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Life is Not a Fairytale
by Frank Kermit
You are not a helpless, beautiful princess in peril needing to be saved because of how pretty you are, nor a handsome prince who is also a knight setting out to rescue someone as a means of earning true love.
You have a lot more power and control over your own destiny than you were raised to believe you had. Believing in fairy tales may have been acceptable when we were children, but it is destructive to base decisions made for your adult love life on what fairy tales taught you.
The first thing is you do not need anyone to save you from a life of loneliness or from ending up with the wrong person. You have the power (and dare I say the obligation) to save yourself.
Want to be rescued from poverty? Earn your own money and build your own wealth.
Want to get out of a bad living situation? Make whatever sacrifice to get yourself educated or knowledgeable enough to get yourself out of there.
Want to make sure that you do not end up alone? Be proactive in meeting new people and become the kind of person that others would want to date.
Stop waiting for someone to come along to find you. You go find that someone first.
The second thing is instead of looking for a life partner that you would need to save first, you should be seeking someone that can be a contributing partner to help you build the future you both agree on.
You are lovable without having to save someone from him-or-herself in order to earn love.
In fact, even if you do save someone, you may earn their gratitude, and you may earn their appreciation, but you did not automatically earn that person’s love.
Demanding someone love you just because you saved the person (from themselves or from someone else) does not guarantee love. It never has regardless of what fairy tales imply.
Stop trying to "hero" your way to love.
And the scariest part about this life lesson for your love life?
The realization that there is no guarantee of a happily ever after, even when you meet someone wonderfully suited to you.
Life is a series of struggles, and ups and downs.
Even when you find that magical connection and sustainable relationship, you are still dealing with two flawed human beings that will have to contend with everything nasty life has to throw at you both.
From friends and family who refuse to accept or acknowledge your love, to dealing with the death of loved ones, personal sickness, challenges as parents, broken trusts, financial concerns and other elements too numerous to mention all of which can send even the strongest couples into the negative portion of divorce statistics.
Singles who are caught up on having:
-the perfect date,
-the perfect fantasy romance,
-the perfect fantasy wedding, and
-the perfect family life
will more than likely end up perfectly single.
Life is not perfect, and neither are you.
The sooner you accept that, the sooner you will be ready for a real relationship.
-Frank Kermit
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Sugar Baby and Sugar Daddy Websites
Aalia Adam interviews Frank Kermit in 2 part Sugar Baby Story
Single Going Into The Holidays
Frank Kermit makes his 2nd appearance on Global Morning News Montreal Television show. On this show, Camille Ross interviews Frank about Being Single Going Into The Holidays. Relationship Coach Frank Kermit offers a few tips on how to deal with being alone at a time of celebration. In this 4 minute interview, Frank talked to Camille Ross about "What a Single Person Can Do Going Into the Holidays." Here are a few things you'll learn: -One thing you can do RIGHT NOW to change your life and be with a great person this holiday season -Why THIS is the BEST time of the year to meet someone new, and turn a friend into a lover -A technique that is so easy and fast to build up your self confidence and self-esteem, you will wonder why you did not think about it yourself already? -What is the BIGGEST mistake singles make during this time of the year in dating? -How to approach someone at an office holiday party to start a conversation? -What is the mindset when you go out to meet people during the holidays? -What is the 1 thing you CONTROL and how to use that to your full advantage? -How to respond to anyone that tells you to Stop Looking and it will come to you!
Single After Valentine's Day
Frank Kermit makes his 1st appearance on Global Morning News Montreal Television show. On this show, Camille Ross interviews Frank about Starting Over and Being Single after Valentine's Day. Relationship Coach Frank Kermit offers a few tips on how to jump-start your dating life after Valentine's day.
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Men's Room Seminar - Frank Storytelling For Dates
Frank Kermit is a guest on the Men's Room Webinar. Kermit, joins producer Mike Dawson and they talk about Frank Storytelling.
Men's Room Seminar - Building a Persona (Inner Game)
Frank Kermit is a guest on the Men's Room Webinar. Kermit, joins Mark Sparks and Mike Dawson and they talk about building a persona and modeling new beliefs and behaviors to integrate into your personality.
Mens Room Season 2 - The Emotional Needs of Men
-What the purpose of qualifying a women is and how to do it
-Setting up categories of women based on what you want
-How specific criteria can lead to easy conversation topics
-What value matching is and how it’s a fast way to figure out in a woman is worth your time
-The 10 emotional needs of men and how being aware of them can save your relationships
-How to know yourself before you begin qualifying others
-The distinction of how men and women see sex as it relates to their emotional needs
-How to experiment sexually if you’re not sure what you like in bed
-What the most dangerous emotional need is
-The two principals that creating attraction is based on
-The frustration circle and how to avoid it in your own life
-The ‘friend zone’ and how it’s actually a sign of disrespect towards you
-The number one rule of a monogamous relationship
-Becoming aware of how your mother raised you and how it’s impacting your relationships
-The red flags that women can display that you should be aware of
Men's Room Season 2 - Great First Dates
-How to be your best self on the first date
-A great technique to show off your best features that will build a connection with her
-What your first date absolutely HAS to have
-Rules for success on a first date
-What to make sure you avoid on a first date to ensure she’ll see you again
-Great conversation topics that she’ll remember you by
-How to make one date feel like multiple dates so you can build comfort faster
-Being aware of setting precedents on first dates
-How to qualify a women to determine whether or not you want a first date with her
-Frank’s thoughts about kissing on a first date – it may surprise you
-The Eskimo kiss technique
-Observing the sexual dynamic on a first date and how to navigate it
-The rules of dating as a teenager vs dating as an adult and how things change
-Your obligation on a first date, and how to make sure she knows you’re interested in her
-The killer line to give her if she’s trying to put you in the friend zone
-Sex and the first date, and whether you should be aiming for it or not
-What the last location on a first date must have
-Thing you should have in your home for seduction
-Eliciting states in her to bring up powerful emotions of seduction
-How to get rid of the stigma of taking her to your place on the first date
-A fun game to play on your first date that can spark hours of conversation
-A game you can play while speed dating that will allow you to get to know her very fast
-Pulling out her hot words that you can use back on her later
-The 3 million dollar question to discover her priorities
Men's Room Season 1 on DVD!
Men's Room Season 1 Episode 20 - Deep Inner Game
Men's Room Season 1, Episode 2 - Why Women Test (Emotional Needs)
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Bonus Track for Survive Her Affair
Frank Kermit makes his 1st appearance. Kevin Jackson author and founder of Survive Her Affair, interviews Frank Kermit as part of a series of audio bonus to the purchase of his book. This is a 10 minute preview of the first interview for you to listen to, and get an idea of how men react to being cheated on by their wives.
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The Goodbye Show
Frank Kermit makes his 6th and final appearance on The Art of Love Podcast, hosted by Lucia. This marks the last episode of this podcast as Lucia hosts her Good Bye Show. Frank Kermit, the guest holding the record for most appearances is interviewed for a brief good bye interview.
Answering The "Should I have an Affair with Younger Man?" Question
Frank Kermit makes his 5th appearance on The Art of Love Podcast, hosted by Lucia. On this show, Lucia receives an email from a woman who has been married for 20+years but is sexual unsatisfied and is thinking about having an affair with a much younger man renting their basement. Lucia posted this question on Facebook, and Frank responded in a way that Lucia invited Frank to come on air for the second half of her show.
Frank Kermit makes his 4th appearance on The Art of Love Podcast, hosted by Lucia. On this show, Frank and Lucia talk about an article that Lucia wrote regarding nice guys and why women like jerks. the article went viral and to help address a number of the responses from male readers, Frank and Lucia will dissect the article to figure out what the controversy is all about.
Frank Kermit makes his 3rd appearance on The Art of Love Podcast, hosted by Lucia. On this show, Frank and Lucia talk the Making Monogamy Work. Who does monogamy hurt more - men or women? What are the rules of monogamy? Is there a difference between monogamy and commitment?
Frank Kermit makes his 2nd appearance on The Art of Love Podcast, hosted by Lucia. On this show, Frank and Lucia talk the Emotional Needs of Women and Frank's book The Emotional Needs Analysis Workbook volume 1. If a woman doesn't want to have sex with a man, it's because he's not satisfying one or more of her emotional needs. Find out what they are in this truly enlightening interview with Frank Kermit, relationship coach and author of, "The Emotional Needs Analysis Workbook".
Frank Kermit is a guest on The Art of Love Podcast, hosted by Lucia. On this show, Frank and Lucia talk the Emotional Needs of Men and Frank's book The Emotional Needs OF MEN Analysis Workbook.
Frank Interviews Lucia
Lucia is a Dating and Relationship Expert whose intent is to entertain, educate and enlighten. Known throughout major media as a "Cougar Expert", Lucia defends and coaches older women who are dating and in relationships with younger men. In addition to her Cougar expertise she also produces an internet podcast radio show, writes a weekly column, has authored a book and has appeared regularly on multiple talk shows including The Tyra Banks Show and The Dr. Phil Show
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Frank Kermit makes his 1st appearance on the SwankLife Podcast Show hosted by Jake Swank. In an episode entitled "We're Seducers Not Monsters", Frank and Jake talk about Self Actualization Inner Game, The Art of Calibration, Guys who are "just friends" with girls, multiple women management, ethics and seduction, monogamous relationship structures and non-monogamous relationships structures, abusive relationships, and an introduction to Frank's original emotional needs theories. This is the first of two episodes that was recorded. The second episode featuring Frank has yet to be released. To learn more about SwankLife please visit SwankLife.com
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Frank Kermit is the first person to be interviewed by, producer and author, Sindy St. James for her regular podcast show. This interview also marks the first time Frank Kermit was interviewed completely one on one by a woman about his Emotional Needs philosophies. We are still waiting on Sindy to send us Part 2 of the interview that was recorded but not yet edited.
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Frank Kermit makes his 1st and only appearance on The Principle of Lust Podcast. On this show, Miami PUA interviews Frank about Seduction and Relationships.
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Frank Kermit is the first ever guest on TDC Radio interview series. This series is hosted by Evan D. Frank and Evan D. of OnlineSeductionSecrets.com talk about Inner Game.
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Frank Kermit makes his 1st appearance EHealth Radio. Host Eric Michaels and Frank about why relationships can be so challenging, what people can do right now to learn more about relationships and how Frank got started in the relationship business