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Coping with Loss at a Wedding
Remembering the Dead at a Wedding
by Frank Kermit
Sometimes, couples who marry want to do something
at the wedding in memory of the people who passed away.
This happens, especially when the death was recent.
At my wedding, my wife and I did a little ceremony at the reception
where we lit a candle and read an inscription, announcing it was
in memory of various relatives that had died, who would have
wanted to attend. It was very short, but it did bring us come
comfort, and it was also comforting to some of the attendees
who were still in mourning.
We all cope with loss differently.
It is important for the wedding couple to also remember,
that not everyone will appreciate your efforts
to pay tribute to your lost loved ones.
One of the biggest mistakes I see people make,
is they try to tell someone else that how they grieve is wrong.
For example, this story is of a wedding I attended:
A father dies a few months before his son is set to be married.
At the wedding, a special tribute is made in honor of the late father.
The groom and his mom dance to a song that was in memory of his dad.
All the guests were invited on the dance floor to circle them.
Then it happened...
at one point, the groom and his mom started to cry a little.
It was not a hysterical cry at all, but the tears were evident.
Everyone around them formed into a circle continued to move to the music.
...except one man.
He started to raise his voice to tell the DJ to stop the music.
He was an uncle in the family, and felt that the song and tribute
was making them cry and that it was wrong.
So he made a fool of himself trying to stop the tribute.
Luckily, the DJ and the rest of the guests ignored him.
The uncle was not comfortable with seeing, or dealing with, grief.
He tried to "protect" everyone else from grief as well.
That was the worst thing he could have done, and lucky for
everyone at the wedding, the DJ was smart enough not to listen to him.
Make sure that you let the DJ, or other wedding professionals involved know about any potential trouble-makers, and let the wedding professionals also know exactly what your wishes are
in case a wedding guest decides to act out.
If you can predict who might be the kind of person to act out,
at your wedding,
it might be a good idea to let that person know ahead of time
what you are planning.
This is not about getting that person's permission.
It is more about letting that person know,
so the shock of surprise
in combination of the grief and mourning
does not motivate that person
into doing something
that will turn your wedding
from spectacular
to a spectacle.
-Frank Kermit
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Learn To Dance For a Wedding
Look Stunning and Surprise Your Guests
by Patty Contenta (Guest Blogger)
It wasn’t so long ago that a couple’s first dance,
as special as it was, was only an effervescent memory
– a fact that was no small blessing for couples
who didn’t know how to dance.
Now with the advent of recording technologies,
a newlywed couple’s first dance is almost always
recorded for viewing through the years.
Here are some points you’ll need to know
to make your wedding dance the best memory ever!
Don’t wait until the last minute:
Remember that your schedule will get very hectic
as your wedding day approaches.
Dance instructors recommend starting six to eight months earlier
to allow more time for practice,
especially if you are a newcomer to dancing.
All dances are popular at weddings:
Besides the Waltz and other traditional dances,
the Mambo, Salsa, Swing and even the Hustle
are all popular at weddings today.
Do you wish to use a special song for your first dance?
If you plan to dance to a special song at your reception,
feel free to bring a recording of it to your dance lessons
so you can work on it with your teacher.
Don’t forget to coordinate with your wedding videographer
to get the best “coverage” of your special dance.
Remember that dance lessons
can actually be a stress reliever:
Dancing is good exercise.
And, dance lessons pull you out of the hustle and bustle of the day
allowing you to spend time with your intended,
having fun and working together productively at the same time.
Learning a new skill that you can use together for a lifetime.
Learning to dance for your wedding is a special gift
that you and your fiance can give to each other.
Feeling confident and poised when you dance together
will ensure that your first dance together
as a married couple will be a memory you will cherish forever.
Hope to see you at a dance studio.
They have a team of great teachers
that will ensure you have a fun and easy experience!
In Joy and Enjoy!
Patty Contenta
www.SensualitySecrets.com
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Many years ago, when I aspired to work in Television, I produced about 15 half hour episodes at a local community university Television closed circuit station. It was called the "Paradites" (a word I created derived from the word "Parody") and heavily inspired by The Muppets, and The Simpsons. It was an incredible time of experimentation with the medium of Television, attempting to do things like sing, perform and see what we could do on a shoe string budget. I am sharing only a few selected clips from those 18 months of production.
Dr Medicine sings No One Like Me
In this clip, Frank Kermit performs his patented character Dr. Medicine. And yes, that is Frank singing.
Campus Canada Magazine covers The Paradites
Date: February 1995, Title: Campus Canada Magazine
Campus Canada Magazine, a nationally published university magazine did a feature story on university student television stations. One of the people interviewed was Frank Kermit who produced, directed and starred in a puppet comedy show.
Campus Canada Magazine, a nationally published university magazine did a feature story on university student television stations. One of the people interviewed was Frank Kermit who produced, directed and starred in a puppet comedy show.
Campus Canada Magazine from February 1995
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Lucky Cat 2000-2012
Remembering August 1, 2012.
Today I had to say goodbye to a wonderful companion.
Lucky was a black rescue cat. He was about 5-6 yrs old when we adopted him.
He had health problems from day 1. Over the last 4 years we did everything we could to care for him, and make him comfortable, and give him a good life.
He was very sweet, would try to lick groom my son when my son was just an infant, never bit, never scratched, purred when he was held, and acted grateful for any affection that came his way.
I know it seems silly to attach human conditions to pets, but that is what it felt like to us.
Our remaining cat Treun with whom he was very bonded with, already feels his absence.
I am saddened by this loss. Heart Broken really.
His health simply deteriorated to the point where his suffering was constant. I had sincerely hoped he would have been able to hold on until we were able to financially afford a home in Nova Scotia where he could have a back yard to frolic in...but time has its own agenda. I will place a small marker on the land once we get there to pay homage to his life, and sprinkle his ashes nearby so that he always will have a proper resting place.
I love you Lucky cat.
-Frank Kermit
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The Sex Bible For Over 50 by Dr Laurie Betito
The Sex Bible for People Over 50
By Dr. Laurie Betito
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About The Author:
Dr. Laurie is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist with a specialty in Sex Therapy, and has been a practicing Psychotherapist for over 25 years. Her professional activities and experiences are diverse. More than 25 years ago, she began a career in radio when, as a co-host, she joined the team of MIX 96 in Montreal; a station that broke barriers when it introduced a call-in show (The Love Line), airing once per week, all about sex and relationships. In 1999, she joined CJAD 800 with her own talk show (this time nightly), once again about sex and relationships. This show, "PASSION", has soared to take the number one position in its time slot, and it is the only show of its kind on Montreal airwaves.
NEW! The Sex Bible For People Over 50: The Complete Guide To Sexual Love For Mature Couples
Author Dr. Laurie Betito gives readers techniques for reconnecting with their partners, bringing experimentation in long-term sexual relationships, and tips on how to handle sex and dating post-50.
Frank Kermit was quoted in this book for his:
Frank Romance Formula.
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The Show: Concept and Mission Conferences, resources, information, leisure and activities adapted to the lifestyles of singles 25 and over. More people than ever before are choosing to be part of an expanding social phenomenon that is living the single life. According to the last Quebec census1, more than one-third (36%) of the population between the ages of 25 and 75 live without a partner. These figures make up almost 1.7 million people in Quebec, half of which lives in the Greater Montreal region. The Solo Lifestyle Show is a unique event, tailored for those who are not in a romantic relationship and wish to feel fulfilled and enhance their lives as individuals... and we are talking about close to half the population! The lifestyle, needs, and concerns of these free spirits are quite different from those living as part of a couple. For instance, single parents raising their children will encounter different problems than those who are in a "traditional" nuclear family. Therefore, the Show's mission is to bring together a wealth of resources to address this modern reality. Visitors will also benefit from more than 10 entertaining conferences presented by leading experts in their field about issues arising in not only their personal but also romantic lives. Despite the more serious topics discussed, the Show will dedicate a portion of its programs to more playful topics such as leisure, travel, and activities now available exclusively to Singles. They won't have an excuse anymore to mope around at home without a partner! Of course, even if it's important to take charge of one's life and not wait for Cupid to come around, it can't hurt to give him a helping hand. Dating services will be on site to help Singles find their special someone. Whether or not they're looking for the love of their life, visitors will leave with many tools and resources to help them reach their life's goals. The Solo Lifestyle Show will, without a doubt, be a great selling platform for all service and goods providers who cater to the Singles population. 1-Data on marital status taken from the 2006 Census conducted by the Institut de la statistique du Quebec, applied to projections for 2011. Definition of a Single Person: A person not in a romantic relationship; separated, divorced, widowed, or never married
Frank Kermit lectures on Managing Friends with Benefits
Date: February 14, 2014, Title: Frank Kermit keynote speaker at the Living Solo Show at Place Bonaventure Frank Kermit was asked to present a talk on Managing The Risks of Friends With Benefits at the Living Solo Show at Place Bonaventure
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Men’s Dating Mastery or simply MDM is a podcast dedicated to helping men improve their success in dating, sex and relationships by interviewing true subject matter experts. Coaches, psychologists, sexologists, researchers, style consultants, anyone with useful and actionable insight is invited to the show. While there are several core principles (read below) that guide the content produced by MDM, MDM does not subscribe to any particular ideology or push it on its listeners. Instead, it seeks to uncover the truth wherever it may lie. As such, no topic is off the table and all perspectives are welcome so long that they stand to enrich the lives of men and do so with integrity and without malice.
Alec Chase interviews Frank Kermit, Emotional Needs of Women part 2
Published on Jul 3, 2015, In Part 2,
Frank Kermit explains the remaining 6 to 10 of the 10 emotional needs of women and how through his actions, a man can either meet or violate them. In addition, Frank explains how he was able to establish multiple open relationships with women who had previously never practiced polyamory.
Frank Kermit explains the remaining 6 to 10 of the 10 emotional needs of women and how through his actions, a man can either meet or violate them. In addition, Frank explains how he was able to establish multiple open relationships with women who had previously never practiced polyamory.
Alec Chase interviews Frank Kermit, Emotional Needs of Women part 1
Published on Jun 17, 2015, In Part 1,
Frank Kermit explains the first 1 to 5, of the 10 emotional needs of women and how through his actions, a man can either meet or violate them. To understand how they work, Frank explains that emotional needs are what a person responds to, not what they like. He also explains “Mother Lover Theory” which, underpins how a woman responds to a man’s behavior in context of each emotional need.
Frank Kermit explains the first 1 to 5, of the 10 emotional needs of women and how through his actions, a man can either meet or violate them. To understand how they work, Frank explains that emotional needs are what a person responds to, not what they like. He also explains “Mother Lover Theory” which, underpins how a woman responds to a man’s behavior in context of each emotional need.
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Nice Guy Dating Podcast is a podcast and web show that will help YOU start finishing first with women. It features the most inspiring and successful experts in the field of personal development, mixed with rants from Kevin Alexander about his personal journey through dating, answers to some of your most pressing questions, and even success stories from guys just like YOU on Nice Guy Nation. Produced and Hosted by Kevin Alexander
Published on Jul 2, 2016, E236: Save Her From Jerks with Frank Kermit
Here are some things you’ll discover in this show: What inspired Frank to turn his life around from not being good with women to having the kind of life he wants to live Why Frank chose to change his life rather than other options that he took before How Frank started interviewing the people who appeared to have a great love life and what he learned Why Frank learned the art of knowing what you want and going out to get it What makes a guy a jerk, and why some girls may be attracted to them What it might mean when you want to save a girl from a jerk, and it’s not what you think Why some women will leave a relationship just out of boredom What you can do to steal a girl away from a jerk
Here are some things you’ll discover in this show: What inspired Frank to turn his life around from not being good with women to having the kind of life he wants to live Why Frank chose to change his life rather than other options that he took before How Frank started interviewing the people who appeared to have a great love life and what he learned Why Frank learned the art of knowing what you want and going out to get it What makes a guy a jerk, and why some girls may be attracted to them What it might mean when you want to save a girl from a jerk, and it’s not what you think Why some women will leave a relationship just out of boredom What you can do to steal a girl away from a jerk
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G. L. Henderson is an award-winning author and in his acclaimed work, "The Fantasy Master" he asks the question, "At what price are you willing to pay to have a Fantasy? Are you willing to give up the love in your life for a temporary moment of pleasure?"
G.L. covers a wide range of situations dealing with the human experience. From the mentality of an emotionally battered woman to the sensuous depths she experiences in her imagination and physical being.
G.L. was nominated for top new non-fiction author by the Charlotte's Literary and Arts Awards. G.L. is coming off a self-titled national book tour, sponsored by the Oakley Corp. As a finalist for the Ebony Magazine's Top-Rated Eligible Bachelor of 2006. G.L. has a lot to say on the topic of romance and relationships. Covering both the bachelor standpoint, and the feminine perspective, he gives us the privilege of others' experiences... who dare to share. The emotional depth in his work personifies the accuracy and mystery required of such themes. The experiences of the human spirit are explained so eloquently and tastefully through his mind.
G.L. covers a wide range of situations dealing with the human experience. From the mentality of an emotionally battered woman to the sensuous depths she experiences in her imagination and physical being.
G.L. was nominated for top new non-fiction author by the Charlotte's Literary and Arts Awards. G.L. is coming off a self-titled national book tour, sponsored by the Oakley Corp. As a finalist for the Ebony Magazine's Top-Rated Eligible Bachelor of 2006. G.L. has a lot to say on the topic of romance and relationships. Covering both the bachelor standpoint, and the feminine perspective, he gives us the privilege of others' experiences... who dare to share. The emotional depth in his work personifies the accuracy and mystery required of such themes. The experiences of the human spirit are explained so eloquently and tastefully through his mind.
Infidelity: The Root of Marital Evil - how to get over it and survive
Frank Kermit makes his 3rd appearance on The G L Henderson Hour on the Artist First website network. On this show Frank and G L discuss Infidelity: the root of marital evil. A wife catches her husband having an affair, and then catches him with the same woman again. Should she leave him? They have two children together. Also discussed are ways to affair proof your marriage, accidental affairs, making monogamy work, getting past a betrayal of trust, getting over the hurt of an affair and more...Frank also shares his own story of how he got over being cheated on, finding peace and forgiveness and how he coaches singles and couples who are surviving an affair.
Can a Threesome Save A Sexless Marriage?
Published on Apr 26, 2016
Can a threesome save a sexless marriage? G L Henderson of the Artist First network talks to Frank Kermit about it. This is Frank's 2nd appearance on the show
Can a threesome save a sexless marriage? G L Henderson of the Artist First network talks to Frank Kermit about it. This is Frank's 2nd appearance on the show
Sexual Health and Families out of Control
Date: February 21, 2013 Title: G. L. Henderson Radio Hour
Frank Kermit makes his 1st appearance on the G L Henderson Radio Hour. On this show, Frank and G.L. talk about Sexual Health and Families Out Of Control.
Frank Kermit makes his 1st appearance on the G L Henderson Radio Hour. On this show, Frank and G.L. talk about Sexual Health and Families Out Of Control.
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Peter Anthony Holder is a professional broadcaster. He has decades of experience in the media industry, He is the producer and host of THE STUPH FILE Podcast. To learn more about Peter Anthony Holder please visit http://www.peteranthonyholder.com/.
Frank's Weight Loss
The STUPH FILE Program Episode #0717, Original Air Date: May 14, 2023
Peter Anthony Holder interviews Frank Kermit who is a relationship coach that we’ve had on the program several times over the years, has a new coaching service that is near and dear to his heart. He’s now a certified weight loss coach, after he himself lost over 200 pounds. This is Frank's 18th appearance on the program.
To listen to the episode please visit The Stuph File with Peter Anthony Holder
Peter Anthony Holder interviews Frank Kermit who is a relationship coach that we’ve had on the program several times over the years, has a new coaching service that is near and dear to his heart. He’s now a certified weight loss coach, after he himself lost over 200 pounds. This is Frank's 18th appearance on the program.
To listen to the episode please visit The Stuph File with Peter Anthony Holder
Relationships and Social Media.
The STUPH FILE Program Episode #0706, Original Air Date: February 23, 2023
Peter Anthony Holder interviews Frank Kermit about relationships and social media. This is Frank's 17th appearance on the program.
To listen to the episode please visit The Stuph File with Peter Anthony Holder
Peter Anthony Holder interviews Frank Kermit about relationships and social media. This is Frank's 17th appearance on the program.
To listen to the episode please visit The Stuph File with Peter Anthony Holder
Dating in the Time of the Covid-19 Pandemic.
The STUPH FILE Program Episode #0607, Original Air Date: April 3, 2021
Peter Anthony Holder interviews Frank Kermit about dating in the time of the Covid-19 pandemic. It’s a topic that Frank has written articles about, one of which you can find here.. This is Frank's 16th appearance on the program.
To listen to the episode please visit The Stuph File with Peter Anthony Holder
Peter Anthony Holder interviews Frank Kermit about dating in the time of the Covid-19 pandemic. It’s a topic that Frank has written articles about, one of which you can find here.. This is Frank's 16th appearance on the program.
To listen to the episode please visit The Stuph File with Peter Anthony Holder
How Dating has Changed for the Next Generation
The STUPH FILE Program Episode #0484, Original Air Date: November 25, 2018
Peter Anthony Holder interviews Frank Kermit discusses how dating has changed for the next generation.. This is Frank's 15th appearance on the program.
To listen to the episode please visit The Stuph File with Peter Anthony Holder
Peter Anthony Holder interviews Frank Kermit discusses how dating has changed for the next generation.. This is Frank's 15th appearance on the program.
To listen to the episode please visit The Stuph File with Peter Anthony Holder
How Soon in a Relationship Should You Start Having Sex?
The STUPH FILE Program Episode #0476, Original Air Date: September 30, 2018
Peter Anthony Holder interviews Frank Kermit answers the question, how soon in a relationship should you start having sex?.. This is Frank's 14th appearance on the program.
To listen to the episode please visit The Stuph File with Peter Anthony Holder
Peter Anthony Holder interviews Frank Kermit answers the question, how soon in a relationship should you start having sex?.. This is Frank's 14th appearance on the program.
To listen to the episode please visit The Stuph File with Peter Anthony Holder
Dating Someone Who Has Been Single for a Long Time
The STUPH FILE Program Episode #0446, Original Air Date: March 4, 2018
Peter Anthony Holder interviews Frank Kermit about dating someone who has been single for a long time. Apparently there is a shelf life for serial singles as many might shun them as a potential mate.. This is Frank's 13th appearance on the program.
To listen to the episode please visit The Stuph File with Peter Anthony Holder
Peter Anthony Holder interviews Frank Kermit about dating someone who has been single for a long time. Apparently there is a shelf life for serial singles as many might shun them as a potential mate.. This is Frank's 13th appearance on the program.
To listen to the episode please visit The Stuph File with Peter Anthony Holder
Cuffing Season
The STUPH FILE Program Episode #0433, Original Air Date: December 2, 2017
Peter Anthony Holder interviews Frank Kermit about Cuffing Season the period during the holiday season when some singles get back into old relationships to avoid being alone during the holidays. This is Frank's 12th appearance on the program.
To listen to the episode please visit The Stuph File with Peter Anthony Holder
Peter Anthony Holder interviews Frank Kermit about Cuffing Season the period during the holiday season when some singles get back into old relationships to avoid being alone during the holidays. This is Frank's 12th appearance on the program.
To listen to the episode please visit The Stuph File with Peter Anthony Holder
People who have been deemed “undateable.”
The STUPH FILE Program Episode #0401, Original Air Date: April 23, 2017
Peter Anthony Holder interviews Frank Kermit about People deemed "undateable". This is Frank's 11th appearance on the program.
To listen to the episode please visit The Stuph File with Peter Anthony Holder
Peter Anthony Holder interviews Frank Kermit about People deemed "undateable". This is Frank's 11th appearance on the program.
To listen to the episode please visit The Stuph File with Peter Anthony Holder
Minefield of Valentine's Day
The STUPH FILE Program Episode #0285, Original Air Date: February 2, 2015
Peter Anthony Holder interviews Frank Kermit about the minefield that is Valentine's Day. This is Frank's 10th appearance on the program.
Peter Anthony Holder interviews Frank Kermit about the minefield that is Valentine's Day. This is Frank's 10th appearance on the program.
Social Media, New Technologies and Dating & Relationships
The STUPH FILE Program, Episode #0276, Original Air Date: December 1, 2014
Peter Anthony Holder interviews Frank Kermit about technology, social media in relationships and dating. This is Frank's 9th appearance on the program.
Peter Anthony Holder interviews Frank Kermit about technology, social media in relationships and dating. This is Frank's 9th appearance on the program.
Communication in Dating and Relationships
The STUPH FILE Program, Episode #0270, Original Air Date: October 20, 2014
Peter Anthony Holder interviews Frank Kermit about communication in relationships and dating. This is Frank's 8th appearance on the program
Peter Anthony Holder interviews Frank Kermit about communication in relationships and dating. This is Frank's 8th appearance on the program
The Great Love Debate - Why Are We Still Single?
The STUPH FILE Program, Episode #0258, Original Air Date: July 29 2014
Peter Anthony Holder interviews Frank Kermit about Why are people still single in a time when there are more ways than ever to meet someone. Also discussed is The Great Love Debate International Tour 2014 in Montreal. This is Frank's 7th appearance on the program.
Peter Anthony Holder interviews Frank Kermit about Why are people still single in a time when there are more ways than ever to meet someone. Also discussed is The Great Love Debate International Tour 2014 in Montreal. This is Frank's 7th appearance on the program.
Age Gap Relationships
The STUPH FILE Program, Episode #0251, Original Air Date: June 6 2014
Peter Anthony Holder interviews Frank Kermit about Age Gap Relationships. This is Frank's 6th appearance on the show.
Peter Anthony Holder interviews Frank Kermit about Age Gap Relationships. This is Frank's 6th appearance on the show.
Making Ultimatums in Dating and Relationships
The STUPH FILE Program, Episode #0243, Original Air Date: April, 2014
Peter Anthony Holder interviews Frank Kermit about making ultimatums in dating and relationships. This is Frank's 5th appearance on the show.
Peter Anthony Holder interviews Frank Kermit about making ultimatums in dating and relationships. This is Frank's 5th appearance on the show.
New Relationships Going into the Holidays
The STUPH FILE Program, Episode #0225, Original Air Date: December, 2013
Peter Anthony Holder interviews Frank Kermit about new relationships and going to holiday gatherings with friends, co-workers and family. This is Frank's 4th appearance on the program.
Peter Anthony Holder interviews Frank Kermit about new relationships and going to holiday gatherings with friends, co-workers and family. This is Frank's 4th appearance on the program.
Bad Media Representations of Dating and Relationships
The STUPH FILE Program, Episode #0222, Original Air Date: November, 2013
Peter Anthony Holder interviews Frank Kermit about bad relationships being portrayed in the media for humor and as a sales tool and how that may affect audiences. This is Frank's 3rd appearance on the program.
Peter Anthony Holder interviews Frank Kermit about bad relationships being portrayed in the media for humor and as a sales tool and how that may affect audiences. This is Frank's 3rd appearance on the program.
The STUPH FILE Program, Episode #0178, Original Air Date: January 14, 2013
Peter Anthony Holder interviews Frank Kermit about Couples in Transition and Pre Wedding Conversations. This is Frank's 2nd appearance on the program.
Peter Anthony Holder interviews Frank Kermit about Couples in Transition and Pre Wedding Conversations. This is Frank's 2nd appearance on the program.
Frank Kermit does the Intro for The STUPH File
The STUPH FILE Program, Episode #0157, Original Air Date: August 20, 2012,
Peter Anthony Holder presents Frank Kermit voicing the intro to his STUPH FILE Program podcast. This is Frank's 1st appearance on the program
Peter Anthony Holder presents Frank Kermit voicing the intro to his STUPH FILE Program podcast. This is Frank's 1st appearance on the program
Frank Talks Radio interviews Peter Anthony Holder
Frank Interviews Peter Anthony Holder, Episode #1009, Original Air Date: June 2010
Peter Anthony Holder is a professional broadcaster. He has decades of experience in the media industry, and shares his stories about how he got started, what it takes to be a broadcaster, who he worked with, who he learned from and studied under and very special inside information that only a man with broadcast experience would know.
Peter Anthony Holder is a professional broadcaster. He has decades of experience in the media industry, and shares his stories about how he got started, what it takes to be a broadcaster, who he worked with, who he learned from and studied under and very special inside information that only a man with broadcast experience would know.
