The Frank Law of Attraction

7/18/2016

The Frank Law of Attraction
Originally published July 18, 2016, updated April 20, 2018
By Frank Kermit

The Frank Law of Attraction is based on one single premise:

What you do to get the person

must be the same thing as what

you do to keep the person.

Most attraction tactics focus on getting someone to like you, however they do not focus on keeping that person around.

That is the paradox of most pick up strategies as those routines focus on getting someone immediately turned on; but has no substance to keep any serious long term relationship alive.

Here are some of the talks that come up with men and women in my coaching sessions when perpetually single people come in and want to figure out why they cannot find someone that wants to commit to him or her long term, despite the fact they have less trouble finding short term volunteers.

If you do not want her to leave when the money runs out, then do not use money as your primary means of attracting her.

If you do not want him to leave when your breasts start to sag, then do not use your breasts as your primary means of attracting him.

If you do not want her to leave when the adventure of traveling must be replaced by settling down to manage your responsibilities, then do not use adventures of traveling as your primary means of attracting her.

If you do not want him to leave when the sex ends, then do not use sex as your primary means of attracting him.

If you do not want her to leave when your buff body suffers life altering health problems, then do not use your buff body as your primary means of attracting her.

If you do not want him to leave when the lies get found out, then do not use lies as your primary means of attracting him.

If you do not want her to leave when she discovers you have no intention of being monogamous, then do not use the promise of monogamy as your primary means of attracting her.

If you do not want him to leave when youthful beauty fades, then do not use your youthful beauty as your primary means of attracting him.

If you do not want her to leave when you can no longer afford lavish gifts, then do not use lavish gifts as your primary means of attracting her.

If you do not want him to leave when you stop supporting his drug habit, then do not use enabling his habit as your primary means of attracting him.

If you do not want her to leave when you demand that she stop flirting with every man she knows, then do not use admiration of her flirtatious nature as your primary means of attracting her.

If you do not want him to leave when you admit that you do not want to have kids, then do not use the promise of a family as your primary means of attracting him.

Whatever you plan to use to keep the person with you long term, needs to be the very elements that you must use to attract the person.

These include your common values, your similar life plans and goals, and your personality and ability to connect.

Frank Kermit

emotional needs of a girl

Don't you hate how what you do to attract someone tends to be different than the skills to keep them?

NOT WITH THIS SYSTEM!

In Frank's Emotional Needs, what you do to attract someone is THE SAME THING you do to KEEP THEM!

Imagine, how easy it is to learn ONE SYSTEM that does it all!