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Why do some women instantly take it to the next level with one guy, but make YOU wait several months to do the same thing?
Why are some women attracted to jerks, but repelled by a good guy like YOU?
What does she see in him that she doesn't see in YOU?
Why do YOU keep getting rejected by women, no matter what you try to do?
Tired of every woman in your life not taking you seriously as dateable? Do your female friends treat like you'll never get any girls (i.e. the Emotional Cookie Man)?
Do you wonder why girls NEVER show interest in you?
As a man, dating women can either be a total mystery, or a painful reminder of how awful your love life is right now.
But we have the KEY to solve all your dating problems:
The EVERYTHING OUT OF HER MOUTH IS A TEST EBOOK
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What’s This Book About?
This book will teach you about every woman's 10 Emotional Needs - an original, REVOLUTIONARY concept by Frank. The Emotional Needs Analysis (ENA) is 10 simple but very important emotional needs criteria that every woman needs addressed in order to FEEL satisfied in any relationship.
There’s a detailed section for each of the 10 Emotional Needs. Frank explains why each emotional need is important with truthful facts and experience*.
By mastering Frank’s 10 Emotional Needs Analysis System, you will have a COMPLETE understanding of how love works - which will lead you to healthier and more fulfilling relationships. If you apply the concepts correctly, this book will change your love life for the better!
You'll get ALL of the following information in this 384 page digital Ebook:
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*P.S. Many coaches use the term "For Entertainment Purposes Only" to write and say whatever they want without any legal repercussions. Even reviews of their own products and services! Frank Kermit does not hide behind entertainment purposes. The advice in this book is 100% AUTHENTIC.
P.S.S. There's going to be a lot of spelling mistakes in this book. You might be wondering "Why?" Because Frank writes his own books and does not hire any "ghostwriters" to do his work, unlike other coaches out there. Frank is no marketer by any stretch of the imagination! But this also means his writing is 100% honest material.
(Note: Read the reviews below of those who have found positive change reading this book)
Why are some women attracted to jerks, but repelled by a good guy like YOU?
What does she see in him that she doesn't see in YOU?
Why do YOU keep getting rejected by women, no matter what you try to do?
Tired of every woman in your life not taking you seriously as dateable? Do your female friends treat like you'll never get any girls (i.e. the Emotional Cookie Man)?
Do you wonder why girls NEVER show interest in you?
As a man, dating women can either be a total mystery, or a painful reminder of how awful your love life is right now.
But we have the KEY to solve all your dating problems:
The EVERYTHING OUT OF HER MOUTH IS A TEST EBOOK
#1 BEST SELLER ON LULU FOR 3 CONSECUTIVE YEARS!
OVER 10,000 COPIES SOLD!
What’s This Book About?
This book will teach you about every woman's 10 Emotional Needs - an original, REVOLUTIONARY concept by Frank. The Emotional Needs Analysis (ENA) is 10 simple but very important emotional needs criteria that every woman needs addressed in order to FEEL satisfied in any relationship.
There’s a detailed section for each of the 10 Emotional Needs. Frank explains why each emotional need is important with truthful facts and experience*.
By mastering Frank’s 10 Emotional Needs Analysis System, you will have a COMPLETE understanding of how love works - which will lead you to healthier and more fulfilling relationships. If you apply the concepts correctly, this book will change your love life for the better!
You'll get ALL of the following information in this 384 page digital Ebook:
- You will understand what attracts women and what turns them off.
- You will no longer be the “nice guy” who always finishes last. In fact, you may be the “jerk” in the relationship because women will love and respect you, even if you don’t feel the same way (even though you will never actually be a jerk)
- You will get your ex-girlfriend back. With the Emotional Needs as part of your system, she will be happier and so will you.
- You will no longer be lonely – because more women will be attracted to you.
- You will be able to date multiple women.
- You will be able to set the rules of the relationship that works in your favor – and not the other way around.
- You will be able to predict women easily. Because with the Emotional Needs system, love will finally make sense.
- You will be able to attract women despite your flaws and imperfections, like being short, fat or ugly.
- You will finally be respected by women and be treated like a MAN, not a little boy.
- You will stop being rejected by many women because of the things you may be doing that are turning them off.
- You will be able to attract the woman of your dreams - whether it's a short term relationship or a marriage partner.
- You will learn how to train your mind HOW to think. In other words what this book is not just about WHAT to think, it is a book on HOW to think.
- You will discover the biggest mistake you are making when it comes to humour. A woman loves a man who can make her laugh but who does not turn into an entertainment monkey.
- Frank explains how addressing each Emotional Need makes the woman feel like your special lover. While failing makes her your "mother."
- Learn the art of assertiveness and knowing how not to be too passive or aggressive as a man, as it relates to dating women.
- Sick of being viewed as an un-dateable man? Learn how to be perceived as a high-quality male in her eyes. All based on science and biological wiring.
- Once Frank explains all of the 10 essential Emotional Needs of women, he will guide you on how to address emotional needs and make her attracted to yo:. Using effective, tried-and-true methods!
- How to not be the Emotional Cookie Man (ECM), a symptom that plagues tons of men today and holds them back from getting the women they want
- An entire chapter on why women love JERKS, and what you can do about it.
- BONUS: Quality advice for adult male virgins to get you going when you're starting from the bottom.
- How to be an amazing storyteller. You’ll never run out of things to say, while making attracted to you at the same time.
- Learn how to effectively set your boundaries as a man – don’t take disrespect from women ever again while still getting them to love you!
- The power of ATTENTION and how as a man, you can use that as your best tool with women
Fix your dating life RIGHT NOW – Buy the Everything Out Of Her Mouth is a TEST ebook. We are offering this eBook for only $10! What are you waiting for?
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*P.S. Many coaches use the term "For Entertainment Purposes Only" to write and say whatever they want without any legal repercussions. Even reviews of their own products and services! Frank Kermit does not hide behind entertainment purposes. The advice in this book is 100% AUTHENTIC.
P.S.S. There's going to be a lot of spelling mistakes in this book. You might be wondering "Why?" Because Frank writes his own books and does not hire any "ghostwriters" to do his work, unlike other coaches out there. Frank is no marketer by any stretch of the imagination! But this also means his writing is 100% honest material.
(Note: Read the reviews below of those who have found positive change reading this book)
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The emotional needs of women
EMOTIONAL NEEDS INTERVIEWWatch this interview from
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HE TATTOOED THE ENA THEORIES ON HIS INNER BICEP
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One of my core beliefs is that the quality of your life is a reflection of the quality of your relationships, so I think it’s definitely something to strive to meet your partners needs as best as possible as well as make sure your own needs are met. Your Emotional Needs Analysis Mastery System of men and women has helped me understand what can help build a relationship and what can also lead to it’s demise if needs are not addressed or even worse violated. They are something I want to stay mindful of going forward throughout my life so I can focus on making my relationship as strong as possible. Here are some images of my tattoos to show the placement better. I’ve got a cheat sheet concept going on my arm like your cheating on a test but it’s all life lessons. So I added those tattoos for emotional needs in relationships and I'd always liked the S.L.A.P. Theory (From Creepy To Charisma: The Art of Calibrationprogram). It also doesn’t hurt that when I first learned of them I was a single 20 year old guy, and now I’m in a great relationship with the most supportive person I’ve ever met and have a beautiful daughter who is about to turn 3 in a few months. Life is good and part of that in my opinion is because of your work. -Review by Anon, Toronto Ontario Canada |
REVIEW: FROM HIT AND MISS TO DATING FORMER MISS SLOVENIA
Dear Frank, If I could first extend my warmest gratitude for the contributions your theories have made to my life. 'I'm a Man: That's My Job' and 'Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test' turned my world upside down, though in the best possible way. I still have a considerable distance to go, but these books were highly (and I can't over-stress that term enough) illuminating, and made so many things about both genders make a great deal more sense. When married to an earnest study practice into evolutionary psychology, it's less a 'eureka' moment than a 'eureka' process.
Not to pour forth my life story, but I was really hit and miss with women for the first few years that followed my pretty much accidental loss of virginity at 17 (in that sense I was lucky I guess). What underpinned the patchy success I did have and what enabled other guys who appeared to have much less to offer (i.e. were jerks or other forms of jackass) seemed impenetrably erratic and mysterious.
Until happening ultimately upon your stuff, I really was the [less drunk] blind guy driving home in the dark being told the way by my [more drunk] friend (i.e. natural) when it came to women.
Chris W in the United Kingdom
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Applying your principles as well as cannibalizing some other schools of thought though brought a sea-change to many areas of my life, including its romantic aspect: I have now been in the longest relationship I have ever had (18 months and counting) with a stunning Slovenian model (who was Miss Slovenia a couple of years back). I know I wouldn't have this part of my life sorted the way it is were it not for your writings, so once more, thank you and keep up the good work! |
REVIEW: UNBELIEVABLY INSIGHTFUL
I've just finished my first read-through of this book, which will definitely not be my last. This book not only summarizes everything I've ever learned about meeting women, it provides an incredible look into the psyche of women which goes a long way toward the better understanding of female psychology. Understanding each emotion need and its subsections is only the preparation material in the book, because the real power of the book is the eventual understanding of what it means when a man and a woman interact. It boils down the whole complexity of dating a woman into the question of "Will she view you as a lover or not?"
I wish there were an even more powerful way of saying that this book is unbelievably insightful, but there is not so all I can say is: this book is unbelievably insightful. Having done emotional needs analyses for months before reading this book, I was blown away by all the things I did not yet know about the emotional needs. I was blown away by how well Frank understands each of these needs and I was just shocked by the amount of ground this book covers with just 10 emotional needs.
In just 10 emotional needs, Frank has condensed a very large portion of material into just one book. I've yet to find a technique, routine or gimmick that can not be broken down and made sense of with these needs and being a person who normally pokes holes in everything, this is just incredible. This is a must read for all men.
- Review by Gillette in Toronto
I've lived more than most would live in two life times
So, I found a first edition of Everything out of Her mouth is a Test.. Amazon UK has had one listed for sometime, but won't deliver over here. I asked a teacher friend if she knew anyone in the UK (I figure teachers may very well have international friends). And, the book has been acquired.
After paying the for everything (including the girl there that bought it, and is re-shipping it to me <- "value for value") I'll have $150 in it, and worth every penny.
This book has made me who I am today, and the information in it will continue to help me be a better person in this, sometimes, f-ed up world.
Again and again, I thank you for your work, and the change you've made in me (for the absolute better). That book showed me what it truly means to be a Man, in this crazy, crazy world of lies and misconceptions.
I'll post a picture to your group when I get it in me hands.
Some (several) people have said to me "you like reading.." or "You like books, you should.." And, I almost always correct them.. I like knowledge, and wisdom. The fact that the best medium for the transfer of that has been books does not mean I enjoy books in themselves. I try to protect books with knowledge/wisdom in them.
I don't know if they'll be put to any good use after I'm gone, but I will have my own "Library of Alexandria." The world may destroy itself tomorrow, but I've lived more than most would live in two life times, and you've certainly helped me with the experience.
An obvious big thanks to a mentor of mine, Frank B. Kermit.. And, a big thanks to my brother Charles for making me aware of this book.
PS- this book was not easy to get, and I thank my friend Elizabeth for her help in making it happen.
-Review by Keith
United States of America
REVIEW BY CLIFF LEE OF CLIFFSLIST
Book Introduction Review by Clifford Lee
I have known Frank for many years now and I have watched him go through a number of ups and downs, and through it all I have seen him change and improve himself continually. Others might have given up after some of the experiences he has been through, but he persevered.
When I first met him, he was in the throes of a five year drought in terms of sexual relations with a woman. His frustration was evident, and his desire to change his life was clear.
Cliff Lee of Cliffslist
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Frank's personal journey has brought him through some heart wrenching relationships and “almost-relationships”, family tragedies (including deaths of some immediate members of his family), and I have seen him make great personal sacrifices for his family and friends. |
REVIEW FROM CHRIS ARNETT AKA PLAYER SUPREME AKA ZEN MACK
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REVIEW FROM ROSS JEFFRIES OF SPEED SEDUCTION
I'm LOVING the Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test book.
I don't agree that EVERYTHING is a test, but I totally support the idea of multiple levels of emotional response and a guy being able to read and handle these. It's what is called "meta states" in NLP; that each state then generates a new state, which reflexively modifies the first state, and generates another. Recursive consciousness.
In this book, Frank has devised a great and VERY accessible tool for men to learn to understand exactly what they have done right, and what they have done wrong in a sarge, and also gives suggestions as to what to do next based on his understanding of the multiple and recursive levels of womens' emotional needs.
But don't be fooled-this is not an academic text. Frank gives multiple examples right from his own real-life dating experience, showing how to use this knowledge, step by step, from concept to action. As I have taught for years; knowing what to notice and pay attention to is as important as knowing what to do and what to say.
Ross Jeffries
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REVIEW FROM BLUEMYSTERY IN KOREA
BlueMystery from Korea
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QUOTE FROM JENNY YUEN OF TORONTO SUN NEWSPAPER
Jenny Yuen
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What to be a ladies man? Here's How: RESPECT! Frank Kermit has pinned down the 10 emotional needs of women. Among them are protecting her reputation and experiencing a range of emotions. Guys must show (assertiveness) including taking 100% responsibility of the (birth control). |
REVIEW FROM GARRETT OF SOCIAL TRANSFORMATIONS IN SAN FRANCISCO
I am just in the middle of reading you book ‘Everything Out Of Her Mouth Is A Test.’
It is mind-blowing! Awesome! God I wish I found your material earlier, but I am lucky to find it now at the age of 26. You provide massive value my friend!
Garrett P.
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REVIEW: CONCRETE PRACTICAL WAYS TO IMPLEMENT
I’ve pretty much read most of the big books out there on seduction and love, and still this one made me gasp with its new insights every so often. It’s one of those books that makes you snicker and say ‘So true’ every ten minutes.
Frank Kermit’s ‘Everything out of her mouth is a test’. I think you should read it. Frank Kermit is a lot more concrete, giving practical ways to implement the insights he delivers. Only, his insights themselves are formulated in such a way that they serve more to intimidate than to give you hope. Yes there are some truths a man must face in order to step into his power and shoulder his fate. It seems Frank Kermit is pushing his readers, looking for soft spots. Looking at it now, he probably does it on purpose to show the level of unfazedness you need to have. Kermit’s ways to implement are gold. If you have his emotional needs skills mastered, you’re set for some solid success.
Phoenix River from Belgium
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Sadly, they’re not that easy to master – at least, it takes a LOT of practice. Still trying to get my head around that, or trying to apply it but it’s overwhelming. |
REVIEW: FRANK ALLOWS YOU TO LEARN IN YOUR OWN WAY
A review from the public google books site
This is a review of the book ‘Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test’ by Frank Kermit.
I absolutely love this book.
For every man that has felt in the dark as to the "why" of things: Why a woman isn't attracted to them? Why a woman seemed interested, and then all of a sudden became turned off? Why they can't seem to attract the type of women they feel they should be attracting? This book is for you!
Frank allows you to learn in your own way. Other methods that I have seen have been based off of a specific system of steps. Frank's way is more free-form: it takes a lot more practice and a lot more thinking; but when all is said and done, you are a Master of the Emotional Needs Analysis.
You are the only expert on yourself. To me, the ultimate beauty of Frank Kermit’s Emotional Needs Analysis is the diagnostic. We have all had moments with women that seemed to go from perfect to just wrong!
Reading this book and learning Emotional Needs Analysis gave me the knowledge I needed to look back on my experiences with women and have a good sense of what happened, and more importantly, how to not make the same mistakes in the future!
If you're feeling alone and helpless in the world of relationships... BUY THIS BOOK. You will never regret it.
- Review by B., USA
REVIEW: EVERY PAGE WAS AN AH-HA MOMENT!
This book just shattered my old way of thinking when it comes to interacting with women.
It seemed like on every page there was an "Ah-Ha" moment where I learned something new or got an explanation of something I've been doing right, but could never explain it.
The Emotional Needs Analysis of Women was something completely new, and a way of thinking for healthy, successful relationships.
Every man should own a copy of this book. From his Emotional Needs Analysis to Mother vs. Lover Theory, this book taught me a new way of thinking and, instilled some core beliefs that I will be carrying with me for the rest of my life.
I wish his material was being taught in classrooms, I truly believe that we would have a better society of MEN for it.
Thank you Frank.
- Review by N., USA
REVIEW: GREAT FOR WOMEN TO SELF-REFLECT
As a female reader I was curious and skeptical to read this piece "Everything out of her mouth is a test".
While not intended for women readers, this book has a lot of potential value for any female willing to give it a chance and self-reflect about what makes her tick, in more ways than one.
The same definitely applies to men who are having troubles as well, and may not even know why they are.
I would say everyone could benefit from reading it, whether they learn a thing or two for themselves, or they help their partners improve in certain areas of their relationship.
-Review by Kat,
Montreal, Canada
REVIEW: HIS WIFE IS SMILING A LOT MORE LATELY
Dear Frank, I bought ’Everything Out Of Her Mouth is a Test’ months ago. Today, I bought two more of your books, and then I paid for the Digital Mp3 download of The Emotional Needs of Men: An Analysis For Men.
Thank You in advance! Your MASTERPIECE ‘Everything Out Of Her Mouth Is A Test’ hooked me!
My wife is smiling a lot lately too, but I ain’t gonna give you the credit out loud to her! I was always good in bed, but DENSE in the daylight. Now she is impressed again....she thinks I'm smartening up!!!
THANK YOU! With what I purchased now, I am covered for a few months of in-depth absorption of your genius. THANK YOU (I can’t thank you enough!) seriously.
- Review by J.P., Washington, USA
REVIEW: HE IS LEARNING TO CONTROL HIS EMOTIONS
A good friend of mine recommended that I read Frank Kermit's book ‘Everything Out Of Her Mouth Is A Test.’
I’m learning to control my emotions, and I have found that Franks words were powerful to me.
I started off by reading Franks articles, and then I purchased 3 books from his website: ‘From Friends To Lovers: Stop Being Her Emotional Cookie Man’, ‘The Emotional Needs Of Women-An Analysis Workbook For Men’ and "I'm A Man, That’s My Job’
I have finished the first book and I am working through the exercises in ‘I’m A Man, That’s My Job.’
Frank I have read books by other authors, but your work teaches me what I really need.
- Review by P. Smith, Wisconsin, USA.
REVIEW: A WAY TO REALLY DEVELOP CONFIDENCE
This book really makes a difference. It actually gets me to do things that I skipped in the past, even though others suggested it, because it did not make sense to me.
Frank: He knows! He not only does what works, he knows why it works, and he teaches it to you in a way that you get it and say: "Oh, this is where I was acting stupid and I now know forever how to get this straight."
M. from Germany
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His Emotional Needs Analysis is unique, and once you get into this stuff you really develop confidence about what you are doing. This book is not about pleasing a woman, it is about pleasing the needs she does not even know about. BIG DIFFERENCE! |
REVIEW: THE FOUNDATIONS OF HIS GAME
When I wrote my review for I'm A Man, That's My Job I called it the most valuable and helpful piece of community material ever. When I started reading that book, I had only been exposed to a small fraction of the material inside. I makes me wonder how I would feel about this book if I had not been coached by Frank before reading it because Everything Out Of Her Mouth Is A Test has been the foundation of my game for a year (when I started learning how to interact with women) and I've never found the need to unlearn anything from it. If you're goal is to learn about women you aren't going to find a word-for-word more valuable volume than this masterpiece from Frank Kermit.
The emotional needs analysis model inside is what I find myself falling back on time and time again. When something doesn't work, I do an emotional needs analysis of the situational; when something does work, same thing. When I want to know what to do, same thing and when I'm not sure how to do it, there is a chapter dedicated to every one of the 10 emotional needs of women.
When you understand the emotional needs analysis, women no longer appear to be mysterious- they become predictable and trust me, the beauty of women isn't there unpredictability.
Here's the main reason you should read this book: this book is about women. Ask yourself, who's the focus of the other material you've studied? This isn't a methodology that tells you what to do, it's a system that provides you with a map of what your actions are actually doing inside a woman and shows you why certain things work. Putting the woman's emotional needs near the center of my attention just made perfect sense to me because that's what I want: women.
-Review by Don A., Toronto
REVIEW: SUCCESSFUL PUA PICK UP COACH NEEDS THIS
Review of my Journal as a Pick up/Approach Coach
I'd been in the community for 2 years before stumbling across the book "Everything out of her Mouth is a Test", and it was just what I needed at the time. Even though I'd had more success with women than anyone I knew personally, I was very far from where I wanted to be. I had a "just do what works" mentality, but this didn't really help me understand or connect with women the way the emotional needs, described in this book, do.
For me, the emotional needs analysis are a great tool for analyzing past interactions with women, they do a pretty good job of answering the question "what do women want?", but most importantly, they provide the foundation from which all of our actions as seducers can be derived.
On a side note, the girl that I had been sleeping with found Frank Kermit's Everything out of her Mouth is a Test on my book shelf in the morning. I asked her what she thought about the emotional needs (as I explained them), and she agreed. Then, she asked me if I'd ever read The Game and told me how ridiculous she thought it was, and proceeded to laugh about Neil and Mystery.
So there you go.
- Review by J. L., Pick Up Coach
REVIEW FROM JADE KERMIT
I remember when I read Everything Out Of Her Mouth Is A Test in the early days of dating Frank. I was sitting on his bed in his tiny one room apartment. I sat there with my mouth open in shock. “You broke the code!??” I said to him in disbelief. “I know,” he said proudly, smiling at me. At the time I was worried that there wouldn’t be any mystery left, that he would be able to read me so well I’d be uncomfortable and hate it. In truth sometimes I do hate it! Mostly though, I am grateful that he “gets me” especially on the days that I am being the most difficult person and he has the patience of a saint, because he knows what my Emotional Needs are.
~Review by Jade Kermit (Frank's Wife) (From the book introduction of From Loser To Seducer)
REVIEW FROM SAUDI ARABIA
I have read your books ‘Everything Out Of Her Mouth Is A Test’ along with the two workbooks ‘The Emotional Needs Of Women-An Analysis Workbook For Men’ and “The Emotional Needs Of Men- An Analysis Workbook For Women.’ I really liked them all, and have benefited a lot from reading them.
I am currently majoring in Mechanical Engineering at ‘King Fahd University of Petroleum and Minerals’ ( KFUPM) in Saudi Arabia.
I have taken Psychology as a general studies course, and found myself really interested in it although I major in Mechanical Engineering. Your Emotional Needs Analysis (ENA) gave me the idea to link the 16PF** (Personality Factors) as the base of the approach to back up the theory that you have created and very interesting things have shown up.
I found a study that covered the topic of successful and unsuccessful marriages where all the couples were tested by the **16 PF test. The results showed that four of the Emotional Needs of your theory matched. Since you are the originator of the theory, I am sure that you would be able to find more matches than I could based on more data out of the study.
Mohammad Al-Ali from Saudi Arabia
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I believe that finding another path that leads to the same conclusion as your Emotional Needs Analysis theory would open new approaches to it. I hope that your work sees more success. I found that your books are so well written. |
REVIEW: EXPLAINING WHY SHE ACTS THE WAY SHE DOES
I had studied Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test. It explains the WHY she acts the way she does! This book is excellent at laying out the emotional needs of women. Her inner desire to have these needs filled explains 100 percent of the time why she is giving you a hard time or why she is more then willing to do things that as a man you find irrational but she has done for others without question in her past. She is testing your manhood, are you a lover or does she have to be your mother?
The other product of Frank's that I highly recommend is The Emotional Needs Analysis Of Men: An Introduction For Men Audio track. I wish he put this product in the book format (**Note To Readers Please See Ally Vs, Enemy and The Workbook). The great thing about this product is, I found that what ever her need is it can easily compliment your needs (need #1 lines up with her need #1). The needs aren't in rank order but the list match up one to one. Finally understanding a the emotional needs of men will explain why as a man she is not satisfying your vision of the relationship. Understanding her needs will explain how your relationships could go from hot passion to drama.
-Review by Aaron Swann "Energy Empath" (Richlands, NC United States)
REVIEW: AFTER SHE LISTED WHY SHE DID NOT LIKE HIM THEY HAD SEX
Pros & Cons Review
As you know women like to question their choices about men in their spare time, just like we try to figure them out in ours. One of the things these women do, 'à-la-Friends TV show' is create a list of ""Pros vs Cons" about us (men), when it comes to reaching a decision if we are worthy of them or not.
When a woman makes such a list and contemplates whether you are a good suitor for her she highlights your most positive and negative attributes, and tabulate which side overall wins.
I have recently experienced such a moment with my girlfriend and she asked me if I wanted to know about her list. I said "yes" and subsequently she started to list down my "cons". Thankfully, using Frank's Emotional Needs Analysis, after reading Everything Out Of Her Mouth Is a Test, I was able to pick up the underlying message of each of her concerns and address them in a manner that targeted her emotional needs. Surprisingly, a large majority of them consisted with #5 Fear of abandonment, #3 , #4 and #6. After satisfying her emotional needs, later that evening we had sex.
Now after I addressed her emotional needs (and we had sex), she asked me if I wanted to hear the reasons why she thought she was attracted to me. To which I responded with "it's not necessary sweetie, I think I already know". She giggled and laughed at my answer which I feel demonstrate #9.
Thanks, for the knowledge Frank!
- Review by K. M., USA
REVIEW: SHE WANTS MEN THAT STUDY FRANK KERMIT MATERIAL
***A Woman Wrote This On Social Media MySpace:
Who I'd like to meet?
I would like to meet people that share my love of life and all it has to offer. People who are real. If you don't know what you want, then walk away. I don't have the time to decide for you. I would like to find a MAN not a boy. Someone who is willing to stand beside me not in front of or behind me. . Also if you have read any of Frank Kermit's (books on the emotional needs of women) I would be interested in talking with you.
-Review by Ms. Adawahi, Social Media
REVIEW: HE GOT AMAZING SEX FROM WOMAN THAT REJECTED HIM BEFORE
Talk about redemption moment!
I just spent 5 days in NYC with the girl that originally rejected me, and basically caused all my chump loser mental/health problems for the past 6 years. We had the most amazing sex of my life.
I utilized basically everything from the book, but modified for my own personality and character. The issue of Discretion, totally came up, and luckily I was prepared, thanks to the book. I really feel everything dating-wise has stepped-up for me big time.
I don't think I could've done it without the framework you provided in your book. Basically, no tactics, no openers, no qualifying, NO TRICKS.
Just pure, simple, being a man, and taking care of the girl without being needy. Thanks Frank Kermit!
-Review by J. in Toronto
REVIEW: LEARN THE BASICS OF RELATIONSHIP MANAGEMENT
'Everything out of her mouth is a test' and 'The Emotional Needs Analysis Of Women Workbook'
Frank taught me about relationship management. I've read both books and gained valuable insights into my relationships and what I can do to make them better. I'd recommend them to anyone in a relationship - really useful stuff.
-Review by J. in London
REVIEW: LEARNED WHY HIS WIFE DIVORCED HIM AFTER 20 YEAR MARRIAGE
Frank - I'm on page 70 of 'Everything out of a woman’s mouth is a test.' I have highlighted a lot of things that pertain to my now defunct marriage of 20 years. You have really searched the depths of your soul and it shows with your keen insights. I'm becoming the stronger man for it as I constantly pore over your material.
I have never done so much high lighting as with one book. I write in the margins what I did wrong and how going forward I will correct it. I just read Emotional Need number 2 women want to feel a range of emotions. This absolutely hit me like A brick and now I know what I need to do going forward. I had no idea my ex would start fights on purpose just so she could feel. Now I get it. Those Pages I will memorize. Those pages alone are worth the cost of the book.
Btw - every time I read your Book I go over from page 1 to where I stopped last and reread the points I Highlighted before I move forward in the book to where I last dropped off. This helps my brain memorize/program this into me so it will become second nature.
After 20 years of marriage (Divorce) this book was the ONE book that knocked me over the head. It told me everything I did wrong. Best book ever for men that are still married. I wish I read this 5 years ago. Btw - I keep poring over your book - best book I ever read. Fantastic insights and for every thing you point out I put down what I did wrong and how I will do it right the next time. Great Book Frank.
-Review by E. from Colorado, USA
REVIEW: THE LIGHT BULB FINALLY HAS BEEN TURNED ON
I am reading "Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test" for the second time --and taking notes as a read. I will turn 40 years old next month. Throughout my life, my biggest frustration has been my inability to form and maintain sexual relationships with women.
I have read every book that I could get my hands on -- listened to tapes -- watched videos -- attended seminars (including flying out to seminars across the USA over the last 10+ years) -- and consulted with therapists of various kinds.
Despite my lack of success in the past, I am ABSOLUTELY CONVINCED that I will now have much more success with women using your unified theory. It is like a light bulb has been turned on -- and this formerly dark and confusing issue of women's emotional needs is now much clearer.
Man, I now see how and why I repeatedly flunked these tests in the past! Sure, it is going to take a lot of practice and effort on my part -- but that has not been my problem. Thanks to your useful unified theory, I now have a useful guide to keep me on the right course.
I look forward to consulting with you further-- and hopefully take a trip to attend your seminars on this material concerning satisfying a woman's emotional needs.
- Review by Anonymous 40 in the USA
REVIEW: THE POWER HE FELT WITH HIS LOVER WAS INDESCRIBABLE
I was given the opportunity to coach with Frank Kermit to discuss a couple of problems that I had recently encountered with one particular woman. I told him about what happened, and what I said in response to a “test” she had given me. Frank opened my eyes. Frank took the time to gain an understanding of the scenario that I was in, and challenged me with various alternatives that would have better addressed the needs that were being communicated behind the scenes.
A few days since my discussion with Frank, I read his book, “Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test”. Through reading his book, I gained a better understanding of women, and how to satisfy their emotional needs. I immediately put his theories and methods into practice with the girl I had been dating (the same girl I had spoke to Frank about). Much to my surprise, I was faced again with the same exact scenario that I had already spoken to Frank about.
However this time, I was able to hear her words, and identify the emotional need that was being communicated.
The power that I felt during that moment in time was indescribable. As the saying goes, knowledge is truly power.
If you’re wondering about the end result - let’s just say that I was truly satisfied and happy. Considering I’ve been studying seduction for 3+ years, I thought I would meet Frank and little of what he had to say would be new information. I was dead WRONG.
Frank really enlightened me with his consultation and his book. His theories and methods are genuine, and come with lots of integrity. I attest to what he has to say, and highly recommend him and his books.
- Review by A.G. from Chicago
REVIEW: HE KNOWS WHERE HE NEEDS TO STAND WITH WOMEN
I have to tell you, your work is great! I am almost done with your book Everything out of her mouth is a test and I love my mindset now. It is going to take time, but I have been exploring this topic on women for a about 6 months. Your work has really helped me understand where I need to stand with women.
Yesterday I was headed to the gym, and it dawned on me; "what am I doing?" Its like I am being a good little boy, even after I told her that I didn't want to be her gal pal. It's like everything that I have communicated with her is that I am going to be a good boy that checks in with her to see if she is ok. The heck with that, I don't want a platonic relationship with her or any woman unless I work with them.
I don't want to make it all about sex, but honestly sex is a big part of it. The only women in my life that deserves unconditional love are my mom, grandma, and sister. Any other woman that comes in my life has to earn it; I am not saying that I am going to be a jerk at all. I don't want to ever be a jerk after reading your book,
I just understand more after reading your books. The women that come in my life will be treated with respect etc., but at the same time I now know where I need to stand in the relationship and sex. For instance I saw a girl yesterday at the gym, really good looking girl, so I started flirting with her about her choice of t-shirt (my colleges rival), she was really attractive and I didn't get caught up in the romance, I just flirted with her and hopefully impacted her day positively.
Love your work man! Thank you so much!
-Review by JL of Lubbock Texas
REVIEW: IT HELPED HIM AND THE LADIES HE DATES TREMENDOUSLY
5.0 out of 5 stars. The Power of the Primal Brain in Relationships and How To Work with it Consciously. Excellent.
One day a friend literally placed this book in my lap open to the pages about the emotional needs of women. I read that, and jumped up looking for the photocopy machine and have meditated upon and shared with any woman I dated since then this TREASURE.
I suppose the book might have been written for men. I feel that if a man and a woman together learn how to consciously create together the fulfillment in each other and for themselves of each of their primal emotional needs they can make heaven on earth and accomplish anything together and in relative bliss. I am so thankful I was shown this book. It has helped me and the ladies I dated TREMENDOUSLY.
I won't even start a relationship without making a mutual commitment to work on them together consciously. It's that important I feel, knowing from my work the power of the subconscious mind and primal brain.
Review by JoreJj Z. Elprehzleinn on June 14, 2015 from Amazon
REVIEW: THIS SHOULD BE REQUIRED READING FOR YOUNG MEN FOR DATING
I'm reading everything out of her mouth is a test. you a great writer my man.
This should be required reading for middle school boys
- Review by Damon Walker
REVIEW: INFORMATION ON DATING THAT ANYONE CAN UNDERSTAND
Hey. Just wanted to tell you that I finished the book you sent. "Every damn thing out of her mouth is yet another test" (I may be paraphrasing). Anyway, it was very impressive. The ideas are very concise and concrete. Often in reading books of this nature many of the ideas are to abstract. However you have taken your philosophies, mannerisms, and ideas and offered the information in ways that anyone can understand. I will be reading this book several more times for sure. I wanted to let you know that I really appreciated the book.
- Review by Mike G.
REVIEW: SHE WANTS HER BOYFRIEND TO READ IT BECAUSE HE IS FAILING
I did a search on Google of lover vs mother because I'm feeling like a mother in my current relationship and read an excerpt from your book Everything Out Of Her Mouth is a Test, Everything That Comes out of her Mouth is a Test, and many of the points were SO TRUE that I was curious what you had to say about a man's emotional needs. I've mentioned your book to my boyfriend and he's expressed interest. Thanks!
-Review by Ms Brooke
REVIEW: EYE OPENING CONCEPTS
Colin in New Zealand
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REVIEW: HOW TO COMMUNICATE BETTER WITH WOMEN
This book taught me the foundations of communications with women. And I believe the foundations are extremely important. At the time when I first read it, I didn’t really get too much out of it because of my lack of social skills, but more importantly, my lack of experience with people in general. It was as if I was like a grade 9 math student trying to learn grade 12 Calculus when I first read this book.
In this book, Frank categorizes the 10 emotional needs that women respond to. What some women say they want versus what they emotional respond to is completely different. That’s why if you’re a newbie, you should be careful when listening to any advice regarding dating women. After reading this book again, it makes more sense as to why certain things work and certain things don’t.
The mistake I made with this book, which I think some others might make as well is that I only read it over once without really studying and reviewing it. I thought I understood everything I needed after reading it once. This book contains years of knowledge and experiences of Frank when he wrote this book, so it would be dumb to think one can digest everything from going over the book just once.
The interesting thing about this book is I don’t really know why it’s not as popular as other pick up books out there. If it wasn’t for a person whom I respected, recommended this book to me, I would have never came across this book. Just because a book is popular, it doesn’t mean it’s always “good”. And just because a book is not as popular as it should be, it doesn’t mean it’s “not good”. This is a “how to think” book, when it comes to women, which most pick up books don’t teach you.
This book is for you if you don’t have much experience with women or you have trouble understanding women. This book is for you if you’re decent with women but don’t know where you’re messing up. It will teach you how to self-analyze your own mistakes and correct them when you make them.
- Review by Tony
REVIEW: EVEN HELPING THE NICE GUYS GET A GIRLFRIEND
Review of Everything out of Her Mouth is a Test by Frank Kermit
Frank Kermit's book "Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test" is targeted generally towards men who continually find themselves in the "friend zone", or some derivation thereof, and sets out to educate them on his theory of emotional needs of women, and how these men are more or less being tested, whether consciously or unconsciously, by the women they encounter, as to whether they are meeting these needs.
This book caused me to dig up some stuff as well from my past experiences with girls.
It is noted that a criticism to this theory is that always having to be mindful of such needs, and taking active steps to meet them, forces men into "reactivity." Indeed, a common community tenet is that a man should not supplicate over go out of his way to react to a woman’s behaviors as it hinders the results he can attain, and ultimately puts him in a mentally unhealthy place.
Frank addresses this by inserting a distinction between “Approval-seeking” (unhealthy), vs. actually **controlling the situation** by seeking the approval because he knows he will enjoy the direct fruits of that approval (in some cases, sex, in other cases, something else). I liken this to a man seeking approval from his company so that he can get, and enjoy a raise, or some similar approval – reward arrangement.
Although I'm sure it would be tough for anyone to adopt the mindset that literally everything out of a woman's mouth is a test, and while the author does cede the point that (paraphrased) "it could be argued that not every single thing is a test, it would be appear to be helpful for a man to act as though this is the case."
His reasoning for this is that this testing is a continual process, not some one-time, ad-hoc happening, and that a man will be better prepared should he treat the situation as such.
The concept of “Don’t make her be your mother” that pervades this book hit me hard enough to remind me of specific instances, and even when I’ve been warned previously (by women, of all people)
I had a casual female friend one respond to me, years ago during one of my complaining tirades that were characteristic of me at the time, about “nice guys don’t get a chance, girls always say they want a nice guy, and ‘where are all the nice guys?’, when they’re surrounded by them every day, many of whom would want to take them out and show them the time of their life, and may not even have sex immediately on their mind (aren’t out to “be nice” to women so they can use them for sex)” and “You’ve got to already be this 6ft 4 inch guy with a chiseled jawline and perfect genetics to ever have a chance.”
She said, “You’re destroying everything it is about you that makes you attractive when you complain about how tough you have it as a nice guy.”
MAJOR TAKEAWAY:
This is consistent with a lot of what I’ve come to know about: That girl didn’t want to be my mommy, at worst, and at best, at least didn’t to hear those types of complaints.
Girls generally want to see that a guy has his stuff together, that he’s in control of as many areas of his life as she sees, and that he’s liking it. Don’t let a girl see you vulnerable, until at least you’ve satisfied her in some other way, have something else going for you, or she feels she’s earned it.
- Review by Phil M.
REVIEW: SHOWS YOU HOW WOMEN THINK/RESPOND
I was searching the web for advice on how to handle a situation with a girl. I came across Frank's work. I always have doubts before actually buying something so I was happy to get to see a sneak peak of the "real deal." All I can say is wow... this guy makes sense. I realized the mistake I was making with the girl was that I was not addressing her emotional needs. This is such a great read because it shows you how women think/respond to certain situations. They want to FEEL a range of emotions. The only thing I regret about this book is that I didn't come across it sooner.
Everything Out of Her Mouth is a TEST. I didn't even realize (before) that the title of the book is enough to see that you MUST WATCH WHAT YOU SAY.
The book addresses everything from theories to a few of Frank's personal experiences. Looking back at my past, I find that the "Mother vs Lover" theory is so true. The book goes in-depth on addressing a woman's emotional needs. I learned that if those needs are not met, then the woman will have lower attraction or just simply leave. I have learned that there are boundaries with women. If you are too aggressive, try to be too funny, show too much attention, etc. it will creep the woman away and lose attraction.
Emotional needs need to be addressed but not with force or neediness. I also learned that there is a difference between what a woman actually "likes" and what she "responds" to. She might like nice guys (100% people-pleasers) but since they aren't challenging or mysterious enough, she finds them less attractive than guys who give her a range of emotions (good, bad, indifferent). Women aren't attracted to a man they can control/have their way with so it's important to be an assertive leader who takes responsibility for everything. This makes the girl have an "excuse" and saves her reputation.
This is one concept that I did not realize. This book is a must read!
-Review by Jayo M, in New Jersey, age 23
REVIEW: IT IS A MUST RE-READ
Dan from Australia
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REVIEW: DEVASTATING ANSWERS OF WHY SHE DUMPED HIM
Review of Everything Out Of Her Mouth Is A Test Book:
I am truly grateful for finding Frank Kermit. While searching on You tube for help dealing with women, I came across Frank's interview on The Men's Room. I was immediately interested. What I noticed first was he went through a few bad situations with women and came to a defining moment in life: either end it all or find out how to get better with women. I felt the same way. After emailing Frank a couple time we had a consult on Skype. I asked Frank what book to get from his website. He recommended "Everything Out OF Her Mouth Is A Test".
Honestly I read about thirty pages and began to find out the answers why ALL of my relationships end up the woman dumping me: I made her my mother and NOT my lover. I was not addressing her emotional needs and after a few months start to act like a nice guy.
What I was hearing from friends and other people is "it is nice to give her a little control and decision making". BAD IDEA. I was violating a couple of emotional needs right there and didn't know it. And I wonder why she acting up and starting a fight for no reason: I was not being assertive, not catering to the little girl in her, and not showing I was a high quality man. It makes a little more sense.
Recently, I finished the WHOLE book. What I read and learned was DEVASTATING. Not only does Frank list and explain the emotional needs of women but ALSO explains ten ways to address the women's emotional needs and utilizing calibration. I am amazed at what i have learned and it is just the tip of the ice berg. What I learned is that this book is not to be read once but studied over and over. I am deeply grateful for Frank and the help he has given me.
- Review by Louie P., USA.
REVIEW: GAINING A HIGH LEVEL OF CONFIDENCE AND UNDERSTANDING
I just wanted to say your book Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test has changed my life. Never thought I could come to this level of understanding about women and gain this level of confidence. It's truly been a blessing. It was a great book that really opened my eyes to women and how to satisfy their emotional needs.
-Review by Hunter, Sulphur, United States
REVIEW: AT THE LEVEL OF "SECRET MANUALS" OF LOVE
Leaf S. from Singapore
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REVIEWS: NOW SEES HER TESTS BETTER, AND SMILES AS HE PASSES THEM
I wanted to thank you for the coaching last night, I found it to be very eye-opening, as to where I had made some mistakes with this current relationship. As well, I have finished your book Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test, and I am happy to say that I now see the tests better, and smile as I pass them. Also, I have started talking to more women whom are in relationships about their relationships, and the one thing that keeps coming up in the unhappy relationships is that the woman feels like the man's mother. I can't help but have this huge smile on my face as I hear these things, as I now feel empowered with your wisdom.
- Review by Chris T. in Syracuse, USA
REVIEW: THE BIBLE OF PASSING TESTS AND RELATIONSHIP MANAGEMENT
This book Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test, in my opinion is the BIBLE of passing tests and relationship management. In terms of community material this is my favorite.
- Review by R. S., Ontario
REVIEW: CASANOVA COULDN'T HAVE TAUGHT IT BETTER
Dear Frank,
I have read, studied and applied what I learned from your book Everything out of her mouth is a test.
I wrote you this:
Outside I play well with others.. On the inside my druthers
My inside bleeds over, I create what I understand.
All the woman I've met, none of them are my mothers..
Oh how I stand fully erect.. I am a Man ! '
Thanks for what you do. Till the end of my days, you'll certainly live on..
You teach such a misunderstood subject, yet you understand it almost too well.
Always "thanks" is too weak of a word for what you've done.
We all have to be ready to grow and it's a blessing, the timing of me coming into your generous knowledge base.
I've never even meet you and I'm proud to have you as a teacher.. If this worlds knows what's right, you'll be an "underground legend" (Casanova couldn't have taught us better).
I completely respect your teachings and will use it to improve the lives of all those I choice to have in my life (which is improving mine).
- Review by Kieth Thumper, Poet
REVIEW: A WAY OF THINKING FOR HEALTHY SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIPS
This book just shattered my old way of thinking when it comes to interacting with women. It seemed like on every page there was an “Ah-Ha” moment where I learned something new or got an explanation of something I’ve been doing right but could never explain it.
His theory on the Emotional Needs of Women, was something completely new something I never seen in the community before and quite “Frankly" a breathe of fresh air from all the techniques, lines, routines that are being taught. A way of thinking for healthy successful relationships, every man should own a copy of this book.
From his Emotional Needs to Mother vs. Lover Theory to ECM-Emotional Cookie Man this book taught me a way of thinking and some core beliefs that I will be carrying with me for the rest of my life. I wish his material was being taught in classrooms, I truly believe that we would have a better society of MEN for it.
Thank you Frank.
- Review by NIRO
REVIEW: MADE A GREAT NEW LOVER IN JUST 1 MONTH
Success so quick! 1 Month!
Review From Everything out of her mouth is a test: I have learned that I was loosing amazing women and repelling them in my life, because I for some stupid reason believed that to make a girl attracted to me I should treat her like my mother... (SO STUPID OF ME), behave too nice as not to frighten her (VIOLATION OF EMOTIONAL NEEDS), and worst giving women attention that they have not earned (EMOTIONAL COOKIE MAN)...
Barwani from India
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REVIEW: GREAT DATING BOOK FOR LATE BLOOMER
As a big guy myself I've had at best, "minimal" success with women. I mean I've never really had trouble with initial conversation, but I've just had trouble with "closing the deal". As a matter of fact, I was a virgin until 24. I'm 32 now, but this book has taught me that women don't use logic when choosing mates. Because they think with their emotions.
And what I've learned with this book so far, is you have to make them FEEL like an attractive human being and NOT like a slut by JUST trying to get in their pants. Women love sex just as much as we do, if not more. But if you DON'T unlock their emotional needs you'll never be able unlock to their sexuality. This book has taught me a lot, but I still have WAYS to go. BIG UPS!!!!
- Review by Wilson Z.
REVIEW: EYE OPENING INSIGHT ON HIS PAST ERRORS WITH WOMEN
Review of Everything Out of Her Mouth is A Test
Where do I even begin? This book was a real eye opener for me on women, male and female dynamics. Of all the seduction material I've come across, Everything Out of Her Mouth is A Test is the one book to explains WHY all the tactics and lines work. It logically breaks down all the emotional needs to satisfy a woman.
Before encountering Frank's work, I've tried various seduction tactics; when I screwed up a situation, I could not pin point which actions I took that drove away the girl. It was like standing outside in a snowstorm completely naked, and wondering why the hell is it so cold. After reading the book from cover to cover, and revisiting past situation, I've gain insight on my past errors.
Surprisingly, there are quite a few what NOT to say's and what NOT to do's with a girl, detailed in the book.
This isn't a book of pick-up lines or routines. Frank teaches you HOW to think, not WHAT to think.
- Review by Lee D. Alberta
REVIEW: OPENED HIS EYES TO FAILING HER TESTS
Hey man, I just finished reading your book Everything Out Of Her Mouth is a Test and I have to say I loved it. I learned a lot. It really opened my eyes and allowed me to understand how some past relationships turned out the way they did, and how a lot of it was due to the fact of me failing the tests more often than passing them.
- Review by C. in Montreal
REVIEW: VALUABLE SOURCE FOR MEN TO UNDERSTAND WOMEN
A few years ago I was introduced to your excellent book 'Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test', which gave me a whole lot to think about in relation to how women behave towards men and how men can best understand women and satisfy their concerns and needs. Thank-you for releasing this very valuable material.
- Review by Miles Sonkin
REVIEW: EXAMPLES OF REAL LIFE STRATEGIES ON HOW TO GET GIRLS
I just love this book. If you want to get a grasp of the 10 Emotional Needs of women, this is the book for you. The main part of the book is about the 10 Emotional Needs. You get a explanation about every one of the 10 needs in a sharp and honest way. Also you get lots of how-to implementations of addressing the 10 Emotional Needs in REAL life situations and a strategies on how to get girls using the Emotional Needs analysis. This book is a must have book. I will read it again for sure.
In an Email Review update:
It is now months later and I am finding that every page is even better than the first time I looked at it.
It is strange to explain, but in the beginning I could not absorb the true power of this book. Now day for day I see more clearly how important this book is for my life. It is so crazy, but so true: Except the fact that Everything Out of Her Mouth is a TEST.
-Review by M. M., Denmark
REVIEW: OUT OF THIS WORLD ABILITY TO READ WOMEN
This book is truly out of this world. It goes so deeply into understanding a woman via Frank's emotional needs theories, and then expands on all of the basic concepts.
It has most definitely helped me in understanding my actions towards women, their reactions, and also how to read women altogether. Before this, all I knew were some tactics which got me results here and there. Now when a woman does or says something, I know what is expected of me.
I am by all means still a work in progress, however this book has gotten me to new heights in my game, and is always an excellent reference when in doubt.
- Review by Alex S., Toronto
REVIEWS: LEARNING ABOUT WHY WOMEN LIE
I came home yesterday to find Everything Out OF Her Mouth IS A Test in my mailbox, and I immediately took it inside to read it. I had purchased the audio for 'From Friends to Lovers' a while back, and I had held off on purchasing 'Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test' because the material overlapped. However, despite that being the case, I found this book full of additional information. I ended up reading almost the entire book in one sitting.
This book is for men at any age. As a guy approaching middle-age, I needed this information desperately. But if you're in your early 20s, this book is definitely worth your time, simply for the discussion of the protection of her reputation.
If you were like me growing up, you may remember the popular guys always bragging about their conquests. You may remember that you wished you had the experience to participate in those conversations because you were dying to be as cool as you thought they were. I thought to myself, when I'm older, I can brag about the woman I've nailed! Because of that, I thought it was my right to be able to brag about how often I banged my girlfriend. I resented girls who didn't appreciate it. The few actual girlfriends I've had, obviously didn't.
Well, guess what. Grow up, boy! Real men don't kiss and tell. In fact, Frank gives you a good explanation as to why you shouldn't kiss and tell. 1) You're more likely to get more sex. But more importantly: 2) the less you talk about it, the more people will think you're getting laid when they do find out (for whatever reason) that you are getting some. By actually keeping your mouth shut about it, you're going to accomplish your real goals. Don't believe me? Well, read the book, and find out why that's true.
Not so coincidentally, the popular dude who I remember shooting his mouth off the most in High School about his accomplishments, ended up being gay. So you know... that just goes to show. Dudes who aren't having sex with chicks, shoot their mouth off about it. I wonder if it is need number one because it's the most important? Your ability to keep your mouth shut reflects a lot on your ability to meet the other 9 emotional needs of a woman because it demonstrates how experienced you may be, or may not be.
One thing I liked about Frank's introductory comments in the book is that he informs the reader that these are theories have been developed from his journals of his experience with women and dating. When he has shown his ideas to psychology professionals, he admits that these professionals often do not agree that his conclusions are correct. This is his honesty for you. As he says, he's not here to tell you what to think, he tells you how to think.
That said, Frank states that his theories have worked for him in the world of sex, dating and relationship management. Try them, use the ones that work for you, discard the ones that don't. In my mind, this is a sensible approach. However, after reading Frank's material on the subject, logically, you'll be thinking to yourself. "Duh, no wonder that girl rejected me for that bad boy!"
Yes, Frank does cover the 10 emotional needs of women in his other products, but each product has a different emphasis. Aside from learning in-depth about the 10 needs from Everything Out of Her Is A Test, I think you'll find that there is some additional practical advice in this book that is not in From Friends To Lovers, such as: Secure Your Condoms. Let's face it, women who want to steal sperm to get pregnant, will got to any lengths. Maybe a woman that you end up having a one night stand with might be up to something. She may: 1) Poke a hole in the condom she asks you to use; or 2) Poke holes in your displayed stash of condoms for revenge. You are responsible for the babies that you make, and as such, you are responsible for the birth control as well. Even if she says she is on the pill (or something else), you are responsible for the birth control. Use your own condoms, and ensure they are safe to use. Your future wife will be impressed by your lack of herpes!
Though I previously listened to Frank's From Friends To Lovers lecture, and thought I thoroughly understood why I had been rejected by my one-itis (the woman I was obsessed with), reading Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test gave me some additional insight. The section on why women lie really hit home for me. It helped me realize why some of the things the woman had said to me didn't make sense. I was still thinking that some of these non-congruent statements were made from a basis of truth. Once I understood better why women lie, I realized why these statements didn't make any sense. "Duh, She had reasons to lie other than to spare my feelings."
There is much good material in Everything out of her mouth is a test!
Buy, read, and enjoy it. It's definitely worth the money $$
- Review by Pogz, USA Military Base
REVIEW: LEARN THE "WHY" SOMETHING DOES OR DOES NOT WORK
When I started my study of seduction with other methods, one thing that kept bothering me about the things I was learning and using was that the question of why would always came up. Why does it work? Why should I do this? Why does she care that I do this? What makes this particular line work better than another? Why should I care that I do this? Why does this work on some women and not others?
I could not explain all these things with what I had known at the time. All I knew was if it worked or didn't work. Frank's book, "Everything Out Of Her Mouth Is A Test", really allowed me to find the answers to those questions, not because he told me the answers, but he taught me how to figure it out for myself with his Emotional Needs Analysis Theory. The 10 Emotional Needs, breaks down what it is that is important for any given women, to understand why she says the things she says, why she does the things she does, and why she responds to the things she responds to. With that I was able to figure out my own way to attract women while staying true to the emotional needs.
Frank goes in depth into each emotional needs. What is it, why it is an emotional need for her, what happens when you pass her test, what happens when you fail her test, common misconceptions, common pitfalls to avoid. He explains a lot about how women think, feel, and reason behind a lot of subjects that matter to a women and be oblivious to a man. This book open my mind to a whole new realm of possibilities for how a women will behave and justify her behaviour. Before this book, I had no idea the thoughts that go on in a woman's mind, and the type of realities they live in.
He goes on to explain common ways how to address these emotional needs. Techniques and methods mentioned, although at times seem obvious, are quite powerful, and leave you room to be creative in how you want to address the emotional needs that best suits you and your personality. Frank does not teach specific routines or pick up lines. He teaches you the fundamental understanding of women in regards to their emotional needs and what is it that attracts women. By knowing this, I was able to be more calibrated, know what to do in the moment, be dynamic and adaptive to the situation and circumstances, be able to handle issues as they came up, and even prevent some from being an issue in the first place.
If you're interested in attracting and staying in good relationships with emotionally healthy women of your choice, this is the product to read. If you are interested in any of other Frank's products, this is the product you should still get this because to gain a deeper and fuller value of those products, the knowledge and understanding of the emotional needs will be key to maximizing your efforts to succeed. After studying the emotional needs theory for a year now with results, I can say that this book is something I still refer to regularly. This is a highly recommended product. If you can only get one book, this is the book to get.
- Review by Neal L.
REVIEW: EXPLAINING WHY SOME ROUTINES AND TACTICS WORK
I joined this journey in April after reading The Game by Neil Strauss. I am 43 years old, and have struggled with relationships all my life. I definitely am a recovering frustrated chump. I have been working on myself since April. I have received coaching from various companies, and purchased several books, including those by Frank Kermit. My dating has improved substantially since April, and I am in sight of my goals. I am now approaching women and getting dates on a regular basis. I have also been in a non-committed sexual relationship for about 2 months.
Since joining in April I have seen the best and the worst of what the dating industry has to offer. I have recently become familiar with Frank Kermit’s work after reading “Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test”. This book contains amazing insights and has changed forever my views on women and my role as a man. Unlike most products offered by the other dating coaches, this book gets to the core issue, which is how to address a woman’s emotional needs. Although the routines and tactics taught by other coaches can sometimes be useful, this book will help you to interpret why those routines and tactics work. His writing style is clear and concise, and sprinkled with plenty of wit. It is a pleasure to read.
Franks insights are helping in my current relationship. I no longer get bewildered when she “acts up” as I have in past relationships. I now attempt to address her emotional needs on a consistent basis, and don’t get as frustrated. For example, this particular woman has a tendency to go on and on about her pending divorce. I’ve set boundaries around “NOT being her therapist”, and when she does go on and on, I just give her a big hug and tell her “it will be OK”. This addresses her emotional needs. By telling her that I don’t want to be her therapist, I also address her emotional need of being honest with her.
I am a busy executive and do not read as much as I should. Truth be told, I have a short attention span and get bored with books quite easily. However Frank Kermit's book is compelling and I could not put it down. From the first few pages I felt this guy is onto something. Frank will be the first to admit that he does not know if his theories are true. All he knows is that they work for him, and may work for others. I have been field testing some of his theories on emotional needs and so far I can tell you they have worked for me in terms of getting and maintaining attraction and cooperation.
- Review by F. I. Vancouver
REVIEW: FRANK IS TO WOMEN WHAT GOOGLE TRANSLATE IS TO LANGUAGE
Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test really hit me in the head like a babel fish (now Google Translate) to a language. I've been trying to understand all my life. So many painful situations explained. After spending the last year digging through material by various other gurus most of them teach gimmicks that might eventually get you laid, others focus on some idealized philosophy that only has grounding in the speaker's reality. I don't want a woman's attraction to me to be based on gimmicks or some other dude's zen philosophy. It's like she'll find out I'm a fake, and I'll be back rolling the dice for another mediocre one night stand.
I stumbled into Frank's stuff through a seminar when he was the guest speaker, and finally found something worthy. Something that goes to the crux of attraction as opposed to skimming the surface. Something much more dense, challenging and realistic.
Looking back at my sexual history after reading Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test, everything comes together. The 10 Emotional Needs are like the ten commandments to attraction. I have yet to find myself in a successful or failing situation the guidelines in this book can't explain.
The book doesn't teach you hints and tricks. It gives you guidelines so that you may begin to develop your own instincts that will get you the type and quality of relationships that you seek.
- Review by G. in Ontario
REVIEW: AN AWAKENING OF KNOWING WHAT TO DO AFTER SEX TO KEEP HER
This is definitely a great book, but before I talk about its specifics, I'd like to do a brief review of Frank's emotional needs theory in general. The reason for this is that this book covers the core foundation for the whole Frank Kermit school of thought and so it's important for people to know what they're about to learn.
I have been familiar with the whole PUA/seduction community for a few years and have gone through material from a number of well known "gurus" out there. When I came across Frank's material several months ago, it was like an awakening. All the other seduction material that I've read told you how you should act in order to attract women. For some of it, I don't doubt that if you master the techniques and apply them in the right situations, you can get laid. However, none of them told you anything about what to do after you get laid or how to keep a girl interested in a relationship.
Frank's material focuses on teaching you "how to think" rather than "what to think". His Emotional Needs theory (which is described in detail in this book), explains his model for the psychological attraction process that emotionally healthy women go through. This might be harder to learn then some snazzy pick-up line or routine and can involve a bit of thinking. However, once you get a firm understanding of the concepts, you'll be able to get women attracted and keep those women attracted indefinitely as long as your communication to them effectively addresses their emotional needs. With proper practice this can easily be incorporated in your every day conversations and interactions, so there's no "material" that you have to constantly learn and memorize.
Now back to the book... This book describes in detail all 10 of the Emotional Needs that Frank's model uses and explains why satisfying those needs makes women sexually attracted to you, while violating those same needs makes women not sexually attracted to you. Then Frank gives some suggestions of different ways that you can satisfy Emotional Needs. Let me be clear, there are no pick-up lines or routines. The goal is not for you to learn "material" that you use and then don't know what to do when you run out. The goal is for you to be able to communicate attractively on a regular basis without relying on prepared things. That's the only way you'll be successful in a relationship.
On top of this, there are some useful additional sections on specific situations or problems that guys may run into. These include a discussion of what Frank calls the "Emotional Cookie Man", which is the typical nice guy that does things for women, listens to their problems, but gets no sex. Overall though, the detailed discussion of the Emotional Needs theory is the main component of this book and is the key element of Frank's theory. Mastering the concepts from this book alone should be enough to make you successful with women. Frank does have a number of other products, but those are for specific purposes and situations. This book is the core component foundation for everything else.
I strongly recommend this book for all those guys that either have trouble getting laid or can get laid, but can't maintain a successful, healthy relationship. The material described here will help you both. It will even help guys already in a relationship to make sure they understand what it is that makes (or made) their woman attracted to them and to make sure they keep doing it and not let their relationship fizzle out.
Frank's theory has really changed my whole perspective on seduction and even changed my life. I'm confident he can help you guys too. Thanks Frank!
- Review by Nitral, Toronto
REVIEW: IDENTIFY THE UNATTRACTIVE BEHAVIORS YOU ARE DOING
If Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test is considered for the seduction community, then I'd say it's one of the better books written from it. This book is not like the typical book of theory you find in Pick Up methods. Unlike those ones where it is crammed with complex theory, this book to me was very simple to understand. It is about Frank Kermit’s emotional needs system, how to address them, and why women would have those emotional needs. The book really clarified things for me. Through this book, I started to understand why women would do certain things which wouldn’t make sense logically, but emotionally.
This book helped me identify what unattractive behaviors and actions you are exhibiting to women through the Emotional Needs model (e.g. talking about your past relationships in front of other women). If you read this book, I would say you’d have a good understanding of what attracts women. To me, this book is like a reference guide. Whenever I am in a situation with a woman I do not understand, I refer back to the book to understand what’s going on (in Frank terms, doing an Emotional needs analysis).
If you are just getting started with Frank’s material, this is the first book you should get. It is an absolute must have if you’re going to study Frank Kermit’s school of thought. Even if you know the Emotional Needs model well, but do not have this book, get it ASAP because there are some core elements that can found in this book. Numerous spelling errors and the overall layout of the book prevent this from being the perfect book. But it’s the content that matters, and that part does not disappoint.
- Review by Rocco, Toronto
REVIEW: BECOME A MAN WITH GREATER AWARENESS
I read "Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test" twice. Let's begin with my favorite parts of Every Thing Out of her Mouth is Test: Frank, I think you make profound observations in this book and reveal some universal truths: particularly on the issue of assertiveness in relationships, the essential ingredients of relationships-first and foremost KNOW WHO YOU ARE, what three things a child must have being brought into this world and when people lie to themselves often enough they start to believe their own bull.
Your re-framing of male female relationships in that a woman can only be your mother or lover is simply brilliant. I never thought of it that way but now putting all my female relationships in to that perspective it seems to make perfect sense. The essential heart of your book on how to address the ten emotional needs of women is a great working manual for having better control over my relationships. I don't have to wonder what the heck I have been doing wrong now that I can implement your insight and advice.
Something else you have written also caught my attention: You ARE A MAN, kill the little boy inside you or at least silence him. I have been emoting far too long letting that little kid have his way and enough is enough. I am glad you made me aware of this very dysfunctional behavior. I think you have come up with some very plausible theories on why some women (particularly beautiful women) seem to be attracted to, date and have sex with violent jerks.
When I lived in Montreal I noticed this tendency particularly among young "exotic dancer" type girls who dated motor cycle gang members, men in organized crime, and other assorted thugs. I, like most "nice guys" could not understand what the fuck was going on. Finally, I appreciate your honesty in writing your theories about relationship management are just that: your theories and not to be taken as divine truth. They work for you and that is why you are passing them on to your readers.
All in all, Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test has been a real eye opener for me. Like the proverbial doctor who removes cataracts so the patient can see better, your book removed some of my cataracts-supplicating/ beta behavior.
Perry in Japan
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REVIEW: GREAT DATING BOOK FOR NEWBIES
I would recommend a newbie read Frank Kermit's "Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test" and "I'm a Man, It's My Job" Coaching Workbook for men. The first will give the guy an understanding of WHY all the techniques in the other guru books you mention work because it explains women’s emotional needs. The second is a classic on inner game - without which the effectiveness of the teachings in the books you mention will be very limited.
-Posted Review on Relax&Flow Blog
REVIEW: DISCOVER THE BLUEPRINT MAP OF SEDUCTION
Review of Everything Out Of Her Mouth Is a Test:
This book revolutionized the dating game in my eyes. The blueprint is here. The reason why is simply because while other seduction material may give you what to do that will work, it doesn't necessarily tell you why it works, or in what ways it may be weak in. What the emotional needs analysis do, is give you a map or blueprint of seduction, and it shows you how everything else can fit in it. If you want to get to Kansas, you don't ask for directions, you get GPS.
In this book, it will break down all the different Healthy Emotional Needs of women. This book even goes beyond what they are, it teaches you the different techniques that are available to satisfy them. Basically, it tells you how to think, not what to think as Frank would put it.
Reading this book will change the way you think about life in general, and will revolutionize the way you view the world of relationships as a whole. Then you can begin to understand how to attract those types of women if you desire, and even why some women respond differently. I am glad this book was written, because this is the future. Looking forward at this work 10-20 years from now, everyone will be reading and studying Frank Kermit point blank.
- Review by Robert, Toronto
REVIEW: WHY IT IS IMPORTANT TO HAVE SEX
I have read three of your other books and the one I like best would be Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test. This was the last book I read. I think the title scared me at first. of all the dating and relationship books I read no one has addressed her emotional needs like you did. Your quote: "this is why you must have sex with her". I never heard this before, after reading this book and looking at other peoples relationships that is a very true statement.
-Review by John of New Hampton IA
REVIEW: HANDLE THIS SITUATION THAT HAPPENS TO EVERY SINGLE GUY
A very enthusiastic review from Robbie in Toronto (a die-hard fan of FrankTalks)
Guys,There is a book that you must get your hands on! It will forever change the way you view dating and relationships. It's called Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test.
Have you ever been with a woman where you're alone and it's just you and her, maybe you've had an otherwise beautiful time together, your emotional needs seem to be addressed, you're in a good mood and things seem comfortable and going in your favor, but suddenly, out of the blue, she says something that leaves you thinking "how could she possibly say that to me?"
There is only one thought that flashes in your mind; "DON'T SCREW THIS UP!" Ok, so now you're in a panic! Your heart is racing! You're thinking "Did I do something wrong? What did I do? what did I say? Should I just apologize? What can I say or do to make her calm down? How can I possibly change the subject and get this off her mind? Why can't she just calm down and act the way ME AND THE BOYS do when we're hanging out? Is there something wrong with her? What if she rejects me?"
You're going through all the cheesy lines in you can think of. But what if you can just wait this out!..you close your eyes and tap your heels and wait a few seconds and look at her again...she's STILL waiting on you to reply! Think fast! Ok, so now not only are you not thinking fast, you're also frozen stiff! In fact, you're scared to say anything!
This is about the time when, to your surprise, SHE STARTS TELLING YOU WHAT YOU SHOULD SAY! AND NOT ONLY IS SHE TELLING YOU WHAT TO SAY, SHE'S ALSO TELLING YOU WHAT TO DO!!! Why can't she just love you for the MAN that you are and stop acting like your mother?
BECAUSE SHE'S TESTING YOU! AND YOU'VE JUST FAILED!!!
To learn exactly why EVERYTHING OUT OF HER MOUTH IS A TEST and what you can do about it, just read this book.
But guys, let's be clear on something; you can make excuses all day long, but It's not her fault, it's yours! You are a MAN - and this is precisely why SHE MUST TEST YOU; so you can PROVE that you are a trustworthy mate, a great leader among your tribe, and can build a bigger better fire and stronger hut than any other potential mate!
SAY WHAT?????
You see guys, I've discovered a startling secret from Frank when it comes to women; they have this little thing called biological programming. It's been going on for millions of years, and it's all about instinct. A woman's biological programming gives her strong emotional needs that you must first address before she will become your lover. If you do not address her emotional needs and prove to her that you are a worthy lover, her motherly instincts will kick in and she will start mothering you!
That's right, you heard me; SHE WILL START TREATING YOU LIKE A LITTLE BOY!
She'll tell you what to wear, what to eat, what to do, what not to do, what to say, what not to say, when to go to bed...and it won't be a pretty sight! So if you don't start acting like a MAN, you won't get treated like a MAN.
"Ok", you may be asking, "I know this may seem obvious, but how can I start acting like a man?" You can start by studying the lessons in the book! "Ok," you may still be asking, "What if I just want to go out and have a good time without having to worry about all this complicated stuff?" Well, that's precisely why you should BE A MAN ABOUT IT and learn the secrets of what you need to know to attract women and YOU'LL NEVER EVER NEED TO WORRY ABOUT THIS STUFF AGAIN!!!"
Remember, you don't need to be the best in the world with this stuff to have success with women, you just need to be better than all the other average frustrated guys out there that are just the way you used to be before now!
-Review by Robbie of Toronto
REVIEW: TRULY UNDERSTAND THE DEEPER LEVELS OF HER COMMUNICATION
Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test. After reading this book, you truly understand the deeper levels of communication of a woman. Everyone says women are emotional. But what are her emotional needs? What does a woman REALLY mean when she says something? Why do women call most men “clueless”? Frank has identified some of the most important, if not to say, fundamental emotional needs of women.
Why does it bother women to be called sluts (I’m sure guys wouldn’t feel the way a woman feels if called a player!)? Why do women say one thing and do another? Why do women end up dating “jerks” (what are the qualities the jerks possesses?)? Why does a woman feel remorse after sleeping with you / kissing you in a club?
These are the type of situations some men have gone through and only few know how to handle in order to be the real man who knows how to satisfy the woman’s needs. This is not a book about pick-up lines. This is a book that will teach you how to get in touch with your masculinity in order to adopt the correct mindset, hence addressing a woman’s emotional needs. Unless you are a man whose love-life is exactly the way you want it to be or a woman who’s found the perfect man, I would strongly encourage you to this work of art.
- Review by Andy, Montreal
REVIEW: CHANGED THE WAY HE SEES MALE-FEMALE INTERACTIONS
"Everything Out of Her Mouth Is a TEST" was much more than I expected. I have read and reviewed lots of materials from various people including some of the "big names" in the dating and seduction world. While they refer to tests (and while everybody knows that women test), most of them give very little information on how to handle these tests. Most of them define "tests" very narrowly as the things women do and say to test your manhood -- to see if their frame is stronger than yours, i.e., whether they can "top" you. These tests run rampant when you first meet a woman and surface at least occasionally throughout a relationship. What I was expecting was a list of this type of tests with a way to respond to each. For example... If she says, "I'm not interested. You're too old for me," you laugh in her face, say, "Are you always like this?" and continue the conversation.
Frank Kermit's definition of "test" is much more broad and encompasses not only this type of test but many other other types that often are not recognized as tests -- the ones women use to determine whether you can meet their ten emotional needs. An in addition to an example of how to respond to each type of test, you present a catalog of ten types of responses to adapt and choose from. In other words, you provide a method for quickly examining the test and choosing from a myriad of possible responses.
Your theory about the two roles a woman can play in an interaction with a man was intriguing and has changed the way I see male-female interactions.
But perhaps the most insightful revelation was your discussion to the effect that, while men like to keep things steady from an emotional standpoint, women need to feel a wide range of emotions, both positive and negative -- and how to use this knowledge to keep the "drama" under control. From the information in your book -- and from our telephone conversation -- I can see that you have a lot of insight into testing and other aspects of relationships. Thank you for a very enlightening and thought provoking book.
- Review by Dave in USA
REVIEW: INTERESTING BUT SLIGHTLY DARK READ ABOUT GAME
I found the book an interesting, but slightly dark read. You are definitely a far more philosophical thinker than many others currently writing about the game. I can also tell you're well educated and expect the same level of intelligence from your audience.
- Review by Wolfgang
REVIEW: TRULY ENHANCE YOUR INTERACTIONS WITH WOMEN
Everything Out of Her Mouth is a TEST: It has some great info about the subconscious mind along with in an in depth discussion on how the satisfy the top 10 emotional needs of a women through her tests. I got a real greater understanding of women through this one. Now when I'm with a girl, I really pay attention to the needs he talks about in his books.
I just came back from LA on business and witnessed all kinds of interactions going on between couples I met, which I can now really relate to in terms of the dynamics of the relationships. I now have a better understanding of what is actually going on. In my opinion, I don’t believe that Franks books are a pick up guide. I do however believe they will truly enhance your relationship and your general interactions with women. This book is A MUST.
- Review by W., Toronto
REVIEW: UNDERSTANDING THE WOMAN IN THE BROTHEL
A quick email review from L.B....Have you ever seen the movie Belle Du Jour starring "Catherine Deneuve"? This was one of those movies that disturbed me way back when I first saw it. I was fascinated and disturbed at the same time. I mean, here's this beautiful girl married to a good-looking doctor who loved her dearly (Good Genes and Fear of Abandonment). Why would she go out during the day to work in a brothel? WHY???
Well, now I know... she needed the Emotional Range, so she took on a pseudonym to Protect Her Reputation, her husband could not display Assertiveness or Handle Her Sexuality. He was a "nice guy" so she could not rely on him for Trust and Honesty. There's more to it but those were the main ones.
It's amazing; your emotional needs analysis theory finally helped me understand this movie that has fascinated me for a long time. You’re book Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test, and your understanding of Women’s Emotional Needs has finally helped me put these long dogging questions to rest.
–Review by L.B., Ontario
REVIEW: FAN-FREAKIN-TASTIC BOOK ON UNDERSTANDING WOMEN
I read From Loser to Seducer when it came out, it hit home. Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test though is something freakin' else. I'm not even finished it -- but it is fan-freakin-tastic. Buy it now! I'm going to recommend it to some other folks as well. Frank Kermit, thanks again for your help in 2006, and taking the time to write this stuff down! As I head into harem management territory this is perfect timing for me. Freakin' A! -
- Review by S.V.
REVIEW: CLEARLY EXPLAINED AND EXPANDED HIS CONSCIOUSNESS
You're a genius! I have read many books, listened to many recordings, and watched many videos from various "seduction gurus" -- and none of them explain the emotional needs of women as clearly as you. Your work has expanded my consciousness, and I am very grateful.
- Review by Name and Location Requested Withheld
REVIEW: GOING TO MAKE SURE HIS SON READS IT
Frank, This month I turn 45... been married 17+ years. I got a son who is 15 years old. The stuff I'm learning from reading your book Everything out of your mouth is a test, is amazing!!! Women's emotional range needs? It's like lifting a veil off my head so I can see... Thanks for inviting me. (I am going to make sure my son learns this when he is ready).
- Review by W.E.
REVIEW: GREAT DATING BOOK FOR ENGINEERS
I read Frank Kermit's book Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test. It was a quick read, and easily one of the better books that I've read on Picking Up Women. I gave it a chance because the single line message of the book is that you have to satisfy a woman's emotional needs for her to feel sexual attraction to you. This resonates with my personal belief, and it's something that most Pick Up material ignores.
His theory is that a woman will assume either the role of Mother or Lover in your life. The urge to be Mother is stronger than the urge to be Lover so she constantly tests you, based on her emotional needs, to see what category you fall into. Those tests are categorized per the emotional need's list. The categories are pretty self-explanatory, but the book expands on them and specifically explains how your response will trigger either the Mother or Lover role.
He doesn't claim that his Mother/Lover theory is necessarily truth, rather it's a model of behavior that works. As an engineer, I could relate
The easy takeaway is that you should subject every response you give a woman to the following test; are my words more likely to put her in the role of Mother or Lover. I.O.W., (in other words) in my response, will I be asking her to meet my needs, or will I demonstrate that I understand and can meet hers? As an aside, point 10 was surprisingly with merit. He quoted an example of a woman that wasted her childbearing years married to a man that turned out to be gay.
-Review by Dilbert of the Intellectual Whores Forum
REVIEW: NOW HE UNDERSTANDS WHY SHE DUMPED HIM
A lot of things you say in your books- I'm seeing first hand. - but I know now. I recently ran into an old friend of mine and he told me his girlfriend had just dumped him because he was "too nice"....a few months ago that wouldn't have made sense to me- but I know now.
- Review by R.A.
REVIEW: THE BEST RETROSPECTIVE ANALYSIS TOOL TO UNDERSTAND WOMEN
I've bought your book, and I'm really excited about reading it. I was thinking about this recently: your theory about emotional needs is probably the best retrospective analysis tool that I have found: you can practically take every situation with women, and find out what you did right and what you did wrong. It will be very useful.
- Review by M.G.
REVIEW: A COMPLETE BIG PICTURE OF HOW WOMEN INTERACT AND THINK
Review of Everything Out Mouth is Test:
The emotional needs in this book are excellent. Along the way, you hear bits of pieces of things that work. For example: "Don't ask her out in front of her friends, (EN # 1)" or "Women Like a Guy with Confidence", but you don't really see the big picture. I heard bits and pieces all my life, but was never sure how they fit in or what to do about them. The Emotional needs are great for having a complete, big picture, of how women interact, what they think, and what to do about it. Its 10 simple rules to explain all the complicated behavior of women. I refer to this book constantly, and it so impressed me, I remembered most of the main points on the first read alone.
One thing that would help is more stories or examples, either from Frank's life or others. We all learn from example. For example, here are some things women have said to me or others to test them.
"Let's go work out Saturday morning at 9 AM." when she knows I like to sleep in Sat morning.
A friend of mine had a girlfriend, and, as he was talking to me, she kept interrupting, rather innocently, "Honey, will you get me some water?" or "Honey, I need a paper towel." He replied after each time "Baby, I'm talking right now." After awhile she started giggling. She just wanted to see if he would do it.
Or when you talk to a girl and you say you like a favorite band, and she says she hates that band, sometimes, it seems to me, like a test. Usually such tests aren't really hostile, but more of "So what do you think about that?"
Anyway, just a few thoughts. If you do a follow-up edition. I'd like to see more ways on how to address her emotional needs (please refer to the emotional needs analysis workbooks). I would get it.
Anyway, great book overall.
-Review by L. D.
REVIEW: THE ANSWERS OF WHY WOMEN DO THINGS IS HERE
This book is the cornerstone of all of Frank Kermit's other works. In this book he teaches you about women!--and the emotional needs motivations that propel women do the things they do. I think this is a very important book to have in your arsenal and it is the first book you should read if you are new to Frank Kermit's works.
No longer are the days where men ponder about why women do the 'strange' things they do. The answers are inside this book. After reading this book I saw women in a different light and better understood what emotional needs they were trying to address or test.
This book will give you an in-depth look into women but also into yourself.
- Review by Grnx
REVIEW: AN ENGINEER ORIENTED APPROACH TO WOMEN
It is said that...
the mathematician builds a bridge, it sinks on him and he doesn't know why it sank.
The physicist builds it, it sinks on him and he knows why.
The engineer builds it, it holds and he doesn't know why.
Frank’s approach is engineer oriented. He wants the reader who reads the book to put the necessary effort to get results. Which results? To have the kind of relationship that he wants with women. The core idea is that a woman looks for a lover, not a child she has to mother.
A man that protects her while she takes care of his children. Women are almost continuously asking you if you could be the man, the lover she wants and she tests you unconsciously, watching at your reactions to events as well as through questions and conversation. Are you the man with whom I can feel as the woman I am or will I have to mother you?
Frank breaks down that female´s search in what he calls The Ten Emotional Needs. Every need is explained in detail, and how it is addressed and the consequences resulting for the relationship at not failing the tests, in Frank’s language.
After breaking down every emotional need, the book continues with explaining the different ways to address women’s emotional needs. The book ends talking about men unable to present themselves before a woman as a man and how some women take advantage of them, following, in the last chapter to explain in Frank’s theories why some women stay into relationships with men that abuse them and mistreat them, from the perspective of how any of these jerks is able indirectly to address the emotional needs of his partner.
Frank’s ideas are his own, a result of his years of work to see what works and what doesn't, completely away from what is politically correct and the official speech, from supposedly relationship expert psychologists, to the media. All of them, as Frank finely warn us, hadn't taught us what works and will make us happy. It will be the reader who will have to verify by himself as to which point they are true.
B. B. in Mexico
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REVIEW: DRAWING THE FRAME OF A RELATIONSHIP
If there is a need to give the basic advice to the friends about the book, we can say that....Firstly Frank wants to draw the frame of relationship between men and women. If you a are man having problems in relations with women or you have a great motivation for having a good relationship but you cant understand that the reason why you cant manage it, and finally why the jerks mostly together with the high quality girls and mostly spoil that girls!!
With this book we need to understand that; man and women have different emotional levels, different biological features, different understandings about the life! And the Emotional Needs Analysis Theory is coming from the roles of the women as a mother or a lover in the life of the man she is with, and the unconscious tests mechanisms of women to choose men as a partner for sex.
-Review by K. F.
REVIEW: THE ERNEST HEMINGWAY OF DATING: DECEPTIVELY SIMPLISTIC
Hey guys, here's my review of Frank Kermit's book Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test.
It's a man's guide to satisfying the emotional needs of women.
Chapter 1: In this chapter Frank covers his core beliefs in order for his reader to appreciate his basic theories on men, women and relationships that he presents throughout the rest of his book. While I found most of the chapter to be ground breaking, the idea that stuck out the most was the sophistication of a woman's emotional circuitry. Here's an example: 1.A woman meets a new man. She quickly becomes physically attracted to him. This is her first level of emotion. 2.Realizing that she is attracted to this man, she now starts feeling guilty because she has a boyfriend. This is her second level of emotion. 3.Then she starts to feel resentful indignation towards her boyfriend because she is feeling guilty for feeling attracted. This is her third level of emotion. 4.Now she may get feelings of uncertainty about her relationship with her boyfriend because she is feeling resentful indignation towards him, because she is feeling guilty for feeling attracted. This is her fourth level of emotion. This can go on and on.... For some women at least. The end result of this is that WHEN she will hit that final emotional level, it will be THAT emotional need that the man must address when she tests him. Yes it is some pretty deep stuff right here, but at least it gives you an idea of why us men have a hard time understanding why women may act the way they do in some instances.
Chapter 2: In my experiences, I noticed something about women whom I didn't end up dating but would make them my friend. I learned that a good female friend will make an active effort into hooking you up with other women, whereas a bad female friend will actually get jealous and even sabotage you hooking up just so that she can guarantee herself the most amount of attention from men. Unfortunately, most of my female friends have turned into the latter leaving me little choice but to ditch 'em...Some of you may or may not be aware of Kermit's Lover vs. Mother Theory when explaining our relationships with women. In this chapter, he went into quite some detail about it. One of the paragraphs really stuck out (actually a lot of the paragraphs really stuck out so I was hard pressed to finally choosing one) for me here: "A female friend is more of a "mother" to you than she will ever be a "lover". At this point, it is what kind of mother she is going to be for you. If she is useful, and helps you meet other women for you to potentially have sex with, she is a good mother. If she keeps you around to wash her car or to buy her stuff, but she is NOT useful when helping you meet other women for you to potentially have sex with, then she is a bad mother. If she is the latter, then dump her, or let one of your male friends f-word her, and get him to introduce you to one of his "bad" mothers." I remember hearing stories about real mothers actually getting JEALOUS when their sons would be dating some women. I know it's an extreme case, but it helps illustrate Kermit's point. I guess now I have my first good screening question for a woman if I'm looking at possibly having her as a potential mother for my children: "Are you the kind of girl that helps her guy friends hook up? Kinda like a match maker?" Seems like an innocent question but it will say s-word loads about the woman you are talking to. Also note that people who are often single tend to like keeping those around them single as misery loves company. Just some more food for thought...
Chapter 3: In this chapter, Frank finally goes over the proverbial emotional needs that most women test for when interacting with a man. He makes it clear that all interactions between a man and a woman will display this dynamic and from it a woman will decide consciously or unconsciously whether she will be that man's lover or mother symbolically. The ten emotional needs were BRIEFLY covered in Frank's first book (From Loser to Seducer), but now he went into much more detail giving examples of real life experiences of himself and people he knows to illustrate how and why they are there. Of interesting note, at the end of explaining each emotional need is that once you pass it you MUST ALSO HAVE SEX HER (or at least make an attempt) for the emotional need(s) to have fully been satisfied. This is why Kermit has taught us that when you DON'T have sex with a woman when the opportunity arises then you risk violating ALL TEN emotional needs and that nasty back rationalization that women do can come and bite you in the rear-end...A lot of the things said in this chapter (like his earlier chapters) coincide my own life experiences. Examples include: --> Don't mix the catering the little girl inside her emotional need WHILE having sex. Before and after is OK, but doing it DURING sex is bad. I had a girlfriend in the past that would still call me those cute names during sex (she did have clingy issues) and for some reason the sex wasn't as passionate. I now understand why. --> This issue of fear of abandonment can be about 50% of the reason why some women will give heavy last minute hesitations prior to sex. Even if a woman knows it's a one night stand, she still has to feel that she is unique to you in some way. --> Most men in this day and age can't handle a woman's honesty about who she really is. Being able to handle a woman's honesty takes more practice than you'd imagine. --> Women have to be picky about the men they lay for reasons most of us understand. Not only do men not have to deal with those same issues, but the best way for the man to pass his genes on is to lay as many women as possible. It ALMOST doesn't matter who. I guess when you get to the point where it becomes a high quality problem then you start to raise your standards considerably. But the bottom line is that real alpha males have sex with most women. And, in the end, the experience this lends itself to will teach you what you need to know when it comes time (if it does) to finding and keeping that woman you truly want to settle down with. -->I never realized that women were so worried about their man being secretly an "in the closet homosexual" and the repercussions that could come of it. Looking back in life, not only can I think of times where a woman may have tested me on this, but that some of those tests were so harsh that they could even be emasculating/castrating. Although, that could come under the emotional need of assertiveness as well. So far, this book is a very smooth read with a lot of points that stick out so finish up the last few smaller chapters should go rather well for me. -
Chapter 4: In this chapter Frank gives out his favorite tried and true methods for addressing a woman's emotional needs. Most of us have seen such methods mentioned in other programs but what really helps is how Frank gives real life examples of these. I was able to relate to most of his experiences which made for some good reading. Here are some highlights: --> Being playful: Agreeing with what she says and then exaggerating it. This kinda reminds me of one guy's ideas of handle accusative women. --> "When you see that girls you like, like you back, that is the sign that you need to use LOTS more sincere vulnerability in your communication." This really strikes home with me.. --> He covers a lot of information on when to give a woman attention, specifically through touching her. And these ideas seem that they would be very applicable to 9's and 10's whom may being "acting" seductive with you.
Chapter 5: The emotional cookie man: I used to be here back in the day, and Frank points out some real key points to watch out for in order to prevent yourself from ever being classified as such by a woman ever again. It's a short chapter but I will point something out: -->Key point: Are you giving her more attention than she already earned? Yes? This is emotional cookie territory.
Chapter 6: Why women date violent jerks. In this chapter, Frank covers why some women go for jerks. He covers a lot of complex deep seated issues that surround this "paradox". I thought I understood a lot of such reasons but there is more to it than even most pick up artists would imagine. At some points he covers things that now make perfect sense but at other times some of the ideas seem to be out of my reach. I won't go over specific examples here because some of them are quite personal as how they pertain to my life experiences.
Final Overall Review:
The best way I can describe Frank's writing style is to that of Ernest Hemingway.
Hemingway's writings are best described as deceptively simplistic.
What I mean is that the reading is actually quite smooth and you can flow from page to page quite easily as the choice of words he uses won't make your brain hurt or water your eyes from complexity. But, at the same time there are always deeper important issues that he is addressing. Frank's work here is easy to read through but he covers very important and complex topics.
I don't know how many guys have bought this book but it seems to me that most haven't read through it. You're really missing out here if you don't invest some time in this book. A lot of the concepts he presents have been presented in other philosophies but no one puts it all together in the way Frank does, and especially not how he keeps things as simple as possible so that it's easy to learn and readily applicable.
- Review by Milachku in Montreal
REVIEW: HIS LIFE INSTANTLY ALTERED TO A BRIGHT NEW DIMENSION
I found you on the internet, so far I love everything I have come across. I just started to ready your book Everything out of her mouth is a test, on the emotional needs of women and instantly my life just altered and perceptions on this topic moved to a whole new bright dimension.
Rodney K. in South Africa
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I am 20 years now old in college and I've never really been with a girl for more than 6 months after they learn how boring I am. I stopped dating 3 years back not thinking it was gonna damage my life. This year I decided to get back in the game - I knew nothing. That is when I found your work. Thank you Frank. |
REVIEW: A GREAT TOOL TO SELF CHECK WHAT YOU DID
I have read this book more than once and on more occasion then I can count, I have opened this book and have re- read segments from when the question: "What is she trying to communicate to me?" comes up.
I am and admin on an online seduction group myself and have had my fair share of digesting materials (books, CDs, DVDs, Ebooks, newsletters, Seminars etc,) regarding material of this nature. I find that the Emotional Needs Analysis model Frank introduces will actually allow you to figure out what you did wrong and what you did right. From my experience, no other schools of seduction has product that can allow you to self-check like this.
I recommend this book to beginners, mid-range and even advance PUA's. Definitely the first book you should buy when you have not yet had a chance to familiarize yourself with Frank's material
-Review by J. A.
REVIEW: FUTURE MARRIAGE AND FAMILY THERAPIST
Picked up your Emotional Needs Analysis material, it's awesome. Your work specifically inspired me to apply to a Masters of Science for Marriage and Family Therapy program and hopefully go on to my Doctorate after. I feel like men at least in Western culture go largely underrepresented. I may show people your Emotional Needs Analysis on MEN and WOMEN in class once I get to that point. I literally just sent in my application. Thank you so much!
-Review by Cyrus A., California
REVIEW: BETTER UNDERSTANDING OF PIMP GAME
EVERYTHING OUT OF HER MOUTH IS A TEST: A Man's Guide To Satisfying The Emotional Needs Of Women. I would rather say it's is a (seduction) pua book but it has a few good points. I read this book before 'pimp books' so it helped me to understand a bit more of pimp game and women emotions. I learned from this book that "she isn't my mother" and this motherhood-raising-children thing looses attractiveness.
-Review by Panoramix, Natural Freedom forum
REVIEW: SPENT 13 HOURS STRAIGHT READING IT
Hi Frank, I purchased your book yesterday "Everything out of her mouth is a test" and spent the next 13 hours reading it. I finished the book and I came to some realizations about my love life that I need to tackle. I just want to say thanks for writing the book, I really enjoyed it. I will do what it takes to implement these new ideas so I can become more successful with women.
The two things I really will focus on are approaching women more frequently and not worrying if the woman that I am conversing with is not a "10".
Lastly, I want to say you brought home a crucial point each chapter with your phrase "That is why you MUST have sex with her".
I learned about your work through YouTube, I have watched you in the series the Mens Room with Mark Sparks also I have listened to your radio interviews with Dr Laurie. I have been a fan of yours for maybe two or three years and I like your philosophy.
My story is I have always felt I have been good with women, for example getting numbers is not an issue for me, I have had same night lays and also friends with benefits in my life. The thing is I always feel that I can be better than I was the day before and I always strive to learn.
The point I want to make is that just because I have had success with women in the past, I always feel I can achieve more success and have a more enjoyable love life.
As far as buying your book, I have always felt I have been a nice guy, a very kind gentleman but I knew I wanted to purchase this particular book because I knew you would dive deep into the different emotional needs. You also explain them in each chapter in an easy way which made me aware of the things I need to focus on.
Right now before I writing this review, I was re reading the chapter on assertiveness, because that is something I want to work on, and I feel I can be very successful with following your advice.
Keep up the good work, and I wish you much future success.
-Review by Lorenzo G
Chicago, Illinois, USA
