help you go through the process
How Frank met his wife after all of this and decided to marry her after 26 hours together
BONUS: **NEW MATERIAL**
Chapter 8- The 10 Stages Of Development: From Loser to Seducer to Natural.
Chapter 9- This new chapter has articles of advice for people coping with loss written by Frank for the Coping With Loss Newsletter.

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P.S.S. There's going to be a lot of spelling mistakes in this book. You might be wondering "Why?" Because Frank writes his own books and does not hire any "ghostwriters" to do his work, unlike other coaches out there. Frank is no marketer by any stretch of the imagination! But this also means his writing is 100% honest material.

(Note: Read the reviews below of those who have found positive change reading this book as well as many of the women that Frank was romantically involved with)

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FROM LOSER TO SEDUCER- THE AUTOBIOGRAPHY OF FRANK KERMIT
WHY DID I WRITE THIS BOOK?

This book is for that guy that became “friends first” with a woman in the HOPE
she would eventually like him enough to date him, but only ended up listening to
her problems!
He listens while she complains to him at 3 am about the jerks that she’s currently having sex with.

This book is for all those guys that too many times
have heard:

“It’s not that I want to hurt your feelings, I just think
we’d be better as friends”

“But you’re such a nice guy”

“I wish that I could be with a guy Just Like You”
(subtext: but not actually YOU)

“I really love the (3% of you) element in him”
(but the 100% you isn't enough?)

“I have a boyfriend”
(When you know she doesn't)

“Why ruin our friendship by going out?”

“Let’s be friends first, and then we can see”

“Let’s wait, and let it happen naturally.”
(subtext: there is no such thing. She will chose if it ever happens)

“Well there is this other guy I am really interested in right now, and he might ask me out one day”

“I am just not attracted to you”

“You’re too handsome”
(subtext: she doesn't want the competition for attention)

“You’re too fat or short or tall
or skinny or bald or
old or young or poor…”
(Funny, no women has ever
seemed to mind if the guy is too rich!)

If you are a nice guy, an adult male virgin, a
single guy that cannot connect with a woman, or a
divorced guy this book was written for you.

If you are a guy that got dumped by the woman of
your dreams and you want one more chance to make
it happen right, then this book was written for you.

If you grew up taught to be a self-hating male, or
taught to put all women upon an unrealistic pedestal,
then this book was written for you.

If you are a "too nice" a guy, and you are ready to
change but do not know where to start, what to do
next, or want to know where this new path can take
you, then this book is for you.

If you come from a place of real pain when it
comes to failing to connect with women, and you want
to move into a place on the other side of the canyon of
pain, where you can be safe and take charge of your
destiny, then this book is for you.

NOTICE FOR TESTIMONIALS AND REVIEWS AND RESULTS

All testimonials and product reviews on Franktalks.com are authentic.
No persons have ever been paid for any testimonials or reviews.
Some have been edited for grammar, spelling, and clarity of message.

REAL REVIEWS FROM REAL PEOPLE

REVIEW FROM FRANK'S WIFE JADE

Book Introduction and Review to the 10 Year Anniversary Edition of From Loser To Seducer
by Jade Kermit (Frank's Wife)

He likes to tell me that he seduced me. I roll my eyes at him and tell him I seduced him. The truth lies somewhere in the middle, in that we seduced each other. When we met we were two people who had been bashed by life to the point where we both had decided enough was enough. We had both made the life choice long before we meet each other to change. To examine our choices, to examine ourselves and decide, in our hearts what we really wanted and who we were inside.

When I met Frank in 2006 the world of online dating was still a fairly new thing. I was pretty new to it but really ready for that opportunity to meet, not just someone, I was looking for my life partner. The first time we were matched up online, Frank sent the only thing that was allowed on the site we were both on: an auto request to email me. I instantly replied no! The picture he had emailed me shocked me, and made me wonder what sort of man was he? There he was smiling into the camera, decked out in a purple sequined shirt, every finger adorned with silver and golden rings, many of them skull faces and around his neck more chains than I could count! He also wore a Fedora hat and was holding a cane. I decided that he was probably a player, and rejected him. Who dresses like that??

After rejecting Frank, I decided to date as many men as I could with the purpose of finding a partner, someone to build a future with. Alas my time was filled with a lot of “first and only dates”. Men I realized years later that either weren’t ready to date, had hardly ever dated, or were closet virgins! It was at this time that I was well and truly at the end of my patience for dating in general. I remember telling myself “okay, just one more date and if that doesn’t work out, that’s it.” I had resigned myself to work on my career, probably leave the Province to head to Alberta, which at that time was paying big money for skilled workers.

I didn’t know the dating site I was on allowed for people to retry contacting someone. So I was surprised when I received another request from Frank. This time he sent me a different picture where he was dressed in what I considered to be ‘normal clothing’. I realized that I had judged him too fast. How did I know what he was really like? Throwing caution to the wind, I decided the Universe was giving me a second chance, so I suspended my judgment and said yes!

Through emails and eventually telephone calls we started to hash out our terms. We seemed to get along but there were things that had to be made clear. Choices that could not be repeated and personality types we never wanted to encounter again, much less date! Due to various circumstances including my getting badly injured at work, Frank and I ended up being able to spend a lot of time together. In that time, we formed a bond and understanding that surprised and scared both of us. We would often look at each other and voice in wonder if such a connection was truly possible, or if it was even real. Two weeks into dating we were shopping for an engagement ring! I insisted on something cheap and cheerful, I was going to go the fake but beautiful route, but Frank insisted on my having a real gemstone ring. The one I picked surprised him. It’s not expensive or fancy but it’s beautiful and it was on sale! (I love a bargain)

All these years’ later women will still gush over Frank. When we attend dinner parties I watch them lean forward to listen to his every word. They will unconsciously flirt with him while their oblivious partners sit beside them. Why don’t these men notice? They don’t see Frank as a threat. He’s not your typical catch from a physical standpoint, and yet with his every word, every gesture they are hooked. Later on, these same women will tell me “Oh you are so lucky to have Frank!” and look at me with hidden distaste. Why? Jealousy for one and, well I am not a typical catch from a physical standpoint either! Standing almost 6 feet tall I tower over most everyone, including men. I am no delicate flower, but I am a catch! With my biggest smile I will turn to these women and say, “Frank is lucky too.” I am not a jealous woman. I know what I offer and am not threatened by other women. If you are confident in yourself, and what you have as a couple there is no need to be jealous.

I never asked or expected a date to pay for my meal. I never expected to be treated like a Princess. Princesses are for fantasy films and little girls. I am a woman. I am intelligent, strong and not afraid to speak my mind. I am self-sufficient and hard working. I never NEEDED a man in my life, but I WANTED one. I wanted a husband, a life partner to share the journey with.

People ask me: What is Frank really like?” Frank is just like his writings. Honest and straightforward. If you know how many books, lectures and other works he has done then you know he is hard working. The hardest working person I know. He is loyal and dedicated and yes, seductive. So subtly seductive that he has to rein it in sometimes in order to keep our social circles comfortable. He is also caring, loving, and extremely considerate. When I was injured all those years ago, he is the one that showed up at my door carrying groceries and a cane for me because he knew I could barely walk. My family never came; they said it was “too far” to bother to help me. Frank made a 2-hour journey on the bus to help me. That is the kind of man that he is.

Frank is also still a dork. Completely and utterly! He still loves comics, especially Ghost Rider. He gets pretty excited over kids toys. And although he denies it- he really does love our cats. (I’ve caught him snuggling them) He is prone to what we call “Frankisms” statements that make my head hurt but make me laugh at the same time. An example: One freezing cold winter day after he had been outside, I asked him “Is it slippery out there?” His answer? “Only where there’s ice!” He wasn’t joking. He truly thought that answer was helpful.

For anyone that fears losing him or herself if they “transform” from Frank’s work, don’t be afraid. Embrace the change, and know that the best parts of you will not only continue, they will thrive. The obstacles that held you back will dissolve and you will wonder why you resisted for so long.

I remember when I read Everything Out Of Her Mouth Is A Test in the early days of dating Frank. I was sitting on his bed in his tiny one room apartment. I sat there with my mouth open in shock. “You broke the code!??” I said to him in disbelief. “I know,” he said proudly, smiling at me. At the time I was worried that there wouldn’t be any mystery left, that he would be able to read me so well I’d be uncomfortable and hate it. In truth sometimes I do hate it! Mostly though, I am grateful that he “gets me” especially on the days that I am being the most difficult person and he has the patience of a saint, because he knows what my Emotional Needs are.

~Review by Jade Kermit (Frank's Wife)

REVIEW FROM FRANK'S EX-FIANCE (AS FEATURED IN THE BOOK)

I really like what you have done. I have to say, that I am surprised (in a really good way) at how well it is written.

The Frank I knew keep a lot inside and hid his emotions. So long ago when we first met he was clingy, but Frank, you have completely transformed yourself as a human being!

To come full circle and to see your experiences is kind of amazing to me. Who would have thought when we met each other back then that you would write this book, and that all of this would happen?

I agree with what you have written about Harem Management. You give good advice and try to weed out the manipulators. For me personally it is not a lifestyle I agree with, but the way you have presented it is interesting.

Your book is amazing! I like the way you edited the book and interspersed bits of information with personal stories. It is weird to me, to see how I have had such a big effect on someone else's life. I'm sorry if I hurt you as I didn't mean to.

I think you have helped me by writing your autobiography as I now feel "bigger”, broader, and more present in the here and now.

- Review by Frank’s Ex-Fiance (as featured in the autobiography)

REVIEW FROM FRANK'S EX-GIRLFRIEND MAJESTA

In your book From Loser to Seducer you based it on your life experiences good and bad ones. It really surprised me to see that you revealed personal information to the world. I am sure it was well worth it. Getting back your ex-fiance must of been an amazing feeling. Well you know Frank, it touched me very much too see that your ex-fiance gave you feedback on this book. I am so happy that your inner most feelings were revealed in this matter and things came to a closure with that special woman.

I remember being with you after that weekend of "redemption" and then losing her again. I remember being there for you. I know the book contained a lot of other experiences that changed you as a person, BUT I concentrated more on the experience with your ex-fiance because I can relate with your experiences. You see when I was dating you at the time, who I loved very much, I felt that you did not return the same kind of love I felt for you the way she did not return the love you had for her. I had a really hard time after we broke up because I truly loved you..I felt that I would never meet someone like you again.

I agree with your statement on FORGIVENESS. Forgiving yourself does play an important role because it gives us the inner peace that allows us too move on in our lives. Frank, this book did work for you in getting that closure with your ex-fiance and it worked for me as well; in reading it, it helped me get closure with you. You see if I would have not looked into it, I would have never gotten to this point. Thank you for giving me the chance to begin a new friendship with you. Hope I can meet you and your wife in the near future. Thank you again and keep on writing more interesting books.

-Review by Majesta, Frank's Ex-Girlfriend

REVIEW FROM FRANK'S FRIEND WITH BENEFITS PRECIOUS

When Frank first self published his autobiography From Loser To Seducer, I was given an autographed copy because I was one of the women he included in the book.

I was honoured to know that our friendship was important enough to him that I was included in the book; to know that I had made a difference. Since I believe the meaning of life is to have made a difference, being in your book confirms to me that I did just that

We had not been in touch for several years, until he reached out to me to write this review.

I remember Frank as a sincere, sensitive and insightful. I simply enjoyed talking with him (and now enjoy chatting). Having been very open sexually, a little sexual release between friends was a natural thing to do. I even gave Frank some cooking lessons so he could make dinner for the other women he was seeing. The thing I remember most about Frank was how I was able to share things with him about my private life and he was totally open to it, no judgement at all, just accepting of where I was at in my own sexual journey. My primary partner back then also got along with Frank.

Frank's book has a number of insights on relationship dynamics; some quite original that I had never heard before which gave me much to think about,,, especially as a psychology major. For example: "Everything she says is a test" at first I was taken aback with this statement, taking it a little personally, then I realized this was a way for him to communicate a message to men on how to develop a relationship with women. Frank is now and always was a great guy. I do not think he always saw it in himself, but he was always a very great listener and that is a skill all too many people lack. I think it is that listening skill of his, more than anything else, that allowed Frank to discover those insights into how women communicate and for Frank to understand what women really want and need. Maybe not all women, but a good portion of us.

I think his insights can be helpful for men who find talking to women awkward and challenging or who simply do not know how to go about meeting and building a relationship with woman, they are written in a way that one can understand and apply.

As for which stories in his book involve me, I will keep that between me and Frank, other than to say it was more than one. They were some good times, and I am happy that we can still be friends today. I look forward to him and his wife hanging out with me and my husband over the summer.

- Review from Precious, always Frank's Friend, but now married so no more -With-Benefits ;)

REVIEW FROM FRANK'S FRIENDS-WITH-BENEFITS NANCY

Frank and I were friends-with-benefits for years. We were never a couple. We had our very private involvement seeing each other when my busy schedule would allow me a break.

I first met Frank in college. Back then he flirted with me, but I wasn't interested. Frank was a nice guy, but just not someone that ever interested me back then. Then we lost touch.

About a decade later we re-connected. We chatted and started talking, and I noticed a change. Sure, Frank was a still a flirt, but it was different now. He was confident, really sure of himself, and comfortable in his own skin. And it showed. After a few email chats, we hooked up.

I love being sexual with Frank. Our chemistry is hot. He accepts me, he adores my body the way I loved being adored, and I never feel self conscious when naked with him. Frank is the first man that I ever made out with, while making out with another woman. Frank was the first man to arrange for me to have sex one on one with one of his other female lovers. I had sex with Frank in taboo places around the city. Great memories.

I am still friends with Frank today, and even friends with his wife, and I love the fact that we can all get along. I am not featured in his autobiography, but some of his stories could easily be translated to me and him.

I sometimes still fantasize about Frank - maybe one day he will finally arrange for me to have sex with one of his adult male virgin clients and instruct me how to take their virginity. That would be a chapter in his next book.

Frank is definitely a unique individual. His advice and life lessons are worthwhile.

-Review by Nancy, Frank's former friends-with-benefits

REVIEW FROM FRANK'S EX-GIRLFRIEND ANGEL

As an ex-girlfriend of Frank, I was excited to read his autobiography From Loser to Seducer, just to see how many times he would write about me lol. He also wrote about me in some of his other books. Don't ask me which stories are ours, I will never tell lol.

I first met Frank over the phone. The company he worked for would call the company I worked for, to call on general office service. We got to know each other over 2 or 3 phone calls, and one day we got into a playful banter. He asked me for a date that night, to come over to his place. By the end of it, I agreed. I barely knew him but I felt compelled to meet him that night for a date. It is the first time in my life that I ever went to a strangers house for a first date (and I only did it once more in my entire life). I never thought I would do this, but I went over to his house thinking "What I am doing!?" This happened years ago when you couldn't look up what someone looked like on the Internet or through your phone.

So I finally got there and saw a man completely not my type to be honest. He had a long beard and a weird looking hat. So I go in, sat on his sofa and the entire time was thinking, "OMG, WHAT am I doing here?" while I looked around his place. There was a disco ball on the ceiling, candles all around the room; I had never been to a place like that or met a guy like Frank before. It was beautiful but kind of creepy if you had asked me back then.

He started talking to me. Frank WAS weird and different, but in a good way. He made me feel safe. Then after lighting candles together and laughing together, he put on slow music, turned on the disco ball and asked me to slow dance in his living room. He just made me feel amazing. It is still one of the most romantic nights I ever had with a man. In my mind I was like, "Wow! I don't know what just happened, but all of a sudden I adore this man. Since that night I have adored him ever since, to this day even. Frank is the most romantic boyfriend I ever had.

Frank was seeing other women when I met him, and he was honest about it. He is the one that first explained the idea of open relationships. I hated that he had these other women, but I was willing to share. He was like no one I had ever been with before, and I didn't want to end things right away.

Over the next few weeks, we dated. It's not like I was a virgin when we met, but Frank is the first guy that I let take nude photos of me on a first date. In fact, I have never let ANYONE take pics of me naked ever except for Frank. He makes me feel like I can do anything with him. I have done a lot of things with him and I have never done with anyone else. Over the years, I like to stay in touch with him because I know I can reach out to him. Frank still makes me feel special and pretty. Other men just never made me feel that way.

Frank's wife is a lucky woman, and if he is ever single again, I hope he calls me. lol.

-Review by Angel, Frank's Ex-girlfriend

REVIEW FROM FRANK'S EX LOVER SWEETNESS

Frank does not look like Leonardo DiCaprio and when I first met him I wasn’t interested in dating him. Eventually Frank won me over with his attentiveness so I decided to give it a chance. After we dated I felt very seduced, mainly due to his gentle touch and the fact that I felt he was genuinely listening to what I had to say. Frank and I dated briefly and after we stopped dating we stayed and are still on good terms and if Frank was single I would definitely date him again. I recently contacted him for coaching and he was a great help. Since then I always go to Frank for coaching about the men I am dating because I really feel I can trust him to be objective, and he really is the only one I know I can trust.

Although I am not in Frank’s book From Loser To Seducer, my brief time with him taught me, as he mentions in Part 6, that communication is so much more important than romantic love. I really enjoyed reading his excellent book and maybe I will be mentioned in his next one.

-Review by Sweetness (Frank's ex lover)

REVIEW FROM FRANK'S FORMER GIRLFRIEND JEWEL

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Frank and I tried to date back in college, but it never went anywhere. He was a nice guy, very sweet, but we just were not on the same wave length back then and I was from a very strict family that shamed females for having intimacy or sex before marriage. We lost touch for many years and then re-connected years later. When we reconnected, we tried dating again.

This time, it was different. I was a little more mature. We actually got closer to the point where we dated and got intimate. I told him I loved him. I loved being touched by him and loved to touch him back. He was so gentle and caring. I loved being with him back then. He made me feel very wanted and attractive and he was different from the way he was back when I first met him. He was more assertive and confident. Unfortunately, I was having issues with mental health and anxiety and we stopped seeing each other. Again we fell out of touch, but I never regretted getting really close and intimate with him.

When he asked me to write this review of his autobiography From Loser To Seducer, I was flattered.

Frank, I will always love you in my own way. You are a piece of my childhood I cannot forget. You are also very sweet, introspective and insightful. You're a scholar and a gentleman. And we are at peace. Thank you Frank for forgiving me. I wish I had given you a real chance. I was so scared of your depth. When you looked at me you looked into my soul. I love how this review has now given our love a place to exist.

-Review from Jewel, Frank's former girlfriend

REVIEW FROM FRANK'S FORMER PLAYMATE MISS KITTY

I met Frank in high school. We started talking at a school dance. Frank was a nice guy, and funny, but a bit too much of a clown. I liked him, but we never dated. I did like the fact that he was always so easy to talk to, and that he liked making people laugh.

Years later, we continued to be friends.

When Frank was going through really hard times, especially during the loss of his ex-fiance that he mentions in his autobiography From Loser To Seducer, I was one of the people he could talk to and confide in. I remember the real hurt in his voice, crying, when we would talk on the phone. He took it hard. I remember talking to him at his lowest points. He was not making anyone laugh anymore.

Then Frank disappeared for a while. He cut ties with a lot of us that knew him. When we re-connected years later, it was a new name, new attitude, and a new Frank. He was still the same good guy, but just not the clown he used to be.

When I read his autobiography, I now understand why. I am a little shocked at some of the stories he wrote, and the things he tried and went through. But I am glad for him that he seems to be happy where he is now.

For the record, I am not one of the women he wrote about in his book. But I will say, that at one point we did date. For a guy that was a clown in high school, he was a pretty good kisser in the end lol. Frank was fun when we did finally hook up and smooch. On one of my birthday's Frank gave me a personal strip-tease just for me lol (don't visualize, just move on!). He always made me laugh, and feel good about my body and never made me feel self-conscious about any of my disabilities that I faced as an adult. I like how he would get totally dominant with me, and I loved it when he would "own" me as his play thing. It was so hot. I could never imagine the Frank I knew way back in high school ever do that.

Very seductive, very fun (but no longer like a clown). He made me feel safe. Safe enough to pose topless for him once lol. Even after we stopped dating, I would send him a topless photo of me, because I know it makes him smile. No matter what though, even when we stopped dating we stayed friends. That is the way I like it.

-Review from Miss Kitty, Frank's former playmate

REVIEW FROM FRANK'S VERY FIRST GIRLFRIEND POOKI

I don’t usually like to relive my past, there is a reason why it is there, to grow people need to move forward. However, looking back at the fun years, for some it may be high school, other college, if you are lucky enough, you get to live interesting times, try new things, fall in love, make friends for life.

Frank reached out to me asked me to write what it was like to be his first girlfriend back then. This was a few decades back, and we really only touch base through social media now, so time to turn back the clock a bit. Frank and I met in college and we dated for a few months.

I was his first girlfriend and I remember him being very funny, and caring, somewhat opinionated, but was always willing to listen to my endless chatter. Frank used to tell me that I was the first to see something special in him, and that I was the first to love him for him. Like most young love, we parted ways, but we stayed friends. We were in the same big social circle and agreed not to try and divide our group of friends into taking sides. We did however start making new friends, and having different interests and goals, we lost touch.

Fast forward over a decade, we reconnected through social media when he was already an author and coach for dating. I have not actually read his autobiography From Loser To Seducer (I really should), all in good time.

I see Frank today as a person who has worked hard to become successful has grown as a human being. However, deep down, Frank is still the Frank I knew. Caring, helpful, and still will lend and ear to my endless chatter. I would have to say, that unlike the women that rejected him before and then dated him after, I dated the real Frank back when others did not give him a chance.

I saw the glimpse of confidence that emerged into his total self acceptance and self love today. I saw in him empathy and compassion for others that comes through when he is giving love advice. I saw his determination and hard work ethic back then, that gives him the drive to write so many books and be the best at what he does.

When you reconnect with someone after so many years, it always makes me happy when I see that the person has found themselves, be it easily or having lived through many hardships. I am happy for Frank that he found himself, and found what he was looking for as far as his love life goes. I was privileged enough to meet his lovely wife and child, and I am happy for him and his family.

As we caught up, there were certainly things that I didn't care for and certain experiences he had that are certainly not anything I would ever be interested in trying; it seems Frank needed to go on that journey to find himself. Having had my own tumultuous journey, I am in no position to judge, but I will always look back fondly to have been a part of the beginning of that journey.

Frank insists that I was the first to inspire him to love himself. This I think is the highest compliment one can receive, especially if you look at how young and clueless we were back then about what “adulting” was going to be really like. We all have something to offer, and I think Frank would have eventually found it on his own, but I am happy that I helped open the door, and have him see him for who he was, and who he could be.

After we lost touch, I do not know the details of what happened to him that caused him to become what he refers to as a “loser” but the fact that he can share these experiences in his book, shows courage, personal growth, and willingness to help others avoid making really bad decisions. Frank will always be a friend, a part of my youth, a time I can look back on and smile - and I wish him nothing but the best in life, as I know he wishes me.

-Review from Pooki, Frank's First

REVIEW FROM FRANK'S EX LOVER BIANCA

Frank is amazing. I first met Frank years ago at an event. We hit if off, and dated briefly. We stayed friendly and on good terms after that. Eventually I found myself seeking out his coaching services. I can’t trust anyone else as much as I can trust Frank.

He taught me that I have to take chances as long as I am safe, if I want to find real love in my life. I often find myself asking “What would Frank Do?” when I face a new situation. I love hearing him and his advice and look forward to his articles and radio appearances. Thank you Frank, for being you.

-Review by Bianca M
Montreal, Quebec, Canada

I attended high school with Frank and I can honestly say that he is no longer that same person....I feel that his wealth of knowledge on the subject of relationships is vast, especially when it comes to understanding women and their emotional needs. Through Frank's works I have begun the process of delving into my own psyche to figure out what my relationship needs are and to better understand what exactly makes me as a woman tick. These works are for anyone that wants to improve their relations with others....highly recommended, keep up the good work.

-Review by Janice, a female friend from high school that rejected Frank years ago

I first met Frank many years ago (when he was just beginning his journey). His personal transformation from loser to seducer has been nothing short of miraculous. From someone who was illiterate in the field of human relations, Frank has been able to completely re-invent himself.

His knowledge was not won in the libraries of graduate schools, but rather in the school of hard knocks and heartaches. He has paid his tuition fees multiple times over. He is a translator with a deep understanding of people what we really want.

Smarts are a dime a dozen. But Frank delivers his particular form of understanding from someone who was on the other side for years. I can only stand amazed at his transformation and his willingness to share
these hard learned lessons as his gift to humanity.

Dr Amir Georges Sabongui

This is his legacy:

To crack the code and help the sexes understand each other better and help people find and create the deeply connected relationships we all crave. The student has truly become a master.

-Review by Dr. Amir Georges Sabongui, PhD
Psychologist
truelifeskills.com

Frank is living proof that ANYONE can master this part of his life if he only applies himself.

He was an average guy that hit rock bottom, and like many others he had reached the end of his rope and needed to find a way to get a hold of this part of his life once and for all.

I am proud of him for what he has accomplished in writing his autobiography ‘From Loser to Seducer.’

As interesting as his personal story is, he raises a question at the end of the book that only someone who has had real success with women would think to ask:

Ross Jeffries

"Can a Seducer still find true love when he has the skills to find love with many women?"...Good thinking there Frank!

I hope all of you readers get to the place where they have enough success to ask that question of themselves and find their own answers.

A great and inspiring book.

-Review by Ross Jeffries, Speed Seduction

I wasn’t expecting much when I saw Frank on mensroom tv for the first time, a whole 6 years after the interview I was watching originally aired on Youtube. I had recently watched Keys to the VIP and ended up on Mark Sparks’ channel watching interviews with the show’s hosts. Frank’s video was queued up next. I was cooking dinner and let it run. At some point, I stopped cooking to listen. Something he said just reached right inside my head and hooked me.

Here was this big, flamboyant and rather eccentric-sounding guy sitting in a chair with a hat on and a cane in his hand, spouting some seriously legit wisdom. I was glued till the end of the interview. As soon as it ended, I went looking for more Frank B. Kermit and queued up the rest of the interviews he’s done with Mark.

Now, having just finished his book, From Loser to Seducer, I have that same feeling as I got when watching the videos… like someone has just uploaded a whole gig of serious wisdom into my head. The painful part is that, if I had only know about Frank’s work back in 2014, I could have saved myself from the three most dark and painful years of my life.

It’s a pain that Frank, as he tells in the book, knows well. He describes with total openness and vulnerability the events that almost took him to suicide, and the life he gradually forged for himself through determination, resilience, and the application of a sharply intelligent mind. The life he created for himself as a result of his painful trials is one that most men only dream of. Yet he lived it, and he teaches us how.

Throughout his recollections, he shares and expands on the lessons his journey provided, things that could really help spare another guy from life-wrecking heartbreak if only he would find the book before it happened. The sad thing is that, for most of us, we don’t realize we need the knowledge until it’s too late to apply it. The best we can hope for is that we’ll get another chance someday to do it all over again the right way with someone new (or maybe, for a very small percentage of us, with the one that got away).

Steve Parker

Armed with the knowledge from this and Frank’s other must-buy, Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test, not to mention every bit of video you can find featuring Frank, it’s a good bet that we WILL get it right next time.

I know I will.

So, thanks in advance, Frank, for saving my next serious relationship. And keep up the great work.”

-Review by Steve Parker,
Author of Rynn’s World
Professional Transformation Coach at Centurion Strength and Fitness.

I was genuinely intrigued when I opened Frank Kermit's book "From Loser to Seducer." You see, this was a take I hadn't seen in the dating coaching industry materials thus far - a blow-by-blow (no pun intended) recounting of a change in mindset.

As an advisor in this field, I find myself almost distancing myself from the awkward memories of what I once was to what I am now with women. Frank's courageous take on this gives an enlightening and original approach to understanding the trans-formative mindset. I especially like the way he marked time with a powerful metaphor of starting his age from the day he was 'reborn' into a new mindset and manner with women, choosing to reset the counter to zero and begin again.

Frank succeeds in giving a very personal and intense recounting of his life experience and psychological state during perhaps the most painful parts of a man's life -

Carlos Xuma

at the moment of breaking away from the boy-man we can no longer be, and taking the leap of faith that I teach to men - to move on to the next level of life. Frank mixes in his "Frank" wisdom and insights along the path and gives the reader a genuine understanding of the pain ... and the pleasure of self-actualization.

-Review by Carlos Xuma
Dating Advice Coach for Men

‘From Loser to Seducer-The Autobiography of Frank Kermit’ is the story of a man who could easily have been me or one of my friends. More importantly, it is insight into a man given in detail that most men would get choked up about trying to verbalize, never mind writing down and publishing.

For every woman who has ever wondered what's going on in a man's mind, wonder no more!

Frank describes his journey from being unable to maintain steady relationships with woman to gaining a true understanding that runs contrary to the politically correct view of human relationships.
This is a man who was not getting what he wanted, and when the conventional wisdom failed him, he discovered his own.
In the process he overcame a pain familiar to most men, and discovered that being in control of your own life brings with it a new set of challenges.

The most interesting part of the book for me was learning that learning Emotional Needs Analysis destroys the mystery, so love can be achieved once E.N.A. is understood.

-Review by Andy S. , Toronto

Hey Frank - I bought your first book last year when I was going through my divorce and it really helped me going forward when I start dating again. I look forward to reading your next books. Yes - everything out of a woman’s mouth and I will always remember this. You have valuable insights that I will forever think about and memorize and stamp in my brain when I start dating again. I have learned so much from you and yes, I will email you with my thoughts. I know I won't be disappointed. You have also motivated me to write my own book. Thanks

- Review by Eric from Colorado

A male friend of mine lent me his copy of Loser to Seducer which is Frank's autobiography. Frank Kermit’s autobiography is a journey describing how he become involved and evolved to the person he is today. I found it very interesting to learn about the pain that motivated him to become a person many would consider a Relationship Expert. I think the pain and struggle some men experiences is often overlooked and this book paints a realistic picture as it explores the amount of hard work, dedication and passion it takes to change oneself. From Loser to Seducer is a compilation of his personal experiences but it also mentions some of his relationship theories and beliefs. As a female, although I personally do not agree with all of his choices or beliefs I admire how he emphasizes honesty with women. He never encourages lying or manipulation. Other ideas that I found intriguing were the emotional needs analysis model, chump love versus seducer love and if a seducer can find true love if he is always able to find someone “better” the next day. Having recently met Frank and his wife, I look forward to the next installment of his autobiography to learn more about him, his journey and how and why he decided to marry.

- Review by TigerLilly, a female reader in Toronto

I thought this was a great book. It made me see that relationships and success with women really does involve a lot of hard work. So many of us think that "Falling in Love" or even "Getting sex with the hot girl" is kind of magic, luck, destiny, etc. No doubt that's what we are bombarded with from the media. But this book shows you that relationships are like everything else: lots of practice.

This book is very good inspiration as well as showing the difficult steps one most go through to change their lives in a way that will be attractive for women. And why shouldn't relationships be any different than basketball, music, etc. The more you work on them, the better you get.

What's interesting to me, as that as I've been reading this book, is that I am moving along the same lines, though far different circumstances and personalities, etc., as Frank does in that book. I guess we all pay out dues in this, but the Loser To Seducer book is very good to follow to know that you can change into what women want, as long as you're willing to do the hard work. I thought success with women was all luck and happenstance before this.

- Review by L. D., USA

I decided to pick up “From Loser to Seducer” in order to see Frank’s stages of development in his journey – not just the good times, but the overwhelmingly bad times as well. In “Loser to Seducer” Frank shows me that developing oneself is about pain, discipline and hard work more than most people think. I especially like Frank’s take on the pain of the seducer – including the ethical dilemmas that the accomplished seducer encounters.

Most of all Frank’s work inspired me to change and taught me that one must do a lot of growing up – deep inside, where it matters. One can tell from the attitudes in the book that Frank really cares about his students and about women, and that any tough truth presented is done so in their greater benefit.

-Review by Fabian, Toronto

In this book, Frank tells us very personal stuff. It starts with his three stories of failure in the relationships he had put his heart in, especially the girl he saw as the mother of his children, and he tells us about how devastated he became. Next he tells us about all of the introspective work, self-discovery and change of some of his personality traits, not to go through the extreme emotional pain that his love failures had brought upon him.

The final part of the book is dedicated to the different kinds of relationship he could live and experiment with after working on himself, of the way he got back the woman he thought was “the one”, and above all in becoming the kind of person that would enjoy relationships and not to suffer because of them.

Frank honors his name and he has the openness of explaining to us personal details –and very painful ones- of his intimate life. He explains to us about a life of change and overcoming that inspires those of us that day by day tries to become the kind of person that we know we must be. Personally, along my life with the people close to me, I have only seen the opinion that people cannot change.

Since about two year ago I have put myself to work in order to change. I had to do it on my own; believing it was possible what everyone else said was not. Reading this book spirited me up, as I saw someone that could accomplish change. Besides, Frank offers us perspectives about how to do this change work.

In short, a very fine book, especially for those that are not naturally good with women and have doubts about being able to have their love life where they want it to be.

- Review by C. G., Mexico

If you would like to learn more about Frank Kermit this is your book. If you consider being a Pick Up Artist or Seducer all the way, this is a book for you. It is a really honest story about Frank. It is very detailed which makes it complete and easy to read. One of the many things I liked was how and why Frank turned his life around.

Another thing are the stories. I have never seen a better book about the consequences of becoming great with women. Many good things will happen, but being a seducer/pick up artist is not a life without problems. This book is really shows you that bad things can happen and how people can get hurt.

It really made me think about what I wanted in my life and why. This book taught me how you can even your own worst enemy and how to change that. Even more, this book is a great motivation for me.

-Review by M. N. , Denmark

I just read most of "From Loser to Seducer". I have to say some of it brought tears to my eyes. I could feel his pain and willfulness to change. If you have experienced his type of pain you will really relate to it. You'll also witness the positive changes in his life.

Now when I'm with a girl, I really pay attention to the needs he talks about in his books. I just came back from LA on business and witnessed all kinds of interactions going on between couples I met, which I can now really relate to in terms of the dynamics of the relationships. I now have a better understanding of what is actually going on. In my opinion, I don’t believe that Franks books are a pick up guide. I do however believe they will truly enhance your relationship and your general interactions with women. GET THE BOOKS it's well worth it!!!

-Review by Will O., Ontario

I just read your book 'From Loser to Seducer'. Good book - I highlighted a lot of things that you said. I sympathize with you as to your journey - I never really had problems with women until I got married to a woman for 20 years. You touched on 2 things that stuck out in my mind. 1. I failed to meet her emotional needs 2. I failed her unconscious tests over twenty years. Thanks again Frank - You really dived deep into your thoughts, actions, beliefs and have shed a lot of light on my issues and how I can avoid making the same mistakes in the future as I meet other women.

- Review by G.G.

Your book inspired me to examine my life story, by De-constructing my past behaviors and past events with women, with friends, etc., and begin my journey of coming to peace with the demons that I've been struggling with up to this day. I had no idea how tormented your life was. Its inspiring for me to read about how you pulled yourself up from all those major challenges you faced in your life. And I am glad you did because now you are living proof that anyone who works hard enough to design a life that he really wants can indeed achieve it. Its one thing to read about someones successes; its a completely different reality when you meet such a person in real life.

-Review by N.N., Montreal

The 5 Year Story of Oliver Clearwater: From Virgin To Married Man

**Dear Friends,
Every so often I get the most wonderful review of how my work has changed the life of someone. Here is one of those stories. Oliver was an adult male virgin who got dumped by his girlfriend and he wanted her back. He studied with me and my materials. He got her back, got closure, got free of her, and then continued to manage dating multiple women until finding the one that he wanted to build a future together. The story of a man that turned his entire life around in less than 5 years. Enjoy! -Frank

May, 5 Years Ago

Frank, just want to say, I'm reading through your book From Loser To Seducer, and really getting a lot from it.
I'm 25. I'm overweight but not out of shape and on my way to really getting into shape. My girlfriend broke up with me and she started dating our mutual friend. Just want to say that I'm working on myself and getting out their and finding some real women and live that same dream life. Thank you for your great book.

July, 5 Years Ago

Frank, wanted to say, since going through your book From Loser to Seducer and starting to get everything in order, I've dropped 20 pounds, and this week I had 3 dates with 3 different women, and have had about 7 or 8 dates in all with different women (since the end of May) (a few second dates as well). I've gotten rid of my approach anxiety and I've been approaching women daily or any time I see someone interesting. Thanks for the great book.

August, 5 Years Ago

Frank, My ex that broke up with me, has quite suddenly come back into my life in a very real way.
Since then, I've changed, when I was with her, I was weak, submissive, scared, and needy. Now, I've dated up to 4 women at once, I went from virgin to having slept with 3 women. I've gotten my career, my beliefs, and everything else in order. Is considering pursuing a relationship with an ex a horrible idea when you're newer, better, and more ready. Got a date tonight with a different woman. But I'll definitely set up a coaching appointment.

September, 5 Years Ago

Read through all your books again Frank. I have From Loser To Seducer, Everything Out of Her Mouth Is A Test, and I'm A Man, That's My Job Coaching Workbook for Men. Last night, as I noticed her tests, and I found myself like you did when you were with your ex, realized I was slipping out of state, I interrupted the pattern, I interrupted her tests, and took control through distance. Letting her know that I'll make decisions that are best for us. And instead of her immediately saying, "we should stop fooling around!", she instead asked me, "What do you want to do?"
Since I knew at that moment I wasn't in state and I needed to keep control, I said, I'll take responsibility, and I'll keep us from hurting each other. She leaned in to kiss me and I didn't kiss her. "We need to know who we are and what we want and what we are before we pursue anything." I left and told her I'd talk to her later.

She sent me a few texts that I haven't responded to since, since I told her I wasn't going to be reachable when I left. THANK YOU FRANK FOR YOUR EXCELLENT WORK.

Your work has taken me further with women in 3 months than 3 years of PUA material. I'm dating 4 women now including my ex, who when she heard that I was dating two women, called it wrong, now she's dating me as well--the first 5 months of our relationship, before she left me for another guy, she wouldn't label it as dating.

Just Four days together fulfilling her emotional needs and she's asking me what's going to happen 6 weeks, 3 months, or even next year down the road.

Women that at once I didn't think would look at me, now interact with me and flirt with me.
I'm a Man, That's My Job. Thank you. You rock!

September, 5 Years Ago

Frank, after getting back with my ex, experiencing her, seeing her, I came to realize that we just will never work. It's so fulfilling to know that she just doesn't feel the same way I feel about her. I thought maybe there was something, but, I'm just her emotional cookie-man, and she knows that I know her body. Completely found Peace!

I know who I am as a man. I know what I have to offer a woman. And I had hoped she realized that what I had to offer is what she wanted. It's not. She's still who she is, but I'm not who I was.

It feels wonderful to know that I can walk away and I have all these other options and I can always get more.

I have a journal as per your coaching; I've been writing all this down day by day. But thank you Frank.

December, 5 Years Ago

Just bought your From Friends to Lovers audio and the Emotional Needs 101 Set, these two programs are absolutely amazing. You break it down in a way that shows me every mistake I've ever made with women and what were seemingly confusing reactions, now appear sensible.

TODAY!!!!!!

Dear Frank, If you look back at our talk, the last time I reached out to you was 5 years ago, having just gotten your From Friends To Lovers program.

Today, I've been married a year to the most supporting, beautiful, and wonderful woman.

I still follow the Emotional Needs of Women, and, I must say, it's kept us from fighting, or arguing, which, we see our good friends who have journeyed into marriage during daily.

Before I met her four years ago, I--like your book--From Loser to Seducer, did my binge, where in an eight month period, I "met" a lot of women, going from a 25 year old with little experience to an incredibly experienced young man. Including, getting back with and hooking up with the woman that had left and sent me on my Quintessential Journey to begin with.

You are an inspiration and your work is amazing.

I don't know where I would be today with relationships, had I not found your material.

Thanks a million.

I'll be making a donation to your son's education fund when I get paid next week.

-Review by Oliver Clearwater,
Massachusetts, United States

When I first ordered this book, I was skeptical if I’m going to get anything out of reading someone’s life story. However, after reading the story of Frank Kermit, I was inspired to work harder in my own development.

Loser to Seducer is about Frank’s journey from the time he started on his seducer in development, to the relationship coach he is now. I especially enjoyed the beginning of the book, it really related to me the most. The three major events that caused Frank to push him to get better with women, was well written like a novel. It is interesting to see someone with little to no passive value, to become successful with women. After the beginning, the book goes into Frank’s time starting to dating multiple women at the same time, and getting that redemption with a girl and some of his most interesting things that has happened to him on his journey.

I think no matter level of development or however advanced you are in pick up, Frank’s story in Loser to Seducer will relate to you in some way. For me, it was the beginning because I can relate to the pain he went through. If you are a beginner in seduction or pick up, this book can help you because it teaches you to be realistic about your goals and development (e.g. listening and respecting your mentors, at the same time beware what they might say which could be false).

If you looking for a book to teach you game, Loser to Seducer is not the book for you. Similar to Neil Strauss’ The Game, Loser to Seducer gives you a perspective from someone else and their development, not a way to teach things to you. That being said, if you are looking for some inspiration for your development, then Loser to Seducer would make a great read.

-Review by Rocco, Toronto