How do I know if he likes me?
(He asked me what my weekend plans were, but didn’t ask me out. By the way I said "no plans yet...")
-No Date Yet
Frank Advice Answer:
Dear No Date Yet,
Given the current climate in society right now, he likely wants to ask you out, but is worried that you will be offended in some way.
Did you communicate to him that you wanted him to ask you out?
If you do want to go on a date with him, you could have said:
“I have no plans. If you're free too, do you want to get together?”
Did you ask him if he had plans this weekend? That would have shown him that you are interested in knowing his availability to date.
It sounds like he may like you, but he wants more of a sign that you would be open to being asked out.
We are at a time where the #MeToo movement is changing the way people interact with each other. Do NOT expect him to chase you! Do NOT make him have to jump through hoops to pursue you!
If you do that, you will only attract the jerks who want the challenge of the "conquest", and you will be pushing away the good men who avoid women who play games.
After years of coaching so many men, it is very clear that most men will NOT ask out a woman unless she gives a clear sign that she is interested AND will say yes.
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