Finding The Right Sex Toy For A Couple

Find The Right Sex Toys For A Couple by Dr Stacy Friedman

How to Find the Right Toy for a Couple
By Dr. Stacy Friedman

Whether you’re a beginner or more advanced in using adult toys, knowing what toy to bring into your relationship may be confusing.

Some people may feel that they are less of a lover or not capable enough to please their partner if they need or want to use toys,

but that can’t be further from the truth!

Toys are great if you want to spice things up!

They can enhance any relationship and can even help with difficulty in having orgasms.

When it comes to finding the right toys for a couple,

communication is important so you are both on the same page.

You need to see what the purpose of the toy is,

whether it’s just to try something new or if you struggle reaching orgasm and you want a toy to help.

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Dress Up And Role Play

For The Beginners

Starting for the beginners, finding something a little more simple and less intimidating is key.

Then you can move to a few advanced ideas

Here are some tips
so you know what toys may be best for what you need.

1. Start with some lotions, oils or soy massage candles. A soy candle with the wax poured on the skin after the candle is blown out will not burn the skin but can be erotic, fun and can also be used as a massage oil. There are enhancing creams containing stimulating gel that increases the blood flow and gives a throbbing feel between your legs. Try some edible warming massage oil and lick it off the body. Yum! Don’t forget the lube. Lube makes everything glide better!

Lotions, and Lubes and Oils! Oh My!

Book For Beginners

2. My beginner go-to toy starts with a silver bullet. It’s called a silver bullet because that’s exactly what it looks like. It’s a stimulator that is used on the clit as it vibrates. It can also be used on the male’s perineum (area between the testicles and the anus) while giving oral sex for a heightened experience. Use it on the clit while having intercourse to enhance the sensation for those who struggle with vaginal orgasms.

3. The next thing you can use is a C-ring, which is great for men to keep the blood flow in the penis, which can help them last longer. If you get one with the bullet attached to the ring, it can help women have an orgasm through intercourse because it rubs on the clit as the man penetrates.

Penetrating Thoughts

Believe it or not 75% of women can’t have an orgasm through intercourse so this helps take some of the pressure off!

Just make sure lube is used when putting the ring on or it may not slide on very comfortably…ouch!

What's Your Fetish?

4. As you get more comfortable, you can bring in some light bondage such as handcuffs, rope ties and blindfolds. As long as both adults consent and you have trust in each other, then playing with these toys can be very erotic. When using these toys, you are taking away one or more of the senses so it allows the other senses to be more enhanced…very stimulating!

5. To the more advanced couple, you can try anal plugs or anal beads (they have vibrating ones too!) and try stimulating the forgotten pleasure zone…the anus! Get yourself some silicone lube, which is best to use on the backside and go slow, listen to your partner and how they are feeling, then continue playing around while the plug or beads are still inside.

Sensually Anal

The plug is a great prostate stimulator so anyone can enjoy anal play. Give some oral or have intercourse and then feel the intensity of your orgasm!

Don’t knock it until you try it!

The most important thing is deciding together, as a couple, what is best and just be open to trying something new. If it doesn’t work, then try something else but be open to variety, as it is the spice of life!

Written by: Dr. Stacy Friedman

About The Author

Dr. Stacy Friedman, DHS, CSC

Dr. Stacy is the founder of Creating Intimacy Coach, Inc. She got involved in the field of Clinical Sexology because of her passion for helping people learn to experience the best sexual intimacy with themselves and with their partner(s). She holds a Doctorate degree in Human Sexuality, a Masters in Clinical Sexology and is a Certified Sex Coach. Dr. Stacy is a member of WASC (World Association of Sex Coaches), and of the ACS (American College of Sexologists), which shows she has earned top credentials in her field. She also has a BA in Psychology and a Registered Diagnostic Medical and Vascular Sonographer.

Sex Coaching is designed to help women, men, and people of any sexual orientation or gender address their concerns about sexuality, sexual function and sexual expression. Additionally, since 2006, Dr. Stacy has been a consultant selling adult novelties and has coached and educated many people in a fun, positive approach to love, romance and in all aspects of sexuality. Her education and personal, spiritual and sexual journey, including life experience uniquely enables her to help people to face the challenges that may lie ahead and to achieve their goals.

If you would like to discuss a concern in greater detail, you may contact Dr. Stacy at 561-899-7669 or by email at Stacy@drstacy.org for a complimentary consultation. Dr. Stacy works with all aspects of sexuality and specializes in women’s issues, low libido, couples with mismatched sex drives and LGBTQ concerns. Coaching sessions are available by phone, Skype (international coaching is offered) and in office sessions located in South Florida, US.

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